Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below
napsgear
genezapharmateuticals
domestic-supply
puritysourcelabs
UGL OZ
UGFREAK
napsgeargenezapharmateuticals domestic-supplypuritysourcelabsUGL OZUGFREAK

would you save your marraige?

would you stop disrespecting your wife

  • no

    Votes: 16 55.2%

  • yes

    Votes: 13 44.8%
  • Total voters
    29
C

Cutiebaby

the 1 who knows it all
Chairman Member
if she asked you to stop disrespecting her by
a) stop looking at porn while she is at work to give you her whole paycheck meanwhile busting her ass
b) stop jerking off while she is at work or sleeping
c)stop drinking cause when toxins enter your body you are a cmplete asshole
d) stop posting sexual remarks about other girls cause it is disrespectful expecially when she is on the same site
 
I wondered how you took that, I wouldnt do that to a girl that I loved, I just thought you were just laid back about that type of stuff. I would do change to save my marriage if I thought it was worth it
 
hamstershaver said:
whats wrong with jerking off to porn?
Click to expand...

Possibly nothing...but when the Net interferes with real life...its a bit out of line...really dependent on individuals though
 
my wife hates when i look at porn, too.

but i still have your guy's avatars here on EF.


But to answer your question, let it chill, sober up, and talk about it in the morning. Did that answer anything?
 
Raina said:
Yes girly but I think you've had 7 drinks too many. ;)
Click to expand...

in reguards to your iwannajerkofftoyouravatar

You have given out too much Karma in the last 24 hours, try again later.
 
I care. If I had thought she were serious, I'd have walked through fire for her. We often take those we love the most for granted. But if I were the woman, I would do everything to save the marriage. Marriage is sacred.
 
biteme said:
I care. If I had thought she were serious, I'd have walked through fire for her. We often take those we love the most for granted. But if I were the woman, I would do everything to save the marriage. Marriage is sacred.
Click to expand...
thats what i am saying but i am crazy drunk and need meds...lol
 
angel_girl said:
if she asked you to stop disrespecting her by
a) stop looking at porn while she is at work to give you her whole paycheck meanwhile busting her ass
b) stop jerking off while she is at work or sleeping
c)stop drinking cause when toxins enter your body you are a cmplete asshole
d) stop posting sexual remarks about other girls cause it is disrespectful expecially when she is on the same site
Click to expand...

Isn't this quite disrespectful? Using virtual strangers to give you "ammunition" against your husband? If you guys have issues, be adult and work them out alone. Getting drunk and bashing each other on a message board is a very immature thing to do.
 
angel_girl said:
thats what i am saying but i am crazy drunk and need meds...lol
Click to expand...

None of us are perfect. I'm praying for the 2 of you, I don't care what anyone else thinks about it either.
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Isn't this quite disrespectful? Using virtual strangers to give you "ammunition" against your husband? If you guys have issues, be adult and work them out alone. Getting drunk and bashing each other on a message board is a very immature thing to do.
Click to expand...

Agreed. All EF couples, should take note.

The board became an episode of Jerry Springer or Maury.
 
I don't think a) and b) are disrespectful. C) is a problem if it effects both of you negatively. D) I'd say thats fucked up if he knows how it makes you feel and still does it.
 
nycgirl said:
Agreed. All EF couples, should take note.

The board became an episode of Jerry Springer or Maury.
Click to expand...
I wanna see the story about CW, Frisky, and the transexual strippers.
 
Angel girl why does this upset you so much? would you rather him go find a hooch on the side of the road to bang? Just be happy he is waking himself off.???Don't you think?
 
i found that when i was married, my wife was everything to me...i had no need for any type of outside influences at all....she was my world at that time and i was very content...i think thats how it should work, IMO....there was no effort.
 
daisyduke6 said:
Angel girl why does this upset you so much? would you rather him go find a hooch on the side of the road to bang? Just be happy he is waking himself off.???Don't you think?
Click to expand...

the difference here is...wootoom would actually rather have sex with you than with his hand.

