Am I bad? dishonest?

[JohnnyO]

My bf found out I have anavar .. he wanted some, however anavar being expensive and didn't want to give him any (and I really didn't get enough for 2 .. actually I didn't get enough for 1, I'm trying to stock up)

SOOO .. I emptied out the bottle, and replaced the pills will George's Phenyltropic and gave it to him, saying to take 3 a day. Forunately he doesn't know what anavar looks like.

He's happy, and I'm happy. Was this wrong?

 

[WODIN]

It sure is funny either way.

Don't tell him, I want to know if you see any "placebo" affect from this. Make it an experiment in the name of science. There you are no longer in an ethical dilemma.

 

[tubby74]

My bf found out I have anavar .. he wanted some, however anavar being expensive and didn't want to give him any (and I really didn't get enough for 2 .. actually I didn't get enough for 1, I'm trying to stock up)

SOOO .. I emptied out the bottle, and replaced the pills will George's Phenyltropic and gave it to him, saying to take 3 a day. Forunately he doesn't know what anavar looks like.

He's happy, and I'm happy. Was this wrong?

Not wrong as long as he NEVER finds out. Don't let that guilty conscience thing mess with you (if you have one).

 

[HappyScrappy]

I did the same thing to myself and I wondered why I couldn't sleep.
I'm gonna try switching my anti-depressants with ice cream and see if I notice.

 

[The Ranger]

Heh heh heh....Naw, you ain't a bad boy....next time put 100mg fast acting Niacin in the bottle...<wink>

Ranger

 

[HappyScrappy]

give him viagra and tell him its anavar. at least the sex will be amazing.
but I think as expensive as anavar is, viagra is even more so.

 

[creamy_goodness]

If I thought I had just got the "real deal Holyfield" and found out later that I didn't, I'd be pissed. This is your man, how can you not feel bad? Unless, he's only your saturday night special, then I guess its justified.

 

[john937]

Why wouldn't the response "actually I didn't get enough for 1, I'm trying to stock up" have been sufficient?

 

[MommaKin]

I like Scrappy's idea

 

[JohnnyO]

Since he got it for free, I really don't care if he finds out in the future it's not anavar (I'll just claim ignorance and blame the supplier). I did give him real Winny however.

He doesn't really NEED any help, he's big enough (I think) as it is .. he already gets FAR too much attention at the clubs.

I guess I could have been honest, but I was trying to impress him with my financial abilities, but 30mg of anavar every day with only 5mg pills .. you're talking about major bucks there .. 100 pills is just not enough!

Now if he puts out more, perhaps I would have been honest.

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

Was this wrong?


It depends on your definition of right and wrong.. Obviously you are deceiving your BF.. that is being dishonest, if you care about him thats makes all the more dispicable.. grow some fucking nuts and tell him he can't have any.. thats better than tricking/lying to him. But to answer your question, if you think it would bother him if he found out the truth, then yes... what you did was wrong.

 

[runner]

does your boyfriend work out at bally's johnny?

 

[Gilbyag]

lol thats funny... but just wouldve been upfront and said something like "shit, no way mofo, I dont have enough for the both of us, get your own shit you money grubb'n bitch." or something like that.

 

[JohnnyO]

not ballys .. Fitness Exchange (used to be a trainer there) ...

I guess afterward it was a cowardly thing to do, but oh well, we're not THAT serious yet. I'm going to let this go on the interest of science.. he wants to lose abdominal fat, the Phenyltropic will do that, and the winny will help too.

I'll see if I can get some before stats from him today.

 

[JohnnyO]

OH also there is the "competition" thing between us .. I'm trying to catch up to his size. I want to WIN!!!

 

[runner]

do you think there's a lot more of that "competition" thing with gay couples compared to straight ones? i know i face that quite often in my own situation..

 

[May1010]

Yes, Johnny, you are wrong unless your relationship is based on mutual distrust and deceit. How can you expect him to be honest with you about the important stuff if you can't be honest with him about the unimportant stuff.

 

[JohnnyO]

I think so .. my last relationship a lot of problems were caused simply because I make more money .. and with this new bf the competition is more physical since he works out too .. like who can bench more, who can squat more, who gets the most attention at the club.

