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Yo nan, so is your hubby horny now?

seriously. how does he take care of you>>>
he takes me evverywhere I want/need, to and from work, etc eventhough there are buses, even if he loses sleep he'll always go with me, he's always been supportive of me, even when I went for my PhD and no one else not even my own mother supported me, I did let him down on that :( he makes sure I'm happy in every single way, except sexually clearly, he's driven over 1000 miles just to take me places I wanna go in which he had absolutely no gain, he worries about me and my health, is always reminding me to put my glasses on, to make dr appointments, etc, dont really know how to describe it but he's there for me whenever I need him.
 
he takes me evverywhere I want/need, to and from work, etc eventhough there are buses, even if he loses sleep he'll always go with me, he's always been supportive of me, even when I went for my PhD and no one else not even my own mother supported me, I did let him down on that :( he makes sure I'm happy in every single way, except sexually clearly, he's driven over 1000 miles just to take me places I wanna go in which he had absolutely no gain, he worries about me and my health, is always reminding me to put my glasses on, to make dr appointments, etc, dont really know how to describe it but he's there for me whenever I need him.

obviously you've got to leave him :rolleyes:
 
he takes me evverywhere I want/need, to and from work, etc eventhough there are buses, even if he loses sleep he'll always go with me, he's always been supportive of me, even when I went for my PhD and no one else not even my own mother supported me, I did let him down on that :( he makes sure I'm happy in every single way, except sexually clearly, he's driven over 1000 miles just to take me places I wanna go in which he had absolutely no gain, he worries about me and my health, is always reminding me to put my glasses on, to make dr appointments, etc, dont really know how to describe it but he's there for me whenever I need him.

so...he's more like your dad.
 
he takes me evverywhere I want/need, to and from work, etc eventhough there are buses, even if he loses sleep he'll always go with me, he's always been supportive of me, even when I went for my PhD and no one else not even my own mother supported me, I did let him down on that :( he makes sure I'm happy in every single way, except sexually clearly, he's driven over 1000 miles just to take me places I wanna go in which he had absolutely no gain, he worries about me and my health, is always reminding me to put my glasses on, to make dr appointments, etc, dont really know how to describe it but he's there for me whenever I need him.

come on....he reminds you to put your glases on??? thats something a GREAT husband would do.....fuck im dying
 
I'm not trying to be hurtful to you either nan, but a lot of the things you just posted sounds like things a parent would do for a kid. I'm just throwing out a thing here or there to maybe give a perspective.
 
come on....he reminds you to put your glases on??? thats something a GREAT husband would do.....fuck im dying

by the way woot, please take your hat off in the house.
 
come on....he reminds you to put your glases on??? thats something a GREAT husband would do.....fuck im dying
im glad that's all you took from that

I dont need to convince everyone here that he is a good husband seeing how I think he is a good husband and that's all I need.
 
you are trying really hard to make it sounds like hes a great husband, but you are just trying to make yourself feel better...we all know how you feel...
 
im glad that's all you took from that

I dont need to convince everyone here that he is a good husband seeing how I think he is a good husband and that's all I need.

then why are you constantly making threads at how unhappy you are? clearly hes not doing it..i mean, its a shock that you got laid this morning....who the fuck am i to give advice...i have been divorced but i can tell when someone is not happy now
 
Not much but we decided to take the risk for a better life, so far we've failed...

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Stop that. You know that things are better then before. The challenge is that you're focusing / measuring the wrong things.
 
P.S. We had sex 2 min after my previous post, lolol I'll prepare our workout room, vacum the pool and pressure wash today,as positive renforcement, LOL :D



CONGRATS!!! :beer:

FYI, proper positive reinforcement would have been making him a kick-ass sammich post-fuck. Remember that for next time.
 
I wonder if he thinks to himself, "Fuck, I have a 27 yr old kid."?
Actually I once had a very insightful convo with shirl about this and yes I think he might think this, hence why I got my permit and am trying to be a bit more independant, the job apart will probably help too.

then why are you constantly making threads at how unhappy you are? clearly hes not doing it..i mean, its a shock that you got laid this morning....who the fuck am i to give advice...i have been divorced but i can tell when someone is not happy now
because I am unhappy on the sexual front, very unhappy, but that doesnt constitute the whole relationship, he does other things that make me very happy, like taking me to the bok tower garden 300 miles away so we could hear freaking bells :D why? becuase he knew it would make me happy.
 
