Alright EF women advice needed on dating

[blueta2]

continue from the hot and heavy comment please?

heheh......well we hung out for 2 1/2 months (watching hockey, going out for drinks, cooking dinner) before we even got it on.

We just had fun before getting all serious and making it just "another date and lay"

The hot and heavy part was when he thew me up against the wall and kissed me after the 2 1/2 months of us just hanging out ;-)

 

[Arabian]

heheh......well we hung out for 2 1/2 months (watching hockey, going out for drinks, cooking dinner) before we even got it on.

We just had fun before getting all serious and making it just "another date and lay"

The hot and heavy part was when he thew me up against the wall and kissed me after the 2 1/2 months of us just hanging out ;-)

Thats how you know it will last due to the fact that you were friends first.. I hate going on dates when the lady is all over you and you really dont know them.. I want to get to know someone and be there friend first,..thats how relationships last..

 

[puddlemonkey]

I'm over 40, so I'm qualified. Move over monkey


Arabian, no flowers, Too needy. Yes call the next day but make it short or even a quick txt. Let the date sink in for both of you.
A girl loves a little mystery unless she is super needy. I like a guy that makes me chase him a little bit.

So basically what you're telling me is I'm right? Got it! About time one of you wimminz admitted it.

 

[Arabian]

So basically what you're telling me is I'm right? Got it! About time one of you wimminz admitted it.

 

[blueta2]

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/8322413-post93.html

I was in a hurry to leave work when I wrote it, if you need me to elaborate I can. Its the cold hard truth though. You gotta stop laying all your cards out there too soon, its working against you.

I'm cringing, but I agree with this in a way
I woman loves a giving man once she has him. During the chase, a guy who does everything = needy to me

I met this guy once, super nice dude. Great heart, sweet as hell.
I knew I was not into him as a boyfriend and was clear about that.
I was tipsy one night and had sex with him. The night we had sex he said "I love you"

I freaked. Then he showed up at my work with flowers and called me all the time.
Not a guy I want. But had he done that had I grown to know him first and liked him "that way", then yay!

 

[calveless wonder]

So basically what you're telling me is I'm right? Got it! About time one of you wimminz admitted it.

blueeta's smarter than the average bear(woman, same thing)

although blue, you seriously didnt even kiss him for 2 and a half months?

i dont know how that worked out

 

[puddlemonkey]

I'm cringing, but I agree with this in a way

Read it and weep!

 

[blueta2]

Thats how you know it will last due to the fact that you were friends first.. I hate going on dates when the lady is all over you and you really dont know them.. I want to get to know someone and be there friend first,..thats how relationships last..

that's why I mentioned to you last time, don't make it a "date" so to speak. When you meet someone, make it like you're just looking for some new friends to hang with
I met my b/f on line and before him I met many other guys, some I would play video games with or pool and when we knew there was no match, we stayed friends and I will still hang with them and play video games or go shoot some pool. No sex, just a hang out friend.
It was cool
I think this weeds out the needy

 

[blueta2]

blueeta's smarter than the average bear(woman, same thing)

although blue, you seriously didnt even kiss him for 2 and a half months?

i dont know how that worked out

Swear on my cats, no kissing. I was not into having a boyfriend and he was so fun to hang with, I didn't want to ruin it with sex/ or a fling

He then went away for a week and I missed him. He didn't txt me for the first 4 days he was away and I was like "What the....?"
then when he txt me, I jumped up to grab my cell like a little kid.
He called me when he was away and we talked for HOURS while his buddy was having a party with strippers there.
When he came back, we kissed. We waited a few more weeks for sexy-time


and not sure I'm smarter, just learned a lot from my mistakes. But thanks for the nice compliment.

 

[silverstar1025]

I fucked my hubby on the first date and he didn't buy me flowers. Just sayin!