I was "defriended" after 21 years - email included

[needtogetarmy]

she and I have been over this over and over again. She's really emotionally needy and has some serious problems. It's not like this is out of the blue...
It's hard to explain everything - but she's a total whackjob. Everybody knows it, her parents, my parents...

Is she good looking? Post some pics. Really, that is all we care about.

 

[jackangel]

good work soldier

 

[iggy]

rach, i have a friend just like this....

everything always has to be about her and its like she lives in her own little world. if you don't attend to her needs on time or listen to her, she gets very very angry. she always threatens to never talk to you again, or end the friendship, but usually she gets over it in a week or two.

the thing to do with this, is be a friend, but don't let her get in the way of what you do. if she goes batshit crazy, ignore her. otherwise she'll just drag you down to her levels.

 

[bakemeacookie]

chicks nuff said.

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[cindylou]

..........

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I understand that, but she also needs somebody to stop sugarcoating things and tell her to get her shit together.

Incidently I was home at lunch and her dad caught me online on facebook (the chat), and he said "nice email"... I was like... "sorry"
and he said "don't be sorry, Julie and I salute you, and you're always a part of this family"

so..

It's too bad Velvett isn't around here anymore. Problem would'a probably already been solved.

 

[nangiggles]

This is why I dont have female friends.... I have ONE I've been friends with since seventh grade (13 years) I dont have her on facebook (she doesnt have one) and when I was in CR we only spoke once every month or so, however we both knew if we needed anything from each other we could always count on it, I dont get people who have to be all touchy feely and email and talk all the time....

 

[HollywoodSwole]

"girl has DRAMAGASM"!!!!!

thank you nimbus

 

[redshirt27se]

what

 

[cindylou]

This is why I dont have female friends.... I have ONE I've been friends with since seventh grade (13 years) I dont have her on facebook (she doesnt have one) and when I was in CR we only spoke once every month or so, however we both knew if we needed anything from each other we could always count on it, I dont get people who have to be all touchy feely and email and talk all the time....

female relationships between women are tricky. Not all women are in that cliche, but many are. Try having a really good friend send suggestive texts to your husband and then when you call her on it, she tells you that you are being too sensitive and that she was just playing around. Imagine how much that would hurt. Try being close to another woman after shit like that happens.

If a friend of mine is hurt by something I say or write or do, even if I think they are being a drama queen or sensitive, I apologize and understand I have to be careful them them. Its really easy, if you know someone takes your texts or emails the wrong way, just put a smiley at the end. It takes two seconds and can change the whole tone of the message

I happen to be one of those women who does not have to have contact every single freakin second - but I do get butthurt if you no show at a bday party if we have done nothing but text for 6 months. You gotta do SOMETHING or it just feels one sided.