Am I bad? dishonest?

[JohnnyO]

If this is a serious relationship then I would say yes it is unhealthy, but we both recently ended long term relationships, and are not in a hurry to get into another one. We both need fun and need our space, and we're recognizing that. Perhaps next year we'll act more like lovers.

For instance, maybe see each other once or twice a week, talk on the phone and go to the club together .. and if we go out of town together we'll have sex, but that's really about it.

And besides Michael isn't the ONLY one I "date" ..

 

[KAYNE]

Yes, Johnny, you are wrong unless your relationship is based on mutual distrust and deceit. How can you expect him to be honest with you about the important stuff if you can't be honest with him about the unimportant stuff.

WELL SAID MAY!!!

JOHNNY---YOU SHOULD HAVE JUST TOLD HIM THAT YOU COULDNT GET ENOUGH FOR TWO. IF HE COULDNT UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THAT THEN HE HAS TO DEAL WITH IT, ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. DOESNT HE KNOW ANYONE THAT CAN GET HIM SOME?

 

[ken343]

JohnnyO

I am bisexual and i too have a bf, and there is compition from his part not mine, u see i am black ,22yrs, 5ft10 and weigh 182 pounds of solid muscles. while my bf is white 6ft3, 28yrs old and weigh 192,

The problem is he hates the fact that i can lift more weight than him in the gym and that i have a better genetic structure because i have NEVER had a side effect to steriods were as he has.


When we go out because i get alot of attension in the gay sence, he sometimes does'nt like it


i think compition is healthy as long as it is not hurting another, i sometimes think god he should grow up i mean his very good looking and all d whites guys go ga ga over him. i don't know why this compition with me

oh well at list yours is all in fun and nothing else

 

[JohnnyO]

WELL SAID MAY!!!

JOHNNY---YOU SHOULD HAVE JUST TOLD HIM THAT YOU COULDNT GET ENOUGH FOR TWO. IF HE COULDNT UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THAT THEN HE HAS TO DEAL WITH IT, ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. DOESNT HE KNOW ANYONE THAT CAN GET HIM SOME?

hahaha!!! He's borrowing money from me .. he can't buy this stuff on his own (and since it's summer he's out of work until August) I'm kind of supporting him at the moment.

Come to think of it, I never did SAY I had anavar (he wouldn't understand what anavar was) I said "these are the pills that make you lose fat around your middle" .. the phenyltropic does that. hahaha! So TECHNICALLY I didn't lie.

At least that's how I'm justifying myself.

 

[ken343]

JohnnyO

I am bisexual and i too have a bf, and there is compition from his part not mine, u see i am black ,22yrs, 5ft10 and weigh 182 pounds of solid muscles. while my bf is white 6ft3, 28yrs old and weigh 192,

The problem is he hates the fact that i can lift more weight than him in the gym and that i have a better genetic structure because i have NEVER had a side effect to steriods were as he has.


When we go out because i get alot of attension in the gay sence, he sometimes does'nt like it


i think compition is healthy as long as it is not hurting another, i sometimes think god he should grow up i mean his very good looking and all d whites guys go ga ga over him. i don't know why this compition with me

oh well at list yours is all in fun and nothing else

 

[Jae]

Originally posted by May1010
Yes, Johnny, you are wrong unless your relationship is based on mutual distrust and deceit. How can you expect him to be honest with you about the important stuff if you can't be honest with him about the unimportant stuff.



Now I never expected to see May make such excellent observation and comment. I guess I must be used to his shock value comments.

Johnny O - Believe me, if your BF doesn't know what the drug looks like, then he doesn't need to be taking it. If you want to catch up with him in size, give him some Decadron (catabolic) and tell him it is Deca Durabolin (anabolic). Just kidding. I can see it now, by the end of the summer, you will be bigger than he is, attracting more attention in the clubs than he does, making more money that he is,..... and he is pissed and it is the Gabriel thing all over again.