What do you with hold sexually or otherwise after you've been in a relationship?

[hardrock]

Heard this on the radio on the way to work this morning.

What do you quit doing once married or in a long term relationship. Sexually or otherwise?

Most common were oral sex and some even said that they felt they didn't have to tell their S.O. they love them anymore cause they were already married. This make me never want to get married.

What do/have you quit doing now or in the past?

 

[stilleto]

well with holding sechs is stupid.

i stopped walking around the house nekkid, but that's cause I got kids.

 

[hardrock]

well with holding sechs is stupid.

i stopped walking around the house nekkid, but that's cause I got kids.

I agree wit the sex bit, but seems very common. Walking around the house nekked huh? With the windows open?

 

[Bikini Mod]

I didn't cook or clean before I got married so that is out.

I ALWAYS walk around the house nekkid so that is out.

I don't EVER withhold sex. But my husband knows if he pisses me off I won't want to talk to him much less be in the same room with him to have sex. I have ALWAYS been this way. So that is out.

I tell/show my husband I love him every chance I get (which is usually text message/IM or simply the words. I touch him in an affectionate non-sexual manner often.

I bitch at him for doing annoying dumb shit just as much now as I did before we married so that ain't it.

Honestly... I can't think of anything. If anything I am calmer and more secure about our relationship now that we are going on 2 years of marriage as opposed to when we first married.

 

[stilleto]

I agree wit the sex bit, but seems very common. Walking around the house nekked huh? With the windows open?

my windows are uncovered.
all of them except the bathrooms.

 

[EnderJE]

I don't think it's a matter of withholding anything, but more a matter of priorities.

 

[hardrock]

I don't think it's a matter of withholding anything, but more a matter of priorities.

I think it's that and boredom. That a a feeling of once you're secure you don't have to do the things you once did. I have always been as into sex at the end as I was in the beginning except for one relationship, and that was 6 years of being with a woman who was gaining weight the whole time and did less and less for me. Sad but true.

 

[nefertiti]

Heard this on the radio on the way to work this morning.

What do you quit doing once married or in a long term relationship. Sexually or otherwise?

Most common were oral sex and some even said that they felt they didn't have to tell their S.O. they love them anymore cause they were already married. This make me never want to get married.

What do/have you quit doing now or in the past?

I can't think of anything. I am one of those individuals who gains from giving - in all aspects of a relationship.

 

[SpyWizard]

I'm older, for me rejecting me or sex = same..

But i married a younger woman that makes her own bank, so i don't have to be needed for that either.

And, if not her, there's always that young, pretty secretary that would love to go on the next business trip to vegas..

 

[hurricane]

get tired of the same puss ..lose sexual attraction