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Am I The Only Guy Who Doesnt Like This?

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the only thing i want to know about a girls past is stuff that may tip me off to her being a nutcase, and her relationship with her family. thats it.

i DO NOT want to hear about her former BFs, or how many doods shes bagged. now ladies? thats fine. that will allow me to dump her early in the relationship.

i started thinking about this on BodyByFinaplixs post over at the sheets board. and it seems to be a conversation that every couple will have. but i would rather just not say anything.

is anyone with me here?
 
i've been married for almost 2 years and i don't know or do i ever want to know how many my wife had...


yeah dude i'm with ya
 
It is something everyone asks but really doesn't want the truthful answer to. I would much rather hear that she only slept with 3 compared to the 20 she probably has slept with. I just assume they are all skanks I just don't perfer to know to what degree of skankdom she has acheived. Better left to the imagination.
 
I wouldn't want to know the gory details, but an honest discussion of past sexual history wouldn't bother me. What the hell do I care what the girl did before she met me?

People have sex...some people have more sex than others. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them.
 
I don't blame you. I really don't care to know how many notches are on my man's belt. My ex wanted... insisted on knowing my # and names. Needless to say, I never heard the end of it, even after 5 years. He ended up seeing a couple of them at college and I always felt like I did something wrong the way he acted about it. It's the past... leave it in the past.
 
I have a virign bride.. untouched by any of your little maggots.
 
just think right NOW how SEVERAL guys have already spunked up her dozens/hundreds of times each....

she's a dirty little slut your missus.
 
Ashamed said:
just think right NOW how SEVERAL guys have already spunked up her dozens/hundreds of times each....

she's a dirty little slut your missus.

What makes you so sure that your 'virgin bride' really is a virgin?
 
Imnotdutch said:


What makes you so sure that your 'virgin bride' really is a virgin?

I know. End of story.....

I didn't want a slut as a wife...
 
I wouldn't even be with a girl that I wasn't sure or did not know how many guys she has been with. First girlfriend was a virgin as was I, second been with 2 guys and 3rd which is my fiance has only been with three guys. My fiance and I had a 3some with one of our friends so I've had sex with a total of 4 girls. There are still people out there that aren't complete whores.
 
so your saying if you married a chick, and later found out she has been with over 60 guys, it would not bother you? or effect your realationship? or say you found out that the only thing that really gets her off is gangbangs, you wouldnt want to know this before hand?


Nihilist said:
the only thing i want to know about a girls past is stuff that may tip me off to her being a nutcase, and her relationship with her family. thats it.

i DO NOT want to hear about her former BFs, or how many doods shes bagged. now ladies? thats fine. that will allow me to dump her early in the relationship.

i started thinking about this on BodyByFinaplixs post over at the sheets board. and it seems to be a conversation that every couple will have. but i would rather just not say anything.

is anyone with me here?
 
If you don't want to know then don't ask. And when you're told it none-ya then don't bug her over & over asking how many? how many? till she tells you then you reply with "You whore."

I know people this has happened to. If you can't handle then let it be.
 
The more triple imputs they have had the better. That way when they get to me I won't have to stretch them out more.
 
a chick with 60 notches on her belt qualifies her, to me , as a headcase. i know girls who get around, and they are eaten up with other mental bullshit. they are also usually Bi, another group of women ive never met a balanced one of.
 
Ashamed said:


I know. End of story.....

I didn't want a slut as a wife...

You know?? How?? Did you personally get up there and check yourself prehand?? By your sn one could assume you are arab and think that your woman is untouched. I dated a arab girl a few times she sucked me off everytime we went out she was also a "virgin". So maybe your wife didn't take it in the snatch before your wedding night but rest assured she sucked some cock and possibly took it up the ass to maintain her "pureness". Good day.
 
SupraHero said:


You know?? How?? Did you personally get up there and check yourself prehand?? By your sn one could assume you are arab and think that your woman is untouched. I dated a arab girl a few times she sucked me off everytime we went out she was also a "virgin". So maybe your wife didn't take it in the snatch before your wedding night but rest assured she sucked some cock and possibly took it up the ass to maintain her "pureness". Good day.
Thats a little far-fetched broham. Its just way too easy to get caught up in the moment and just have sex than it is to suck someone off or take it in the ass for the sake of remaining a vaginal virgin.
 
I need to know. I cannot operate daily while intentionally wearing some mental veil of ignorance.

There is one universal rule: They always lie the first time they answer you.

This is the only thing that can hurt me. It's not pride in the macho bullshit sense. It hurts me because it prevents me from having identity, both as my own person and by keeping me/us (in my mind) from having a unique identity as a couple.

Each of the women I have been with, each of the women I have loved, has had a history that would turn one's stomach.

Still, I stood by them, as well as stand by my fiancee (sp?).

It's a very different kind of pain, though. I know every person. I know every detail. I see several of them on any given day, and can do so in multiple states.

I fully realize, even being her very best, that I am simply not special.

Every single time I close my eyes, I see her with them.




Even still, I would rather live with my pain than sit, pleased, with overwhelming ignorance.

Before you ask, you need to be ready to make the choice.
 
i don't care about how many a girl has been with, we all do our own stuff
the only thing i want ot know about ex's is what they fucked up so i don't do the same thing
 
I am married now but...

Yes, I sure as hell would want to know about her past relationships. In addition, I would not want (that is prefer) a girl who has slept with a bunch of guys - or even any other guy.

Realistic? Not in todays world. Nobody holds themselves to these standards.
 
Its pretty simple, an attractive or better girl is approached non stop by horny guys, day in day out. Its ABSOLUTE stupidity to assume that any girl holds herself with a high standard when it comes to sex really. Not limited to girls either, same with men.

With so much availability, why starve? Its not ignorant bliss for me as much as it really is an acceptance of reality. Shes probably been with alot of men, and will be with many more after me. Its an understanding.
 
Hmmm... I'll put some thought into this, and answer it later.
 
Man, I don't care about her past however, I sure as hell don't want her knowing about my sexual history (and it's not because I've slept with a lot of women either)
 
Imakarum_Mirabilis said:
I need to know. I cannot operate daily while intentionally wearing some mental veil of ignorance.

There is one universal rule: They always lie the first time they answer you.

This is the only thing that can hurt me. It's not pride in the macho bullshit sense. It hurts me because it prevents me from having identity, both as my own person and by keeping me/us (in my mind) from having a unique identity as a couple.

Each of the women I have been with, each of the women I have loved, has had a history that would turn one's stomach.

Still, I stood by them, as well as stand by my fiancee (sp?).

It's a very different kind of pain, though. I know every person. I know every detail. I see several of them on any given day, and can do so in multiple states.

I fully realize, even being her very best, that I am simply not special.

Every single time I close my eyes, I see her with them.




Even still, I would rather live with my pain than sit, pleased, with overwhelming ignorance.

Before you ask, you need to be ready to make the choice.

OMG, get over it already dude, its only sex
 
Imakarum_Mirabilis said:


You have all the depth of a thimble. Stand proud.

Its not about standing proud, its about being able to live with the shit that I can't control

why torture yourself like that bro?
 
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