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Not in the mood for sex? Whoa.
Yo nan, so is your hubby horny now?
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Unless he suffers from death grip syndrome.
*ebony*
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thats good. how about going with him to a shop and let him pic out stuff he likes, costumes, little frilly things, toys he'd like to use on u. IDK, im out of ideas.
Lol sorry to say, but he's gay for real
Tried that, he doesnt like anything.
@woodyo, no ED, I know for a fact it works fine.
I heard a new one today, was told to give him a break cuz he just got out of the bathroom, splendid, all I asked for was a kiss...
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EarthRider
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does he like porn
maybe have that playing all day
i'd try gay porn to start for him
maybe have that playing all day
i'd try gay porn to start for him
I asked him for that kiss and hug he told be to back off for since im going to bed, he told me I could get just the kiss and I said wtf about the hug, he said I never said there was a hug, I told him not to worry since im used to settling for nothing anyway and just came to bed, crying myself to sleep now, I cant fucking win. 
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I think something is wrong with your relationship for that to happen. Seriously, are you that blind? No guys makes up excuses not to have sex unless there are problems
Im not a fucking retard, of course there is something wrong and Im positive it goes beyond his incredibly low test(151), but I cant force him to change and he refuses to go to counseling, hell he wouldnt read a simple book I asked him to (5 languages of love)so my options are take it or leave it and Im not ready to let go, not yet
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EarthRider
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i denied my wife sex tonight, but she wants another kid
i told her i want a blow job and will withold myself til i get them
lmao, in a few minutes i'll prolly go have sex with my wife
that is a normal marriage nan, i'd have a serioius heart to heart
i told her i want a blow job and will withold myself til i get them
lmao, in a few minutes i'll prolly go have sex with my wife
that is a normal marriage nan, i'd have a serioius heart to heart
She couldn't even pay him to have sex it sounds like.
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EarthRider
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she could pay me
I asked him for that kiss and hug he told be to back off for since im going to bed, he told me I could get just the kiss and I said wtf about the hug, he said I never said there was a hug, I told him not to worry since im used to settling for nothing anyway and just came to bed, crying myself to sleep now, I cant fucking win.
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Uhh im no expert but if youre splitting hairs over who got a fucking hug, youre marriage has deeper problems than fucking.
Lol you're too much of a little bitch to make that happen even if she offered
jackangel
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nan, sounds like life is pretty tough in a number of ways. i hope you can take the steps needed to improve your situation. it's really hard, but otherwise you will remain stuck.
figure out what you haven't tried, then try it. he has to try with you, or it's no good. if so, find out sooner rather than later, then gtfo.
also, make sure he doesn't have a vomit or deuce fetish.
thank you.
figure out what you haven't tried, then try it. he has to try with you, or it's no good. if so, find out sooner rather than later, then gtfo.
also, make sure he doesn't have a vomit or deuce fetish.
thank you.
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EarthRider
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yeah true, plus i have a hot wife who wants to have sex a lot, so why travel all the way to florida for it
Wow thats horrible bro! What do you do...?
sick there is blood and shit
i stay away from the house as much as i can during that time of the month
wtf
why??
Sex during "that" time of the month ROCKS!!!
and Nan..Don't ever turn him away, he'll find another way to get off for sure.
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EarthRider
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wtf
why??
Sex during "that" time of the month ROCKS!!!
and Nan..Don't ever turn him away, he'll find another way to get off for sure.
i don't like blood, sick
wtf
why??
Sex during "that" time of the month ROCKS!!!
and Nan..Don't ever turn him away, he'll find another way to get off for sure.
This^^^ girls are always at their horniest peak at that time of the month
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EarthRider
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during her period, sick
i take five days off, wouldn't want that
i take five days off, wouldn't want that
Since you're not boning her, she probably gets on some other guy who isn't afraid of a little blood, to rock her world.
And Nan, literally just rape your man whether he wants to or not.
We've had the heart to heart convo many many times, gets us no where...
Yeah, I know, every time I try to kiss or hug him it's like it's a fucking nuissance, cuz he thinks I'm just doing it to have sex, so even that kind of affection is limited, to the point that most of the times I have to ask to get a kiss or kiss him, doesnt even happen naturally that often anymore and even when I ask he acts like he's doing me a huge fucking favor which of course creates resentment... it's a mess.
