RADAR said:Guys! Pamela here at Elite has accepted a married proposal from me,i'm getting a tad bit of cold feet! What should i do???Help me bors!!!!
RADAR

Pamela said:
I can't wait to here!
RADAR I have some socks..![]()
ChefWide said:Halfling, the ring holds great power, but also great DANGER!!!
Y_Lifter said:Remember this...
What's hers is hers
What's yours is OURS
Y_Lifter said:
Have 3 bank accounts setup.
Y_Lifter said:Best advice on the shared money issue..
Have 3 bank accounts setup.
If you use direct deposit, your deposits can be split up with 95% going into one account and 5% going into another..
Anyway, have one checking account setup for both of you to deposit say 90% 95% or whatever is needed of your earning to pay shared bills.
And each of you have another account setup that the remaining % of the paycheck goes into each week that is on your name and accessable by you only.
If one makes substatially more money than the other, you can agree on either a set % or a set amount that goes into the shared account for fairness depending on Greed or who does other things in the house etc..
This way each of you has money to spend on personal small wants, or you can save it up for larger items. And yet you have the shared account for bills, vacations etc and no complaining about who spends what out of the shared incomes..
canadianhitman said:
I'd like to add to that. If you make significantly more, don't let your account build up too high. Every year or two, take a trip to Germany and put the balance of it into one of those passbook accounts that has no name attached to it. In the event of a divorce, it will be untraceable. Think of it as your emergency starting-over fund. Just make sure that the passbook itself is in a secure place...becaue without it, you can't access the money (think secret safety deposit box in a bank in a town other than your own)
Raina said:I have a big ass trust fund that's VERY legally protected
Raina said:I have a big ass trust fund that's VERY legally protected and even if I marry someone, they have 0 access to it. I don't pretend I don't have it. I don't need to hide it. It's mine.
Raina said:My bf loves me for me too! And anyone who could live with me for years, see me break a remote in half because I'm pissed over a football game and doesn't want to kill me...that's love.
Pamela said:
I know RADAR loves me for me..![]()

Raina said:
And Radar-- who would be nervous about marrying Pamela? She's a sweetie pie!

Pamela said:
Raina he's calling out your name when we are together.
Should I be worried?![]()
Thank You I think your a Sweetie Pie..![]()
RADAR said:
Ok so i slipped,but that was only at lunch!
RADAR
Pamela said:
""You Call that lunch?""""
RADAR said:I love you sweetie!!!!![]()
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You make me smile!!!
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RADAR
Raina said:Drama always seems to surface around the holidays.
lol!EnderJE said:lol...its like a soap opera...shhhh...lets see what happens next...:0
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