if u want to try out dj'ing purely with software then TRAKTOR is the best program
http://www.nativeinstruments.de/index.php?id=traktor2_us
if u wanna dj with ur mp3s then u might wanna check out stanton's final scratch software
http://www.finalscratch.com/
or wait for the new pioneer cdj...
im 99% sure that its impossibly to get rid of the vocals in a song and be left with a smooth sounding instrumental ... dont even bother looking
if u want a song without vocals just look for an instrumental mix of it
for produing ur own tracks reason is really good
http://www.propellerheads.se/products/reason/main.html
for mixing songs traktor is pretty good
http://www.nativeinstruments.de/index.php?id=traktor2_us
the lyrics go something like this (from what i remember):
got us a girl
however u live
do u believe it
can u receive it
its a kind of song that ginos listen to ...
i agree with what your saying ... but i think suicide should be used only as the last possible option ... its hard not to give into the impulse and just kill yourself when your griefing and depressed ... but all im saying is that you should at least try other options and if that doesnt work out...
how do u know that life isnt worth living once your loved one is gone??? have you tried it? what about your other relatives ... how would they feel if they were to lose you ...
^^^
god no ... that's probably the worst advice you can give someone ... you should try to encourage him and make him feel better ... that his wife dying is not the end of the world ... he can always take his life and once he does that then there's no turning back ... so as a friend u should...
SSRIs are antidepressants ... if ur depression is not improving then maybe u should go check out a doctor ... a lot of people start to feel better when they take them
its just that the person doesn't see any other way to escape their emotional (or physical) pain and have to resort to suicide ... i mean if there was another viable alternative to ease their pain no one would prefer taking their life over it