Your parents or friends ever tell you your getting too big?

[dzuljas]

my family approved of me getting bigger, they always compliment the muscles actually. I have had a harder time with females though. A lot of them that I date do not like to hear me talk about my sport or getting bigger, it pisses me off. I need to find a chick that accepts me and my goals, even if it is becoming a big monster some day....

 

[Only1eagle]

I think it is just people caring about us. Most people dont understand about AS. So they think that if we are doing it we are "killing" ourselvs. Not there fault just bad media! And uninformed people.

My last cycle I had gained so much water weight that my fast was "FAT". My parents worried just like all parents should. I love my parents and if they didnt worry and tell me I "am good just the way I am" I would think something is wrong.

As for my friends I have a couple "so called" friends that always seem to disapear when I am on a cycle. Those arnt my friends. The others who back me up and tell me I look good and to keep going for it are the only ones I want around me.

Eagle

 

[Moe]

I have been off for a while now, and in the downtime I have lost some of the, shall we say, freakiness.

Just last night at a club, a friend of mine was commenting about how much "better" I look now, compared to when I am "too huge". Strange, it was a compliment and a dig all rolled into one. Really, the compliment was from his end, the dig was my own insecurities surfasing over the fact that someone else noticed my post-cycle weight loss.

To quote Abraham Lincoln, "Shit happens."

 

[Japanese machine]

Get knocked down seven, get up eight. Jap proverb.

Story of my Life.

 

[Golfer18--old]

Yup. Last night I was in the kitchen fixing some tuna and mustard. My mom says whats up with the tuna kick. I said I am cutting down. Then she goes well you were eating like crazy Saturday. I said Mom I was carbing up. Then she tells me its ridicilous. I tried to explain to her the whole cut/bulk thing but she didn't even listen. If she only knew what I know. Why should it matter if I eat five cans of tuna a day? What would she like to me eat? Parents are full of shit. Girlfriends are to.

 

[nice6pac]

My docs tell em i shoudl lsoe 20 pounds so i gianed 17 hehe

 

[HGH man--Chargeback]

Tell them that you've noticed thier getting smaller. Ask them if thier shrinking. That will get them. You can also say that they have lost weight. Make your size work for you.

 

[RipDsel]

Parents are full of shit. Girlfriends are to.

Thats a pretty good explanation of things...my ex girlfriend broke up w/ me b/c she said i cared about my body more than anything in the world, and that it scared her how i kept on getting bigger. My mom is actually my biggest supporter tho, and i know she knows that i am on something, as i gain 15 pounds in a matter of 2 weeks on Dbol, but i just keep telling her the creatine works good

 

[LftHndPwrHouse]

What can i say I feel all your your pain. I have seen and heard it all.

I am really happy my friend told me about this forum. I cant believe that in all the years I have put in to the gym that I have not heard about this forum.
Its nice to read and know others face the same shit. At the same token I have learned alot over the past 3 months. Even got advice on a cycle and possible fake product.

My biggest prob I have faced outside of the jelious parent because your cutting up(esp after not seeing them for a while)..and they r just sitting down eating icecream..is the FEARED "INSECURE GIRLFRIEND".

Long story short. About one year ago I was in a near fatal car accident. It put me out of commision for almost 9months. So the G-Friend got comfortable w/ me not working out..Loosing mass..fat % rising... So now I'm back in to it hardcore. So I am hearing all the insecure lines now..Need I go on.

Remember there is only one person who will truly look out for you, and its you. So do what makes you happy. Their is someone out there for everyone. Make the right choices on what you do...and Do It the Right way the First Time.

 

[Tiervexx]

Remember there is only one person who will truly look out for you, and its you. So do what makes you happy. Their is someone out there for everyone. Make the right choices on what you do...and Do It the Right way the First Time.

very well said

i used to hear the "your getting too big", or the "Your getting fat" bullshit all the time from my family but they finally gave up about a month ago. my sister still does not understand why i am eating so much and why i am still growing but i stopped that by telling her that i am doing this for me and am absolutely not interested in her input, i made it clear that i was through listening to her.

people that would be content with average disgust me!
only a hopeless fool with no ambition at all would EVER be content with average!