Yeah, my upper body strength sucks.
My current goal is just to get stronger and eat enough to support growth. I came up with this routine based on info in the Practical Programming book. It won't stay the same forever. I have a whole series of changes that I'll make as I stall and need to get things moving again, so I reckon I can train like this for the next couple of years or so. What I'm doing now matches what I need to do now, as you can see by the progress.
Stats: I'm 35, 5'9", 182lb. Haven't taken any measurements in a long time, but I'd estimate 41" chest, 14.5" arms and 38" around the navel.
Diet is plenty of food, plenty of protein. Oats, 4-8 pints of milk per day, cottage cheese, baked potatoes, veg, chicken/beef/salmon, bananas, nuts, cereal bars, plenty of water. Supps: multi-vitamin/multi-mineral, omega 3, high strength glucosamine and chondroitin. Whey after a workout, sometimes during the day when I don't have any other protein source or I'm being lazy. I have about 6 meals a day, but occasionally snack continuously whilst at work.
I did 2 hard cardio sessions per week when I started this, but I've gotten bored of it and I expect it would eat into recovery time now that the weights are getting harder.
Just keep pushing the squats, JK. Add a little weight to the bar every session, no matter how little. I squat three times per week and they really are the backbone of my workouts.