Nan, when you hit your 40's, there is freedom you get where you don't care who likes you or dislikes you. Just be yourself and the right people will like you.
You and I have busted each others chops, but believe me, it's nothing personal. It's a juicer board where we all act like f-tards sometimes, I actually think you have a HUGE heart and are super sensitive and I respect that xoxo