Fuck that sucks oak, sorry to hear that
we've gone for 3-4 months tops, never a year thankfully, ivillage has a mismatched libido board if you feel like talking, it gets depressing though Yeah life pretty much sucks in almost every aspect for me right now but I'm still holding on to my sanity. He knows I'm open to almost anything, I've talked to him about it, having fantasies, dress up, role playing, etc it's almost like he's asexual, NOTHING interests him, there's nothing I can recall that will turn him on, I know he loves Angelina Jolie and Leah Michelle and even when he sees them I never see him sporting wood, he barely sports wood randomly in the mornings, almost never, the low T doesnt help this whole thing
I never turn him down because I never know when that window will open again, last time I wasnt even in the mood but went and took some advil, foreplayed while they kicked in and then proceededwtf
why??
Sex during "that" time of the month ROCKS!!!
and Nan..Don't ever turn him away, he'll find another way to get off for sure.
It's gotten worse with years gone by but he's always had low libido, we met and moved in really fast, I noticed it a couple of months into living together
Lol at my 5'1" ass subduing his 6'1" ass
So in a nutshell for those of you who took the time to read this, yes something is wrong, a combination of things, the fact that his T is half of the lowest values in men, his overweight, my overweight, the frustration and resentment that has happened do to this, our shitty salaries and current life, lots of things play a factor here, I've talked to him about this and he just doesnt have a reason, he claims this is just the way he is and he says he just doesnt get that urge that often... he gets upset when I tell him it's not normal and claims not everyone is the same
I'm way past trying to figure him out.
*ebony*
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We've had the heart to heart convo many many times, gets us no where...
Yeah, I know, every time I try to kiss or hug him it's like it's a fucking nuissance, cuz he thinks I'm just doing it to have sex, so even that kind of affection is limited, to the point that most of the times I have to ask to get a kiss or kiss him, doesnt even happen naturally that often anymore and even when I ask he acts like he's doing me a huge fucking favor which of course creates resentment... it's a mess.
Fuck that sucks oak, sorry to hear that
Yeah life pretty much sucks in almost every aspect for me right now but I'm still holding on to my sanity. He knows I'm open to almost anything, I've talked to him about it, having fantasies, dress up, role playing, etc it's almost like he's asexual, NOTHING interests him, there's nothing I can recall that will turn him on, I know he loves Angelina Jolie and Leah Michelle and even when he sees them I never see him sporting wood, he barely sports wood randomly in the mornings, almost never, the low T doesnt help this whole thing
I never turn him down because I never know when that window will open again, last time I wasnt even in the mood but went and took some advil, foreplayed while they kicked in and then proceeded
It's gotten worse with years gone by but he's always had low libido, we met and moved in really fast, I noticed it a couple of months into living together
Lol at my 5'1" ass subduing his 6'1" ass
So in a nutshell for those of you who took the time to read this, yes something is wrong, a combination of things, the fact that his T is half of the lowest values in men, his overweight, my overweight, the frustration and resentment that has happened do to this, our shitty salaries and current life, lots of things play a factor here, I've talked to him about this and he just doesnt have a reason, he claims this is just the way he is and he says he just doesnt get that urge that often... he gets upset when I tell him it's not normal and claims not everyone is the same
damn nan. hang in there with the job situation.
i'd be pissed with hubby situation. you seem like your trying so hard and he just resigned to his situation. he knows your unhappy and he tells you that "thats the way it is". So basically he's telling you there wont be many changes in the future. I mean he doesn't even seem concerned enough to find ways to fix his problems, even you are the one that going around searching and scheduling appointments with docs. you got him in the country, working to support the family, trying to make relationship work. Of course this is a one sided story but still its hard not to be on your side. I know you said your not ready to let go, but do you truly believe that you can be happy with him?
What do you mean he is overwieght? like obese? then diet and exercise will help with the whole low T problem.