Actually I once had a very insightful convo with shirl about this and yes I think he might think this, hence why I got my permit and am trying to be a bit more independant, the job apart will probably help too.


because I am unhappy on the sexual front, very unhappy, but that doesnt constitute the whole relationship, he does other things that make me very happy, like taking me to the bok tower garden 300 miles away so we could hear freaking bells :D why? becuase he knew it would make me happy.

it does obviosuly when you arent getting any....creates a lot of problems...thats why im fucking divorced....im a useless fucking waste of skin
 
I wonder if he thinks to himself, "Fuck, I have a 27 yr old kid."?

And u and shirl were right on the money, we just had "the talk" v9.3 *sigh*

He mentioned a lot of things that have him turned off, some of them are that feeling that he has to take care of me and the awful dependency, also me getting frustrated and angry over stupid stuff, which ironically is a cycle: I dont get laid I get stresses and angry which puts him off and it happens again.

Other things involve more personal physical stuff like things I wear that he hates and stuff I used to do and no longer do because I thought he didnt give a fuck about.

So now we take the good we take the bad and work on it.

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And u and shirl were right on the money, we just had "the talk" v9.3 *sigh*

He mentioned a lot of things that have him turned off, some of them are that feeling that he has to take care of me and the awful dependency, also me getting frustrated and angry over stupid stuff, which ironically is a cycle: I dont get laid I get stresses and angry which puts him off and it happens again.

Other things involve more personal physical stuff like things I wear that he hates and stuff I used to do and no longer do because I thought he didnt give a fuck about.

So now we take the good we take the bad and work on it.

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Glad you two had a real talk where all cards were put out on the table. He makes some changes, you make some changes, and you are both much happier for it.
 
And u and shirl were right on the money, we just had "the talk" v9.3 *sigh*

He mentioned a lot of things that have him turned off, some of them are that feeling that he has to take care of me and the awful dependency, also me getting frustrated and angry over stupid stuff, which ironically is a cycle: I dont get laid I get stresses and angry which puts him off and it happens again.

Other things involve more personal physical stuff like things I wear that he hates and stuff I used to do and no longer do because I thought he didnt give a fuck about.

So now we take the good we take the bad and work on it.

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Was he home when you talked to him?
 
I'm not trying to be hurtful to you either nan, but a lot of the things you just posted sounds like things a parent would do for a kid. I'm just throwing out a thing here or there to maybe give a perspective.

CEO, her eye condition is serious. She needs a caregiver, and someone that does not mind being needed in that way because it will worsen as she ages. She doesn't need someone selfish, or that will resent that she needs to be taken care of a little more than someone else because she can't help that.

Glad you guys talked about it nan.
 
You are not like a 27 year old kid nan. Do you not take on adult stuff like work and bills? All you need is someone to take you places. Hell, I know parenting is a lot more than just driving kids around.

Lets really put this in perspective, and the one where you are like his daughter is the wrong one. You are not needy in any other way, working under the assumption that needing someone in a marriage is some sort of a bad thing. Its not.

I think it is his medical condition. I didn't read the whole thread but I would definitely walk around in some lace tonight and a silk robe if I were you ;)
 
CEO, her eye condition is serious. She needs a caregiver, and someone that does not mind being needed in that way because it will worsen as she ages. She doesn't need someone selfish, or that will resent that she needs to be taken care of a little more than someone else because she can't help that.

Glad you guys talked about it nan.

Yeah but he feels I hide behind it, which I guess I unknowingly do sometimes, getting the permit has been a bit liberating for both of us

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i am with zwhit

that's what blow jobs are for, for when she's on her period
 
omg what a bunch of pussies.


omg icky blood don't let the blood touch me!!!!!!!11 Hold me I'm scared and I'm a pussy!111

tee hee
 
omg what a bunch of pussies.


omg icky blood don't let the blood touch me!!!!!!!11 Hold me I'm scared and I'm a pussy!111

tee hee



Yeah silly me...being grossed out by that big chunky clot. Shoulda just put my cock up to her mouth and told her to suck it clean. After all, it's just blood...no big deal, right?
 
Women love getting laid when they're on their period's. You guy just need to learn how to get it on in the shower. A little blood never hurt anyone.
 
woody i forgot to ask, hows it going with the family?

The kids live with me full time. The wife rented a room from one of her family members.
We've done some stuff together. We've gone on a few dates, and done things as a family for the kids.

She's seen her therapist twice, and we are trying to get an appointment with a marriage counselor that her therapist recommended.

She stayed over last night and we had dinner and watched a movie she rented, but her depression was really bad, so it wasn't a really good night. She woke up in a funk this morning too. It's a nice day at the beach, so I asked her if she was doing anything. She said no, so I asked her to let the kids play in the sand/water and she got angry at me saying she didn't feel like doing anything, and that I have no idea what her depression is like.
 
