Younger men....

[Werd]

Have you seen a therapist yet?




Are you being serious?? Or are you starting to be more sarcastic???

Where are you going with this? Jesus H Christ. I will shoot you a PM so u will take a chill pill already.

If two consenting adults both get into something with honesty then who will get hurt?

 

[Werd]

I am just perfect for you! But I'm taken.

*sigh*

all the good ones usually are.

 

[avenirup]

Where are you going with this? Jesus H Christ. I will shoot you a PM so u will take a chill pill already.

I am not going anywhere with this, just wanted to see if you have seen a therapist, I don't need a chill pill, I am fine. And the PM better contain a pic.....

If two consenting adults both get into something with honesty then who will get hurt?

Nothing, but you hardly know him, so how do you know if he is going to get hurt. Or do you just not care? Getting hurt has a lot to do with your current situation.

 

[Werd]

I am not going anywhere with this, just wanted to see if you have seen a therapist, I don't need a chill pill, I am fine. And the PM better contain a pic.....





Nothing, but you hardly know him, so how do you know if he is going to get hurt. Or do you just not care? Getting hurt has a lot to do with your current situation.

I am all about therapy - it is an excellent thing that I think everyone can benefit from and yes, I do go.

I DO care about potentially hurting people. But I also care about getting hurt. If we are both honest from the getco then the chances of that happening are greatly reduced.

I don't have a mean, thoughtless bone in my body. Actually it is the opposite. I still care about people that do not deserve it long after they should have been nothing more than just a bad dream. But I am learning to not be that way.

 

[strongsmartsexy]

I am all about therapy - it is an excellent thing that I think everyone can benefit from and yes, I do go.

I DO care about potentially hurting people. But I also care about getting hurt. If we are both honest from the getco then the chances of that happening are greatly reduced.

I don't have a mean, thoughtless bone in my body. Actually it is the opposite. I still care about people that do not deserve it long after they should have been nothing more than just a bad dream. But I am learning to not be that way.

Sometimes just agreeing to be a booty call works well for both parties. The issue comes up when one or both parties want a fundamental change in the direction of the relationship. Feelings are already involved and passion is a very highly charged emotion in any case. No one is ever untouched from an encounter with another. And they're never untouched from no encounter with another. (Think on the last one for a while, it's not trite)

 

[Burning_Inside]

Is it wrong to have gratuitous casual sex with a younger hottie? I have never found younger men appealing and the two that I ended up with couldn't sport wood both said something about intimidation...

whatever.

Anyways, something really odd happened in the gym tonite. I am always in and out without really even grunting to anyone, just happy to have made it there that day. I could give a fahootie how I look, just there to do my thing.

But tonight I came in all pissy about stoopid nonsense and just started talking to a guy that was occupying the leg extension. (I knew the guy that he was rapping to.) Turns out the kid was a trainer kid that had been working there for awhile, I just never really noticed. I don't really notice anyone as I said, I just get in and get out.

So I am blowing off some steam about some jerk that I once knew and the next thing you know all roads are leading to Rome = talk of sex. (With me I eventually talk about sex if you talk to me for more than say, 2 minutes.)

He is cute. I would only want occasional gratuitous casual sex. And he sounded down with it.

But he is soooooooooooooo freaking young! ONLY 22!!!

I feel dirty even to have thought about it. For goodness sakes, I am closer to 40 than 30!

But all I can think of is "local occasional gratuitous casual sex" with a young hottie with a sweet physique.

Am I going straight to hell for even entertaining this idea?

Is 22 REALLY consided so freaking young when you're 50? I'm almost 27, so i guess i'm still in grade school, which is cool.

By the way, did his rapping show potential? How'd it flow? Was his friend playing beatbox and spitting into his hand?