(putting your business out there in public with immature assholes like myself was your worst idea ever angelgirl)
 
dunk said:
the difference here is...wootoom would actually rather have sex with you than with his hand.

(putting your business out there in public with immature assholes like myself was your worst idea ever angelgirl)
Click to expand...
"Can you feel the love tonight..."
 
dunk said:
the difference here is...wootoom would actually rather have sex with you than with his hand.

(putting your business out there in public with immature assholes like myself was your worst idea ever angelgirl)
Click to expand...


Yuppers. You got that one Damn Straight.
 
EnderJE said:
"Can you feel the love tonight..."
Click to expand...

You just brought back a great memory with that song. THanks! Goodnight.
"It's enough to make kings and vagabonds believe the very best." Or something like that. :)
 
No jerking off!?! WTF. You're not worth it....no matter how hot you are.
 
biteme said:
None of us are perfect. I'm praying for the 2 of you, I don't care what anyone else thinks about it either.
Click to expand...

I will pray right along with you bro.
 
texasbrainsandbeef said:
I will pray right along with you bro.
Click to expand...

Let's do it now.
 
dunk said:
the difference here is...wootoom would actually rather have sex with you than with his hand.

(putting your business out there in public with immature assholes like myself was your worst idea ever angelgirl)
Click to expand...
of course I would rather have sexs with my wife but some times I jerk it.what is rong with that.
 
needtogetas said:
of course I would rather have sexs with my wife but some times I jerk it.what is rong with that.
Click to expand...

You know it is wrong.
 
needtogetas said:
of course I would rather have sexs with my wife but some times I jerk it.what is rong with that.
Click to expand...


You said something funny a few weeks ago. You said she was like a fucking detective when she was on porn patrol.lol
 
These will be fun threads for them to read tomorrow.

I could care less if my husband gets himself off. I fail to see how it effects me in any way. If anything I think it would make him (or anyone) less cranky and I'm all for that.
 
Raina said:
These will be fun threads for them to read tomorrow.

I could care less if my husband gets himself off. I fail to see how it effects me in any way. If anything I think it would make him (or anyone) less cranky and I'm all for that.
Click to expand...

Word.

I would rather my husband jerk off than air our problems on a messgae board. I find that MUCH more disrespectful than choking the chicken every now and then.
 
EnderJE said:
Even if he's not....is it wrong?
Click to expand...

He is a Christian. Yes it is wrong. If he does it while thinking of his wife, I've seen nothing in scripture that it's wrong.
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Word.

I would rather my husband jerk off than air our problems on a messgae board. I find that MUCH more disrespectful than choking the chicken every now and then.
Click to expand...
What happens in 211 days?
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Not a goddamn thing.
Click to expand...

According to God, it is wrong. Of course if you don't believe, it's not wrong to you.
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Word.

I would rather my husband jerk off than air our problems on a messgae board. I find that MUCH more disrespectful than choking the chicken every now and then.
Click to expand...

i sense the Iron Angel's losing patience with Angel Girls erratic behavior.

alliances are forming. i can see it.

im like Yoda with this shit.
 
Once again, another reason to not get married: women turning into restrictive nags.
 
EnderJE said:
Specific verse, please.
Click to expand...

Jesus said, "If you even look at another woman with lust, you have committed adultery in your heart." Probably in Matthew somewhere. WHen you masturbate, you are certainly lusting. Lusting is what leads to masturbation.
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Isn't this quite disrespectful? Using virtual strangers to give you "ammunition" against your husband? If you guys have issues, be adult and work them out alone. Getting drunk and bashing each other on a message board is a very immature thing to do.
Click to expand...
This is a prime example of why Daisy is such a cool mama jama spot on!

nycgirl said:
Agreed. All EF couples, should take note.

The board became an episode of Jerry Springer or Maury.
Click to expand...
You must spread the karma...
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Word.

