You may now say "I told you so"

[wootoom]

did you turn geigh?

 

[artrius]

did you turn geigh?

fuck no. too many beautiful women out there for that. besides, guys are disgustingly gross. Call me paranoid, but I tried wrestling, and GOOD GOD it was SO nasty.

 

[slat1]

We are all behind you even though you exposed yourself as
Oh, and no! You cannot have a hug!

 

[awittyusername]

did you turn geigh?

What do you mean "turn"??? lol

j/k

Artarias. I am proud of you. It takes a strong person to walk away when things are not working. Many people follow through with the wedding...hoping it will get better...or they just don't want to be a lone.

Its never a failure if you learn something. And, it sounds like you learned alot. You are learning more about yourself and the kind of person you want to be with.

Stay strong bro.

 

[artrius]

damn.... sucks for both of you guys. I hate to say the old..."Well, if you were really in love with each other..." You may look into some couples therapy for that. Not doubting you at all, maybe a bad choice of words, but I do think she may have issues she needs...."Fixed" so to speak. I doubt she does'nt love you when she says "Don't tocuh me.". She's just "troubled".

I also don't know ANYTHING about her or you so this info might be way off base. Just saying that her "problem" may have a solution if worked on. If you guys work on it. I'm sure it's deeper than that as well. Either way, it sucks. good luck.

Well I was thinking she could fix it... but you can't change a person. They have to want to change, and she told me she just doesn't want to.

I was hoping that that "You reap what you sow" would come into play, and that sowing the seeds of having a loving relationship would help her eventually grow and change... but the ground must be fertile to grow. You can't plant rice in a dry field, nor can you plant corn in a swamp. Much the same, I can't make her change without her having the desire to.

 

[Eringobraugh]

I wish I had your attitude when I broke up with my gf in similar situation, it sucked but thank god in retrospect

 

[artrius]

We are all behind you even though you exposed yourself as
Oh, and no! You cannot have a hug!

well at least I have a date for next weekend already (and yes it is a female)

 

[bran987]

you did the right thing this is great news!!! your life could have really gotten screwed up! get up each day now and pat yourself on the back for getting out when you knew it wasn't right.

 

[nycgirl]

So is anyone gonna ask... What trait? I'm not asking.

Does it matter? Artrius, I'm sorry. Better now than later. Stay strong.

 

[SoKlueles]

sorry to hear but glad ur doing ok