Sounds like you are trying to be very 'sweet'. Just have fun and be GENUINE. Yes, the flowers on the first date, unless you've known her for a while, are a little over the top. Let the lady see you for who you really are from the get go. Remember, curiosity will keep the relationship fun... but not too much curiosity. Give her a little suspense. Reject the urge to get in her pants, regardless! You're right. Create a solid friendship and the sexual connection will be worth it!
SO Arabian, let's hear more. Why the needed advice?