Another one bites the dust. *Sigh*

[HS Lifter]

He could have controlled her by wrapping it up....mess with the bull and you deserve to get the horns.

Exactly.

Funny thing is, we would talk after one of their prior break ups.

I would tell him, "Dude, at least you didn't get her pregant, or else you would have to see that crazy bitch for the rest of your life".

Irony is funny sometimes.

 

[msam76]

Sorry hs lifter. That sucks for your best bud. But, he will need support, it will be hard, but be there for him.

 

[HS Lifter]

Sorry hs lifter. That sucks for your best bud. But, he will need support, it will be hard, but be there for him.

I will.

 

[pdaddy]

Who knows, she might have got knocked up to control him further.

UPDATE: I went to dinner with my friend, we talked about everything. I told him good luck, but didn't reveal my true feelings.(i.e he is fucked).

And guess who shows up? The bitch knows I hate her and she still shows up. I kept things civil for my friend, or else I would have left on a dime.

What a fucking waste.

I might not get invited to the wedding, but if I do, should I go?(I dont think I want to).

WHat do you guys think?

open bar = yes
cash bar = no

 

[-SD-]

Go to the wedding bor. I know they have the odds stacked against them but lets try not to judge their fate. He is at least manning up and getting married instead of running away and becoming a deadbeat. Their situation is really not that unusual by the way.

 

[crew9]

Go to the wedding bor. I know they have the odds stacked against them but lets try not to judge their fate. He is at least manning up and getting married instead of running away and becoming a deadbeat. Their situation is really not that unusual by the way.

Getting married to the girl you knockup isn't manning up it's fucking up unless you're in love with her. A househould were the parents don't get along isn't any better for a kid to grow up in than visiting daddy on the weekends.

 

[heatherrae]

I'm sorry this happened to your friend when he was not planning it. I guess if he is set on getting married, just support him and try not to metnion to him anymore how much you hate his fiance. It may alienate the two of you.

 

[HS Lifter]

I'm sorry this happened to your friend when he was not planning it. I guess if he is set on getting married, just support him and try not to metnion to him anymore how much you hate his fiance. It may alienate the two of you.

Easier said then done. But yeah, I don't tell him anything anymore, but sometimes it shows through my actions.

I told him in the past I dont want to be around her and I don't think that will change.

In the end, I am still his friend. We will just be hanging out when she is not around, hence the term, I will be in the "shadows". But sometimes that doesnt even work when she suddenly appears at out of no where (Dinner).

Anyway, we will see what happens.

 

[pdaddy]

Getting married to the girl you knockup isn't manning up it's fucking up unless you're in love with her. A househould were the parents don't get along isn't any better for a kid to grow up in than visiting daddy on the weekends.

well said

 

[-SD-]

Getting married to the girl you knockup isn't manning up it's fucking up unless you're in love with her. A househould were the parents don't get along isn't any better for a kid to grow up in than visiting daddy on the weekends.

I know plenty of people who've been married 10,20,30 and it all started because the guy knocked up the girl. And they get along and kids turned out ok. All Im saying is try not to jump the gun, because if they make it and end up being a good family, you are the one who will have to live with the fact that they knew you thought they werent going to make it.
Try being positive because it sounds like the last thing they need is for a friend to think they are doomed from the start.