This is true too, who knows what I may be doing wrong, some things I know some things he doesnt like and I'm working on them, they're not bedroom related but maybe it spills over, who knows
maybe he feels I'm needy or bitchy, men like the chase and not only do I not get chased but I kinda throw myself at him, maybe that puts him off, but I've tried the laying low approach and that doesnt work either, last time I allowed him to "chase" me was 3 months without sex 
I know I'm sloppy with stuff around the house and I need to lose weight, now that I'm at home without a job I'm working on those things, it's kind of a struggle since we're both the same but I need to break the cycle of bad eating habits and apathy over everyday chores, I need to lose like 50 pounds, he needs to lose like 70 or more, it's hard to care about your figure when no one gives a fuck about how you look or what you do, when we first started having this issue I was super thin and it persisted, but now I gotta do things for me, since I've been home we've had all home made meals, no junk food outside, not even the weekends or nights
This is true too, who knows what I may be doing wrong, some things I know some things he doesnt like and I'm working on them, they're not bedroom related but maybe it spills over, who knows
I know I'm sloppy with stuff around the house and I need to lose weight, now that I'm at home without a job I'm working on those things, it's kind of a struggle since we're both the same but I need to break the cycle of bad eating habits and apathy over everyday chores, I need to lose like 50 pounds, he needs to lose like 70 or more, it's hard to care about your figure when no one gives a fuck about how you look or what you do, when we first started having this issue I was super thin and it persisted, but now I gotta do things for me, since I've been home we've had all home made meals, no junk food outside, not even the weekends or nights
Youre not doing anything wrong Niggoggles.
Member that time you said I could put it in your Butt? Ahhhhh... good times..
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EarthRider
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sorry nan
i hope you guys can figure things out. him being overweight sure is not helping either.
on a serious note, are you sure he's not a mo. and he is wrong it is not normal to not want sex. i have yet to meet a guy that doesn't think about sex most of the day.
i hope you guys can figure things out. him being overweight sure is not helping either.
on a serious note, are you sure he's not a mo. and he is wrong it is not normal to not want sex. i have yet to meet a guy that doesn't think about sex most of the day.
This is true too, who knows what I may be doing wrong, some things I know some things he doesnt like and I'm working on them, they're not bedroom related but maybe it spills over, who knows
I know I'm sloppy with stuff around the house and I need to lose weight, now that I'm at home without a job I'm working on those things, it's kind of a struggle since we're both the same but I need to break the cycle of bad eating habits and apathy over everyday chores, I need to lose like 50 pounds, he needs to lose like 70 or more, it's hard to care about your figure when no one gives a fuck about how you look or what you do, when we first started having this issue I was super thin and it persisted, but now I gotta do things for me, since I've been home we've had all home made meals, no junk food outside, not even the weekends or nights
I have seriously contemplated him being gay, not only does he not meet your good old fashioned stereotypes but also he doesnt have either an overly supportive or repulsion towards the gay community, I've never caught him checking a guy out, he likes girl on girl porn, he does not like ass play with his ass, he's not even very into anal... it kinda doesnt fit the profile
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EarthRider
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if he likes porn, cant you guys just watch porn everyday to turn him on. something just isn't right. my wife just has to walk by and i am thinking about sex. this is how most men are
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EarthRider
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nan if you slept with another guy do you think he would care?
I really don't think he would as long as I'm careful about it...
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this is true nan. i don't think you sleeping with other men is the answer, i am just trying to figure out your hubby. He just seems a lil off. i'd cut the nutz off a dude that would try ot have sexuals with my wife. I wouldn't take it personal.
1. You're not doing ANYTHING wrong, short of not bitch slapping this turd on the daily.This is true too, who knows what I may be doing wrong, some things I know some things he doesnt like and I'm working on them, they're not bedroom related but maybe it spills over, who knows
I know I'm sloppy with stuff around the house and I need to lose weight, now that I'm at home without a job I'm working on those things, it's kind of a struggle since we're both the same but I need to break the cycle of bad eating habits and apathy over everyday chores, I need to lose like 50 pounds, he needs to lose like 70 or more, it's hard to care about your figure when no one gives a fuck about how you look or what you do, when we first started having this issue I was super thin and it persisted, but now I gotta do things for me, since I've been home we've had all home made meals, no junk food outside, not even the weekends or nights
