*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*

[jennifer BFL chick]

Didn't know what to tell him. I do like him alot, and I care about him, but LOVE, its kind of hard to go that route right now. He knows I'm dating other guys too---but, he is by far the one I like the best....

Now, every time I see him, he tells me he loves me, and it makes me uncomfortable big time. He gives me cards, flowers, and a "Build a bear", teddy bear which is so cute, but I'm not sure if I want to date him and only him right now. Its very hard for me, because I do like him, but I feel that I need to date. He calls me all the time, and wants to see me EVERY DAY. Its very hard to be upfront with him because I don't want to hurt him.

He tells me he has never felt so strong about anyone, and the only way he can descibe it is with the word love.......

Man o man, what to do! never had a guy tell me he loved me-

I told him that I want to keep dating him and see what happens, but I'm not "with him" right now. It bugs me that hes not dating anyone else because he only wants me, but I'm dating others....

 

[Addicted]

Two weeks???

The guy's on clomid, a virgin, or has the mentality of a fifteen year old....get out now!!!

Missed you this winter Jen, was out in SLC snowboarding five times, looked high and low for you...no suck luck, wanted to return the good karma you sent me

 

[Addicted]

Ooops...

freudian slip there, s/b no such luck!!!

 

[big4life]

How old is he?

Are you his first serious "girlfriend"? I know that you think it's just dating, but if he hasn't had experience with dating he could fall very easily.

You're being honest with him so you shouldn't feel bad. Maybe you could ask him to cut back on the gifts and all?

Have fun and live your life. You will know when it's love.

 

[PinK233]

He sounds very immature, how much can he possibly know about you after two weeks ?

 

[Jimsbbc]

Jen-

In my last long term relationship it took 6 months for me to tell the girl I loved her. When I told her - I meant it whole hearted. It would take at least 3-4 months to really get to know someone (enough to really love them). Maybe he just needs that verbal affirmation that you care for him since you aren't giving it to him physically?

 

[Burning_Inside]

hge dont love u he just loves yer doggy style

 

[PHATchik]

That's way too soon in my opinion. It has to grow over time. To me, this seems more like infatuation since it is this strong this early.

 

[bigschweeler]

The real question here is has he gotten in your pants?

If yes, then he is saying to make sure he continues to get in there.

If no, then he is saying it to get in there.

But at his age which I am guessing is early 20s I don't think this is particularly unusual. More lust, than love, but it is real to him.

 

[Frackal]

Give him another 2 weeks and he might change his mind...

;-P just kidding =)