A few random thoughts

[KillahBee]

1) You're anal

2) You're crazy

3) I feel that way about the New York Post. When I lived in New York, I wouldn't give a man that approached me with a NY Post in his hand the time of day. Yes, I'm a snobbish bitch w/ standards. But, I'm a happy snobbish bitch.

4) That's why I'm glad I was a nerd and went through some shit. Being humble, its a great gift. Am I crazy sometimes? I've heard I can be. I think that has something to do with the drinking water. Not because someone says I'm hot (which I don't think I am. Sexy? Yes. Hot? I'm not comfortable with that). I'm talking to myself now,I guess iam crazy.

Very

Very

I like the sports in the Post

LOL! I wish I could do an experiment on the whole thing. It's amazing. And Raina - I wasn't talking about guys. This was about girls. Guys ahve nothing to do with it, I wasn't starting a gender war. And I don't doubt that for a second, they just show their insecurities differently

 

[nycgirl]

Very

Very

I like the sports in the Post

LOL! I wish I could do an experiment on the whole thing. It's amazing. And Raina - I wasn't talking about guys. This was about girls. Guys ahve nothing to do with it, I wasn't starting a gender war. And I don't doubt that for a second, they just show their insecurities differently

I prefer the Daily News.

I believe its true. But it does have something to do with guys, the boys, then the men that kiss their asses (god, I'm starting to sound like someone I know). All females, ugly or hot or average, have body issues.

However, the men they date are either crazy or jaded when the relationship is over. I always get the jaded ones which I guess is better than getting the crazy ones.

 

[KillahBee]

All females, ugly or hot or average, have body issues.

yeah but I'm talking extremes here. like a girl who is just a 10 in 99% of the populations eyes being retardedly uncomfortable laying in bed naked with her man.

 

[Smurfy]

HELL YES

I'm totally and completely sane.

 

[nycgirl]

yeah but I'm talking extremes here. like a girl who is just a 10 in 99% of the populations eyes being retardedly uncomfortable laying in bed naked with her man.

Sometimes, we just don't see it.

I know I'm not the extreme you are talking about. But for awhile after I lost my pre-ef weight, I saw the pre-ef me in the mirror.

It honestly took someone finding beauty in what I thought were my flaws or areas that no one has ever mentioned before (like my lips), that made me 100% confortable.

 

[Lestat]

I'm totally and completely sane.

and hot with BIG ta tas!

 

[KillahBee]

I'm totally and completely sane.

I already said this wasn't about dudes. jesus. relax, Rosie O'Donnell

 

[Smurfy]

I already said this wasn't about dudes. jesus. relax, Rosie O'Donnell

dont make me come to your town.

 

[Smurfy]

and you only jokingly refer to me as a guy because I dont act like a typical annoying, insecure, emotionally unstable bitch.

 

[KillahBee]

Sometimes, we just don't see it.

I know I'm not the extreme you are talking about. But for awhile after I lost my pre-ef weight, I saw the pre-ef me in the mirror.

It honestly took someone finding beauty in what I thought were my flaws or areas that no one has ever mentioned before (like my lips), that made me 100% confortable.

I get it. I've had a lot of experience with this (obviously), so I understand it. And I also understand that no matter how many times we tell you how amazingly sexy and perfect you are, it only matters what you see. Which is a REAL tough situation on the man too.