Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below This guy I work with writes me poetry.I have a boyfriend .... he's engaged(creepy).I told him that it's wrong for him to keep giving me poems so he said he would stop giving me poems.Well, now he doesn't give them to me but he leaves them in places for me to find... like in my clip board at work and on my car windshield.I asked him why he is doing this---since he said he would stop giving them to me.He said that he did stop giving them to me and it's not his problem that I keep looking and accidentally finding them where he just happens to leave them.OK- what should I do now? I don't want to get all extra mean cuz he's a cop that I work with ..a lot.
WTF-over?
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This is serious. I would tell him if he doesn't stop you're gonna have to report it. Then either tell his girl, or report it. Not sure legally, but to me it sounds like some sort of harrassment. You could try being a bitch, just generally disagreeing with things he says, expressing interest in things he dispises. He really does have issues.medicj said:
medicj, you eventually gotta let him know where you stand on this issue.
I'm afraid it might get outta hand...prob will only get worse.
It's obvious he's got the hots for you, but it's gotta stop...
unless you want it to continue...? Don't think you do...
And if cordiality still doesn't work, well then you just have to be a bit harsh...
might be tough, but it's best for both of you.
Good luck!
I'm afraid it might get outta hand...prob will only get worse.
It's obvious he's got the hots for you, but it's gotta stop...
unless you want it to continue...? Don't think you do...
And if cordiality still doesn't work, well then you just have to be a bit harsh...
might be tough, but it's best for both of you.
Good luck!
medicj said:
Fucking funny....I have not heard the term "WTF...over" since I was in the Army.
medicj said:
Tell him that you are a big fan of Bea Arthur, and see if he starts leaving pictures of her everywhere....at least maybe you could get a good laugh out of it.
But seriously though, if it creeps you out, take it up with supervision. I think looking at a female for longer than 6 seconds these days is considered harrassment.
kristie_doll1980
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take your notes, poems, and whatever else he has sent you to your supervisor and let him/her know that you have asked him to stop but he persists. At least that way he can't claim you wanted them.
i like the idea of making copies of them all and mailing them to his fiancee. that should scare him.
if that fails, have someone break his hands so he can't write or type anymore.
oooh, i know...put some exlax in his coffee or something like that. fun stuff
i like the idea of making copies of them all and mailing them to his fiancee. that should scare him.
if that fails, have someone break his hands so he can't write or type anymore.
oooh, i know...put some exlax in his coffee or something like that. fun stuff
awittyusername
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LOL. Whats up with the cops? I knew atleast 3 girls that had cops stalking them.
At my first job, this temp for the employment law department would leave cherry/watermelon Blow Pops on my desk. He claimed it was because of the red coat I wore in the winter. 
It freaked me out. I told the attorney I assisted. She told his supervisor and he was quietly escorted out of the building.
It freaked me out. I told the attorney I assisted. She told his supervisor and he was quietly escorted out of the building.medicj said:
Now a comment like this will win over many friends
Ok.. so seriously you need to REPORT it now. You told him to stop, he didn't and now its creeping you out... NOW let him know how serious you really are.
Thanx for the help, everyone.I love u guys. I think I will write a letter to his boss about it and show it to him first.I can tell him that I wanted him to look it over first ...since he spends a lot of time writing.Maybe then he will know that it's gone 2far.If that doesn't work, I will really send a copy to his boss.