 

[May1010]

Johnny,

This does not sound like such a healthy relationship! You've got to go for the real dogs. They make good boyfriends. Of course, I wouldn't want to be seen in public with an ugly, or even with just a so-so looking boyfriend. I've got a reputation to worry about!

 

[runner]

i dunno...is it me or does that "competition to see who gets more attention at the clubs" thing sound weird?

as for the original issue, it goes without saying that you should have told him, but i don't think it's all that big a deal...everybody tells some white lies now and again.

 

[JohnnyO]

If this is a serious relationship then I would say yes it is unhealthy, but we both recently ended long term relationships, and are not in a hurry to get into another one. We both need fun and need our space, and we're recognizing that. Perhaps next year we'll act more like lovers.

For instance, maybe see each other once or twice a week, talk on the phone and go to the club together .. and if we go out of town together we'll have sex, but that's really about it.

And besides Michael isn't the ONLY one I "date" ..

 

[KAYNE]

Yes, Johnny, you are wrong unless your relationship is based on mutual distrust and deceit. How can you expect him to be honest with you about the important stuff if you can't be honest with him about the unimportant stuff.

WELL SAID MAY!!!

JOHNNY---YOU SHOULD HAVE JUST TOLD HIM THAT YOU COULDNT GET ENOUGH FOR TWO. IF HE COULDNT UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THAT THEN HE HAS TO DEAL WITH IT, ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. DOESNT HE KNOW ANYONE THAT CAN GET HIM SOME?

 

[ken343]

JohnnyO

I am bisexual and i too have a bf, and there is compition from his part not mine, u see i am black ,22yrs, 5ft10 and weigh 182 pounds of solid muscles. while my bf is white 6ft3, 28yrs old and weigh 192,

The problem is he hates the fact that i can lift more weight than him in the gym and that i have a better genetic structure because i have NEVER had a side effect to steriods were as he has.


When we go out because i get alot of attension in the gay sence, he sometimes does'nt like it


i think compition is healthy as long as it is not hurting another, i sometimes think god he should grow up i mean his very good looking and all d whites guys go ga ga over him. i don't know why this compition with me

oh well at list yours is all in fun and nothing else

 

[JohnnyO]

WELL SAID MAY!!!

JOHNNY---YOU SHOULD HAVE JUST TOLD HIM THAT YOU COULDNT GET ENOUGH FOR TWO. IF HE COULDNT UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THAT THEN HE HAS TO DEAL WITH IT, ITS NOT YOUR FAULT. DOESNT HE KNOW ANYONE THAT CAN GET HIM SOME?

hahaha!!! He's borrowing money from me .. he can't buy this stuff on his own (and since it's summer he's out of work until August) I'm kind of supporting him at the moment.

Come to think of it, I never did SAY I had anavar (he wouldn't understand what anavar was) I said "these are the pills that make you lose fat around your middle" .. the phenyltropic does that. hahaha! So TECHNICALLY I didn't lie.

At least that's how I'm justifying myself.

 

[ken343]

JohnnyO

I am bisexual and i too have a bf, and there is compition from his part not mine, u see i am black ,22yrs, 5ft10 and weigh 182 pounds of solid muscles. while my bf is white 6ft3, 28yrs old and weigh 192,

The problem is he hates the fact that i can lift more weight than him in the gym and that i have a better genetic structure because i have NEVER had a side effect to steriods were as he has.


When we go out because i get alot of attension in the gay sence, he sometimes does'nt like it


i think compition is healthy as long as it is not hurting another, i sometimes think god he should grow up i mean his very good looking and all d whites guys go ga ga over him. i don't know why this compition with me

oh well at list yours is all in fun and nothing else

 

[Jae]

Originally posted by May1010
Yes, Johnny, you are wrong unless your relationship is based on mutual distrust and deceit. How can you expect him to be honest with you about the important stuff if you can't be honest with him about the unimportant stuff.



Now I never expected to see May make such excellent observation and comment. I guess I must be used to his shock value comments.

Johnny O - Believe me, if your BF doesn't know what the drug looks like, then he doesn't need to be taking it. If you want to catch up with him in size, give him some Decadron (catabolic) and tell him it is Deca Durabolin (anabolic). Just kidding. I can see it now, by the end of the summer, you will be bigger than he is, attracting more attention in the clubs than he does, making more money that he is,..... and he is pissed and it is the Gabriel thing all over again.