2. Your weight doesn't have a thing to do with it.
3. If I had steady nookie 14" away every night even if she weighed 300lbs I'd still be all "hey about a bj?".
4. I had low T myself a few times and even though I didn't want sex I still wanted to want to have sex.
you don't know dick
I think he is over whelmed with the whole issue. Some men start to feel like less of a man when things aren't going right. Those men that claim different are just bullshiters. I'm sure he is still into you, so let him feel like he is still the man in the bed. Maybe walk around with just a tee shirt with nothing else. Of course take a shower and smell good while you walk around him. Let him go for you and don't push up on him. Let him take control on his own. Then make sure you reinforce how he is the man. Maybe this will take him out of his funk. My$.02
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EarthRider
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yo u dont know shit, his shit never worked bo
Stfu
the plot thickens...
+100000000000
Tell him if he doesn't get it in with you, you'll leave him
Lol at wearing a t shirt with nothing, I cant even leave the house without a bra, am not alllowed to prance naked or in underware, goes well with the no showering together rule :mad;
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Is he not attracted to you anymore or something?
*ebony*
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not allowed to be nekkid! holy fuk, im pissed just reading this shit. nan leave him and come be my roommate, we can be nakkid as much as we want. no restrictions on hugs either.
I don't think I could stand to be treated like your hubby does you, even if I tried.
canadianhitman
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Wow....your husband is a headcase. It's not just low test...he's got ISSUES.
Bail. Seriously. Not kidding.
Bail. Seriously. Not kidding.
PICK3
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Ya'll can both be my roommates; no nood restrictions for realz.
fuck off you little puke
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EarthRider
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i'm homeless ebony and live under a bridge. a room in your place would be much appreciated
Why bother posting if you can't walk the talk
hahahahaha
This is the only thing left, he myst really not like me I guess, but he's generally a cold person, which at first I liked, I dont like being smothered with hugs and kisses, specially not publicly, never thought Id have to ask for them though
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Now imagine how I feel, I used to be a whole lot different, vibrant, assertive, confident and believe it or not even more sexually charged, but shit got in my head and took it's toll, started to gain weight cuz who cares, cuz if he doesnt want to touch me I'll give him a reason not too, became angry and resentful, bitchy and naggy... Im tired and Im gonna lose weight and be nicer and if that doesnt work I know I did my last best
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EarthRider
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awesome nan, good luck
but if he was cold before you got together wasnt that a sign. i mean is he nice to you. do you guys have fun together. or are you just roomatesz
but if he was cold before you got together wasnt that a sign. i mean is he nice to you. do you guys have fun together. or are you just roomatesz
He's actually a great guy, he takes care of me, he always wants to eat or go places he knows I wanna go, we talk a lot, joke around, we have even worked together and in occasion side by side, maybe all this time together is bad and it created dependency, now that I'll work somewhere else lets see if it helps.
P.S. We had sex 2 min after my previous post, lolol I'll prepare our workout room, vacum the pool and pressure wash today,as positive renforcement, LOL
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He's actually a great guy, he takes care of me, he always wants to eat or go places he knows I wanna go, we talk a lot, joke around, we have even worked together and in occasion side by side, maybe all this time together is bad and it created dependency, now that I'll work somewhere else lets see if it helps.
P.S. We had sex 2 min after my previous post, lolol I'll prepare our workout room, vacum the pool and pressure wash today,as positive renforcement, LOL
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he takes care of you..come on
That seems like a rather dumb reason to be attracted to him. Why don't you like other's showing you affection?
ahahahaha holy fuck we act like it's some kind of accomplishment
if you got laid, that'dbe an accomplishment
hahahahaha
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EarthRider
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omg i almost lost the smoothie, haha
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EarthRider
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if anyone could make a smoothie better than mine, well that wouldn't really mean much
If anyone had a shittier sex life then Nan, that would not be an accomplishment
BBR100
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It's a pretty down time in your life right now, nan. It's perfectly understandable. Start doing things for yourself each day and the vibrant, confident, happy person will return.
Do it for yourself and no one else.
LOLz
There's a smoothie trend going on, even V8 is making smoothies
I have like 30 in my bathroom, true story
seriously. how does he take care of you>>>
