Am I bad? dishonest?

[Steroid_Virgin]

Was this wrong?


It depends on your definition of right and wrong.. Obviously you are deceiving your BF.. that is being dishonest, if you care about him thats makes all the more dispicable.. grow some fucking nuts and tell him he can't have any.. thats better than tricking/lying to him. But to answer your question, if you think it would bother him if he found out the truth, then yes... what you did was wrong.

 

[runner]

does your boyfriend work out at bally's johnny?

 

[Gilbyag]

lol thats funny... but just wouldve been upfront and said something like "shit, no way mofo, I dont have enough for the both of us, get your own shit you money grubb'n bitch." or something like that.

 

[JohnnyO]

not ballys .. Fitness Exchange (used to be a trainer there) ...

I guess afterward it was a cowardly thing to do, but oh well, we're not THAT serious yet. I'm going to let this go on the interest of science.. he wants to lose abdominal fat, the Phenyltropic will do that, and the winny will help too.

I'll see if I can get some before stats from him today.

 

[JohnnyO]

OH also there is the "competition" thing between us .. I'm trying to catch up to his size. I want to WIN!!!

 

[runner]

do you think there's a lot more of that "competition" thing with gay couples compared to straight ones? i know i face that quite often in my own situation..

 

[May1010]

Yes, Johnny, you are wrong unless your relationship is based on mutual distrust and deceit. How can you expect him to be honest with you about the important stuff if you can't be honest with him about the unimportant stuff.

 

[JohnnyO]

I think so .. my last relationship a lot of problems were caused simply because I make more money .. and with this new bf the competition is more physical since he works out too .. like who can bench more, who can squat more, who gets the most attention at the club.

 

[May1010]

Johnny,

This does not sound like such a healthy relationship! You've got to go for the real dogs. They make good boyfriends. Of course, I wouldn't want to be seen in public with an ugly, or even with just a so-so looking boyfriend. I've got a reputation to worry about!

 

[runner]

i dunno...is it me or does that "competition to see who gets more attention at the clubs" thing sound weird?

as for the original issue, it goes without saying that you should have told him, but i don't think it's all that big a deal...everybody tells some white lies now and again.