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Juice Authority
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Duel income, more buying power, consistent sex, companionship, kids, etc., etc.. but is has its moments too.
Uuuuummmmm...Eeeerrrr...Hold on a minute,I'm thinking....
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ajtomasi
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we're you married? you should know
strangebrew
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I'm not married but it feels like I am.
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ajtomasi
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RADAR said:
shit, i alway thought you were just some fat black kid that said yum yum
avatars are very misleading
HumorMe
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Marriage is what you make of it.
I think the thing it has done for me is given me stability. I wasn't a wild ass or anything like that, in fact, I have never done drugs or been in any kind of trouble. I just reached a point in my life that I needed someone to share my life with. The good and the bad.
Of course, I was the type of person who never wanted to get married. But then I met my wife and I knew in my heart she was everything I had ever wanted in a person and then some.
Let me put it in a nutshell. If any of you has a Bible, read I Corinthians chapter 13. There are only 13 verses in that chapter but starting with verse 4 through 13...those words describe my wife. I'm not going to get into the Bible and what it says but that passage holds a special place in my heart and what I think about her. She is not perfect but perfect in my eyes.
A lot of people never get the chance to meet and get to know someone as great as my wife. I could sit here and type all of the things that she is but it would probably get boring to everyone. She can look past my faults (and I have so many) and see the good.
We've been married for 16 years and still madly in love with each other. She can always make me laugh or smile. We have our moments but I can not remember when that last moment was.
We just seem to click with each other. THe chemistry between us is the best. When we are with our friends (most of them have shitty marriages) I can feel the tension in their house. Sure, they act fine in front of their friends but I can pick up if they are not happy just through ordinary conversation.
We are definitely not in a class by ourselves but I'm sure the roll call does not take very long.
I know some people on this board have had their hearts stomped and trampled on in the name of Love and even thinking of marriage would make their skin crawl but marrige is not for everyone. It doesn't make them any less of a person.
Everybody's thinking these days (people who hold on to traditional values such as marriage) look at a single guy or woman past, say 30 years old, as either gay or someone who can't love but I beg to differ. Values, once placed on a marriage relationship, have eroded to a point where fear of being divorced is just not worth it, mentally or financially.
That's just my take on it and probably holds no water in other people's thinking but these are things I have just observed over my 42 years of living.
I say, if you want to stay single, so be it. There is nothing wrong with it. Live and let live.
I think the thing it has done for me is given me stability. I wasn't a wild ass or anything like that, in fact, I have never done drugs or been in any kind of trouble. I just reached a point in my life that I needed someone to share my life with. The good and the bad.
Of course, I was the type of person who never wanted to get married. But then I met my wife and I knew in my heart she was everything I had ever wanted in a person and then some.
Let me put it in a nutshell. If any of you has a Bible, read I Corinthians chapter 13. There are only 13 verses in that chapter but starting with verse 4 through 13...those words describe my wife. I'm not going to get into the Bible and what it says but that passage holds a special place in my heart and what I think about her. She is not perfect but perfect in my eyes.
A lot of people never get the chance to meet and get to know someone as great as my wife. I could sit here and type all of the things that she is but it would probably get boring to everyone. She can look past my faults (and I have so many) and see the good.
We've been married for 16 years and still madly in love with each other. She can always make me laugh or smile. We have our moments but I can not remember when that last moment was.
We just seem to click with each other. THe chemistry between us is the best. When we are with our friends (most of them have shitty marriages) I can feel the tension in their house. Sure, they act fine in front of their friends but I can pick up if they are not happy just through ordinary conversation.
We are definitely not in a class by ourselves but I'm sure the roll call does not take very long.
I know some people on this board have had their hearts stomped and trampled on in the name of Love and even thinking of marriage would make their skin crawl but marrige is not for everyone. It doesn't make them any less of a person.
Everybody's thinking these days (people who hold on to traditional values such as marriage) look at a single guy or woman past, say 30 years old, as either gay or someone who can't love but I beg to differ. Values, once placed on a marriage relationship, have eroded to a point where fear of being divorced is just not worth it, mentally or financially.
That's just my take on it and probably holds no water in other people's thinking but these are things I have just observed over my 42 years of living.
I say, if you want to stay single, so be it. There is nothing wrong with it. Live and let live.
HumorMe said:Marriage is what you make of it.
I think the thing it has done for me is given me stability. I wasn't a wild ass or anything like that, in fact, I have never done drugs or been in any kind of trouble. I just reached a point in my life that I needed someone to share my life with. The good and the bad.
Of course, I was the type of person who never wanted to get married. But then I met my wife and I knew in my heart she was everything I had ever wanted in a person and then some.
Let me put it in a nutshell. If any of you has a Bible, read I Corinthians chapter 13. There are only 13 verses in that chapter but starting with verse 4 through 13...those words describe my wife. I'm not going to get into the Bible and what it says but that passage holds a special place in my heart and what I think about her. She is not perfect but perfect in my eyes.
What's sad for me is, I use to say the same things about my ex-wife, then she shockingly betrayed me. She had me fooled the whole time.
A lot of people never get the chance to meet and get to know someone as great as my wife. I could sit here and type all of the things that she is but it would probably get boring to everyone. She can look past my faults (and I have so many) and see the good.
We've been married for 16 years and still madly in love with each other. She can always make me laugh or smile. We have our moments but I can not remember when that last moment was.
We just seem to click with each other. THe chemistry between us is the best. When we are with our friends (most of them have shitty marriages) I can feel the tension in their house. Sure, they act fine in front of their friends but I can pick up if they are not happy just through ordinary conversation.
We are definitely not in a class by ourselves but I'm sure the roll call does not take very long.
I know some people on this board have had their hearts stomped and trampled on in the name of Love and even thinking of marriage would make their skin crawl but marrige is not for everyone. It doesn't make them any less of a person.
Everybody's thinking these days (people who hold on to traditional values such as marriage) look at a single guy or woman past, say 30 years old, as either gay or someone who can't love but I beg to differ. Values, once placed on a marriage relationship, have eroded to a point where fear of being divorced is just not worth it, mentally or financially.
That's just my take on it and probably holds no water in other people's thinking but these are things I have just observed over my 42 years of living.
I say, if you want to stay single, so be it. There is nothing wrong with it. Live and let live.
HumorMe said:
That's bad. Sorry to hear about that.
If I was ever in your shoes, the hurt would be so tremendous that only time would heal(a lot of time).
It would probably be virtually impossible to trust someone again. I hope you get a second chance with a better person.
Thanks man. I'm probably lying to myself. I loved that woman and would have spent the rest of my life with her, now I will probably spend the rest of it alone. Just being a father to my daughter.
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Ashamed
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My gf visits her parents every weekend cos she comes from a very close family and is very family orientated.. I sometimes go with her.. but usually the weekend signals my freedom..
I can smoke my bong to oblivion.. play my music as louyd as it will play.. and generally live like I have no one else to consider.. I mean, I do get outburts of being me during the week also.. but weekends are my time... then we have 'pleased to see you' sex on sunday or monday when she comes home!!! And only 5 days of possible nagging per 7 days is possible..... Bargain!
I can smoke my bong to oblivion.. play my music as louyd as it will play.. and generally live like I have no one else to consider.. I mean, I do get outburts of being me during the week also.. but weekends are my time... then we have 'pleased to see you' sex on sunday or monday when she comes home!!! And only 5 days of possible nagging per 7 days is possible..... Bargain!
Generic MALE
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Ajtomasi, you avatar really makes me feel nauseous....sorry
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