I would rather my husband jerk off than air our problems on a messgae board. I find that MUCH more disrespectful than choking the chicken every now and then.
Click to expand...

I agree...

Why does it bother you so much Angel? Nothing wrong with him taking care of himself.

Obviously you and your husband have some issues, and maybe you should be trying to find a solution that coming on a message board drunk and dogging him out to a bunch of strangers, he is only the man you decided to spend your life with after all.
 
Daisy_Girl said:
Word.

I would rather my husband jerk off than air our problems on a messgae board. I find that MUCH more disrespectful than choking the chicken every now and then.
Click to expand...

Exactly. I don't see how creating threads full of vulgar language and arguing in front of virtual strangers is going to solve anything.

I don't see the big deal. She could make it a great experience for the both of them if she relaxed. (Am I the only one that thinks she should go help him out?)
 
THis is really not the place for you 2 to get marital advice. You are Christians and most of the advice here is from non-Christians.
 
nycgirl said:
Exactly. I don't see how creating threads full of vulgar language and arguing in front of virtual strangers is going to solve anything.

I don't see the big deal. She could make it a great experience for the both of them if she relaxed. (Am I the only one that thinks she should go help him out?)
Click to expand...


I think she should help him out if she got over her insecurities.
 
superdave said:
those are the majority of women and I think you know that.
Click to expand...

I know, and I totally agree. I was just making sure YOU knew that not all women put a leash and camera on their husband! :) :)
 
Daisy_Girl said:
I know, and I totally agree. I was just making sure YOU knew that not all women put a leash and camera on their husband! :) :)
Click to expand...
She put a camera on him? How?
 
If I ever get married again, I do not plan on masturbating to other women and certainly not porn.
 
PBR said:
i found that when i was married, my wife was everything to me...i had no need for any type of outside influences at all....she was my world at that time and i was very content...i think thats how it should work, IMO....there was no effort.
Click to expand...


wow this is how everyone should feel when they are married!!! those are some powerful words. I know your situation but remember you have felt real love and many people never do that in their whole lives. Once you heal and are able to open up again you will find someone truely deserving of your heart.
 
biteme said:
Jesus said, "If you even look at another woman with lust, you have committed adultery in your heart." Probably in Matthew somewhere. WHen you masturbate, you are certainly lusting. Lusting is what leads to masturbation.
Click to expand...
amen brother biteme..lol biteme sounds funny...i agree so much...but non spiritual people will see it in a different light....having insecurities has nothing to do with it drinking doesnt either...it is spiritual...if it quacks like a duck its a damn duck correct???? its biblical some of you dont get into the christianity or what ever religion it is where you read from the bible..once you realize the seed that god has planted into you ya'll will see...untill then just note i am not drunk trying to post shit i am seeing my views spiritually!!!! thank you!
 
Daisy_Girl said:
You took the words outta my mouth sweetcheeks
Click to expand...

Ya'll keep bringing God into this for some reason as if he condones it. :)
 
angel_girl said:
amen brother biteme..lol biteme sounds funny...i agree so much...but non spiritual people will see it in a different light....having insecurities has nothing to do with it drinking doesnt either...it is spiritual...if it quacks like a duck its a damn duck correct???? its biblical some of you dont get into the christianity or what ever religion it is where you read from the bible..once you realize the seed that god has planted into you ya'll will see...untill then just note i am not drunk trying to post shit i am seeing my views spiritually!!!! thank you!
Click to expand...
AMEN BROTHER!

And let's not forget this little gem...

"However, you may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way. (Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT)"

If any of the Iron Angels EVER come to Canada, I'm owning you...
 
superdave said:
She put a camera on him? How?
Click to expand...

Not physically, but if you are monitoring your significant others every move when you are not around, you might as well.

LOL, I have no clue what my husband does when I am not around. But I trust him 110% so I don't feel the need to question him and dictate to him what he is allowed to do and not allowed to do.

