Alright EF women advice needed on dating

[calveless wonder]

lotsa alters on this thread

 

[silverstar1025]

Good, because I hate it when women dangle shit in front of guys to get married.

My friend's wife told him she wouldn't let him video their sex unless they were married.

You mean like when he dangled in front of me that he was Mr. Romantic to get me married and now that person doesn't exist? Guys do it too!

 

[heatherrae]

You mean like when he dangled in front of me that he was Mr. Romantic to get me married and now that person doesn't exist? Guys do it too!

guys gain weight just like women do too, but they don't ever mention THAT. When I was married, my hubbie gained 30 lbs in the first year and a half...lol. I didn't care, though. I still wubbed him.

 

[silverstar1025]

guys gain weight just like women do too, but they don't ever mention THAT. When I was married, my hubbie gained 30 lbs in the first year and a half...lol. I didn't care, though. I still wubbed him.

Exactly! Change happens from both sides.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Seriously, women don't know what they want. They are the last ones you should be asking for advice on themselves.

Very true about many MANY women so lots of confusion is created for the man.

*hint* *hint*

So then it would behoove ANY MAN to focus his energies on a woman who DOES know what she wants.

 

[NEO1]

You never told me why to stopped taking my calls

I'm cringing, but I agree with this in a way
I woman loves a giving man once she has him. During the chase, a guy who does everything = needy to me

I met this guy once, super nice dude. Great heart, sweet as hell.
I knew I was not into him as a boyfriend and was clear about that.
I was tipsy one night and had sex with him. The night we had sex he said "I love you"

I freaked. Then he showed up at my work with flowers and called me all the time.
Not a guy I want. But had he done that had I grown to know him first and liked him "that way", then yay!

 

[Bikini Mod]

That just might be worse than the movies suggestion.


See Arabian, you can't ask women about this stuff.

A man will step over his own mother to pander to a woman who he finds to be appealing. If a man isn't willing to pull out all the stops then I was completely unimpressed.

But then again, I am very demanding.... without demanding a thing.

If a woman is willing to settle for less, than that man will ALWAYS treat her that way and that is 100% ON HER.

 

[heatherrae]

I think woman who need a man to show he's making an "effort" are the one's with the low self esteem no?
If one needs a guy to show her she's important and special by making an effort, then that women doesn't feel important and special on her own w/out the "effort"

Nope. She feels that she deserves to be treated well. Women who don't appreciated being treated well, usually think that if a man treats them well, there must be something wrong with HIM. It is sort of like that saying "they wouldn't be a part of any club that would have them as a member."

 

[heatherrae]

LOL @ HR giving dating advice....how is baby daddy?

That was uncalled for. The fact that he is a hateful alcoholic was not caused or created by me, and I'm sure he still is the same.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Nope. She feels that she deserves to be treated well. Women who don't appreciated being treated well, usually think that if a man treats them well, there must be something wrong with HIM. It is sort of like that saying "they wouldn't be a part of any club that would have them as a member."

DEAD ON.

If a woman is happy being treated like she is less than worthy of being treated well, than that is ON HER.

My first husband was a lesson.

My LAST husband is a gift.

Arabian, you are a genuine and sincere man who has a HYUGE heart. Don't stop being the way you are. Just steer clear of women with low self-esteem, women who DONT value themselves as they will not know how to value you EITHER.