The kids live with me full time. The wife rented a room from one of her family members.
We've done some stuff together. We've gone on a few dates, and done things as a family for the kids.

She's seen her therapist twice, and we are trying to get an appointment with a marriage counselor that her therapist recommended.

She stayed over last night and we had dinner and watched a movie she rented, but her depression was really bad, so it wasn't a really good night. She woke up in a funk this morning too. It's a nice day at the beach, so I asked her if she was doing anything. She said no, so I asked her to let the kids play in the sand/water and she got angry at me saying she didn't feel like doing anything, and that I have no idea what her depression is like.

Good to hear man. I'm glad everything is working out so far
 
Women love getting laid when they're on their period's. You guy just need to learn how to get it on in the shower. A little blood never hurt anyone.

True dat. I don't know about the shower. The water washes away the natural pussy lube near the outside edge of the vagina. I just put down a dark towel. In fact having a "sex towel" handy at all times while getting down is a good idea.

i love period sex...i dont give a fuck

K for you, Good Bro.

Agreed. I used to be game, but then one time I pulled out and there was a blood clot the size of a nickel stuck to my cawk...that tramatized me.
:sick:

This one time a girl was riding me and when she dismounted and started to move to the side, a big ol' clot landed with a thunk on my thigh. It was awesome. She ust picked it up and put it in the trash or something, them wiped her hand on the towel and we kept going. She was mortified but I thought it was hilarious.
 
This one time a girl was riding me and when she dismounted and started to move to the side, a big ol' clot landed with a thunk on my thigh. It was awesome. She ust picked it up and put it in the trash or something, them wiped her hand on the towel and we kept going. She was mortified but I thought it was hilarious.

lol! i bet she'll always remember her first period thanks to you fagt ass pedo
 
CEO, her eye condition is serious. She needs a caregiver, and someone that does not mind being needed in that way because it will worsen as she ages. She doesn't need someone selfish, or that will resent that she needs to be taken care of a little more than someone else because she can't help that.

Glad you guys talked about it nan.

Why are you telling me this? Sounds like something that should be/should have been told to him. I can't do anything about her condition or his feelings.
 
You are not like a 27 year old kid nan. Do you not take on adult stuff like work and bills? All you need is someone to take you places. Hell, I know parenting is a lot more than just driving kids around.

Lets really put this in perspective, and the one where you are like his daughter is the wrong one. You are not needy in any other way, working under the assumption that needing someone in a marriage is some sort of a bad thing. Its not.

I think it is his medical condition. I didn't read the whole thread but I would definitely walk around in some lace tonight and a silk robe if I were you ;)

yeah, but that's how he feels. Right now at least. There's more to it than that, and to find out what that is and to begin to fix it, that will take a lot more communication and work on both their parts.

The reality of the situation needs to be worked around how he feels (and how she feels) until he accepts again that she will need more help due to her eyesight issue and realizes again how much she does contribute. Sometimes people get busy and caught up in all that they are doing that they lose sight of how much their partner contributes. This can be especially true in a case where their partner has needs that makes them more dependent on their partner's help.
 
I was just saying that in her defense in case those comments made her feel bad for being a little more dependent on him than a regular relationship. Yeah it might sound like a father daughter thing to most of us because we all are used to not being needed and not needing anyone in those ways. My Mom has the same thing so I sympathize I guess.
 
+ the period blood acts like an extra lubricant! It would be wrong to leave a girl high and dry while she's ready for some crazy sex on her period
 
yeah, but that's how he feels. Right now at least. There's more to it than that, and to find out what that is and to begin to fix it, that will take a lot more communication and work on both their parts.

The reality of the situation needs to be worked around how he feels (and how she feels) until he accepts again that she will need more help due to her eyesight issue and realizes again how much she does contribute. Sometimes people get busy and caught up in all that they are doing that they lose sight of how much their partner contributes. This can be especially true in a case where their partner has needs that makes them more dependent on their partner's help.

I know I can be dependant but as cindy said I work my ass off too and pay bills too, hell I had 2 jobs

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Lol @ that bridge
So it happened today again! I doubt the things Im changing had such a huge response, I wonder if his 200mg from wednesday kicked in or its too soon to tell. Not that I dont have faith in myself, I looked awesome yesterday for a job interview and I know he liked, but today was just... damn

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Long estered test takes time to build up to peak levels in the system. My guess is it has finally peaked, and that peak is a dose high enough for him to be a normal male. Congrats, Nan...looks like you're gonna get it on the regular now. :)
 
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