The thing is don't judge one man by the actions of another man, the same goes for men dealing with women. I'm a genuinely nice man, who does things because I want to, not because I'm trying to play an angle, yet women have questioned me about why I do something, all based on their experience with another man. My reaction is this, I'm sorry that they have had a bad experience, but don't hold me accountable for another man's actions. Judge me for who I am and how I treat you, not how someone else treated you.