WTF, i simply just dont get women.

[stosstruppe]

b) She likes you but is enjoying the space and is going to move on soon. Soon it'll be using you as a booty call and then she'll be seeing someone else.

+1

Cut your losses while you still think of her & the memories / experiences shared fondly.

 

[Kangazoo]

There's your key. Maybe she loves you, wants to stay with you, but feels or has felt smothered. give her a little breathing room. as far as how much, well, you should discuss that with her.

Yea, i thought about that. She has been saying for a while she thinks we spend too much time together. That's why I decided to take this break. But we had discussed it was only going to be a week, but now she just wants more. So idk how to read that.

I think what im gonna do is give her space, but still call/text her here and there to let her know that im there and still care about her.

 

[KillahBee]

There's your key. Maybe she loves you, wants to stay with you, but feels or has felt smothered. give her a little breathing room. as far as how much, well, you should discuss that with her.

fuck that, how many relationships you know of that have successfully come back from "breaks"?! a break is simply a prelude to ending it all.

move on, brah. or go on a break, but ready your bench for game time.

 

[puddlemonkey]

(I don't mean that as an insult, so back off BM). read her emotions.

C'mon... I leave work in 7.5 hours, be realistic.

 

[Smurfy]

fuck that, how many relationships you know of that have successfully come back from "breaks"?! a break is simply a prelude to ending it all.

move on, brah. or go on a break, but ready your bench for game time.

yeah but from what he says, it doesnt sound like she is asking for an actual "break" (breakup?), but rather just not spending so much god damn time together. I can totally relate to that. Ive been there.

 

[puddlemonkey]

yeah but from what he says, it doesnt sound like she is asking for an actual "break" (breakup?), but rather just not spending so much god damn time together. I can totally relate to that. Ive been there.

I was about to pounce on you thinking you were chris. Swap the avi's back or both of you are getting time-outs.

 

[KillahBee]

yeah but from what he says, it doesnt sound like she is asking for an actual "break" (breakup?), but rather just not spending so much god damn time together. I can totally relate to that. Ive been there.

what's the difference? break, time apart, space. it all means the same thing - she ain't that into you and she's in her own head now about what to do. which all = get the fuck out now and save yourself trouble.

 

[musclemom]

fuck that, how many relationships you know of that have successfully come back from "breaks"?! A break is simply a prelude to ending it all.

Move on, brah. Or go on a break, but ready your bench for game time.

titcr

 

[Kangazoo]

yeah but from what he says, it doesnt sound like she is asking for an actual "break" (breakup?), but rather just not spending so much god damn time together. I can totally relate to that. Ive been there.

Its a lil bit of both, i think. Im not sure exactly where we are, I just know she said she needs some space/time to think about things. All i know is that she says she confused, and i totally see it. She said we can still talk/see each other. but when asked if she was still my girl, she said she dint know what we were at the time. So i ended up giving her some of her stuff back, her cloths/bathroom supplies, and she refused at first, but then wanted to take everything except her toothbrush, bc she said she may still need that here and that everything else she can always bring back. She def seems very optimistic that this time apart is gonna fix things, i disagree. But we said we were gonna talk chill this week, just don't know when. But then gain, i haven't talked to her since sat morn, so i don't know what to think now...

 

[Bikini Mod]

LOL@ me *jumping on KB saying something that actually makes sense and DOESN'T belittle women*.

Paying less attention to what someone says but seriously observing how they behave applies to both genders. You know, like when a guy TELLS you how much he loves you but that he beat the shit out of you because you made him mad? Chances are a woman would do better to pay attention to the fact that he beat her thus negating ANYTHING that ever came out of that man's mouth again... but hey, look at Rihanna.

Women are EXTREMELY emotional creatures, no doubt about that. Many are so driven by their emotions that they lack the ability to properly assess many situations. Men, on the other hand are driven by their INABILITY to feel much of anything except lust (sex) and rage (dominance). <--- not a cheap shot by any stretch.

My first question to the poster would be, "How old are the two of you?" From the sound of this thread it seems you guys are fairly young and just learning what you like/don't like, how to behave and how not to behave while in a relationship. Nothing more and nothing less. As others have said before me, this was a great *training wheels* relationship and the two of you should just part company. Chances are 2/3 years down the road neither of you will remember much about the other. Not a bad thing, just sayin is all.

Needy is VERY unattractive regardless of gender.