How do you break it to someone that your seeing that

[Arabian]

you have no feelings for her, i stay at her place alot per her reguest however i have no feelings for her.. she entered my life in a very low dark time.. She has done alot for me and I feel obligated in some way to do something. <L I dont know I really have never had someone do the things she has for me.. I, lost as fucking usually with women..

 

[Bikini Mod]

People shouldn't do things for others expecting something back. They are supposed to do things for other just because they get pleasure from helping people if and when they can. It is your obligation (I feel) to pay it forward though further down the line.

If you can't tell her personally that you don't want a deeper relationship (read = I am dumping you) then send her an email.

I know it seems sorta cowardly but how long had you seen this woman? 6 years? We aren't in high school here and though you might feel like somewhat of a rogue it would serve you best to be as stark as possible so that she can get the hint and be free to find someone that WILL return her feelings... I mean, isn't that what she deserves?

*hint* *hint*

 

[_Yossarian_]

you could always accuse her of being a liar and a fraud, and then post all her personal information on a message board.
She probably stop contacting you after that.

Problem solved.

 

[bw1]

BM!!!!^^^^^^^^^^^^^Do you ever type and answer that's not 9000 words long? Damn you exhaust me^^^^^^^^^^

 

[Bikini Mod]

BM!!!!^^^^^^^^^^^^^Do you ever type and answer that's not 9000 words long? Damn you exhaust me^^^^^^^^^^

Oh come on, that was one of my shortest posts and you damned well know it!

 

[bw1]

Oh come on, that was one of my shortest posts and you damned well know it!

 

[Creepusmaximus]

Use the girl speech. Let's be friends. Blah blah blah I need some space blah blah blah.

Or say your gay.

 

[seaking420]

bikini mom is always good at this type of shit......what she said.... except the whole email thing is just you being a vagina. If you want to end it tell her, but dont email it or text her......man up....if thats what you really want to do. You're going to hurt her either way, but you'll come off as a coward if you email or text.....imo

 

[BMK792]

bikini mom is always good at this type of shit......what she said.... Except the whole email thing is just you being a vagina. If you want to end it tell her, but dont email it or text her......man up....if thats what you really want to do. You're going to hurt her either way, but you'll come off as a coward if you email or text.....imo

+1

 

[WhistleBritchesII]

Hi Arabian I feel you

if its any help I DONT get involved EVER with a Women unless I have a reasonable feeling that the outcome of that relationship will be excellent
and that I can be of honor and just in my feelings in it.

I am proud to say that though I have only had a handful of real Girlfriends all but one ended Great
The good ones ended do to pursuing different paths needed from the transition from young adult to older adult
hood.

So basically DONT get involved unless you have a real respect and feeling for the girl, good gosh as a man spare her now ( the one your with) and end it and dont repeat the cycle again.