Oh, and we have a mature relationship where if there are issues, we DEAL with them privately because we respect each other and the marriage.
 
biteme said:
Ya'll keep bringing God into this for some reason as if he condones it. :)
Click to expand...
WRONG you bring God into fuckin everything now ...

That is me holding my tongue I could go off now but I wont. I like you, I know you mean well but stop freakin preaching no one wants to hear it.
 
kay one thing angel... I am guessing that he did this while you were dating and before you got married right? so why does it matter now... you got married to him knowing he did this so if it bothered you so much then why did you marry him?

people have to realize that when you take on a partner you take on there faults too... you shouldn't want to change them... no one is perfect... So I believe if I am to get married I have to find someone that I dont mind there little quirks...
 
superqt4u2nv said:
WRONG you bring God into fuckin everything now ...

That is me holding my tongue I could go off now but I wont. I like you, I know you mean well but stop freakin preaching no one wants to hear it.
Click to expand...

WE are all free to express our opinions and beliefs. Some love to hear it because they let me know. Goodnight. :)
 
Just my 2 cc's...if this thread in any way pisses anyone off....dont click on it
 
angel_girl said:
amen brother biteme..lol biteme sounds funny...i agree so much...but non spiritual people will see it in a different light....having insecurities has nothing to do with it drinking doesnt either...it is spiritual...if it quacks like a duck its a damn duck correct???? its biblical some of you dont get into the christianity or what ever religion it is where you read from the bible..once you realize the seed that god has planted into you ya'll will see...untill then just note i am not drunk trying to post shit i am seeing my views spiritually!!!! thank you!
Click to expand...


You know what you sound like a damn fool... Bringing religion into this, taking the higher than thou attitude, you are online disrespecting your f*cking husband. And how exactly would he feel if he knew his wife was on a forum airing their personal business to strangers.

I know I would be pretty pissed and the last thing she would be worrying about is me watching porn. I'm not saying that the things he's doing are right, but you need to discuss them with him.
 
Ulcasterdropout said:
prolly would be too late by then, mang...
Click to expand...

I was referring to those who are bitching about the others opinions and yet keep posting
 
courtneybcca said:
kay one thing angel... I am guessing that he did this while you were dating and before you got married right? so why does it matter now... you got married to him knowing he did this so if it bothered you so much then why did you marry him?

people have to realize that when you take on a partner you take on there faults too... you shouldn't want to change them... no one is perfect... So I believe if I am to get married I have to find someone that I dont mind there little quirks...
Click to expand...
copy and paste this into your hard drives folks, because you aint gonna hear a woman say something like this again for a long ass time.
 
superdave said:
copy and paste this into your hard drives folks, because you aint gonna hear a woman say something like this again for a long ass time.
Click to expand...
I'll do you one better.
 
courtneybcca said:
wow this is how everyone should feel when they are married!!! those are some powerful words. I know your situation but remember you have felt real love and many people never do that in their whole lives. Once you heal and are able to open up again you will find someone truely deserving of your heart.
Click to expand...


ummmm first off if the guy you were with ever felt the need to look at other women to get off he is seriously fucked in the head good lord what more could a guy want in the looks department. lol sorry I had to say it


and another thing what is it with this site and relationships going to hell EVENTUALLY when they are made to public for the rest of us to see, its almost like EF draws a big huge bullseye on ya, anywhoo yea I dunno eflirting, looking at porn, whatever really isn't all that big a deal IMO, but if my wife had a really big problem with it and asked me to lay off then yea Id do my best, although asking any guy not to jerk off or its disrespectful to you is stupid IMO and completly unrealistic that should be expected of all men, I don't care if the girl Im with or wife or whatever does it, do what you gotta do when your SO isn't around to help out
 
Austin316 said:
ummmm first off if the guy you were with ever felt the need to look at other women to get off he is seriously fucked in the head good lord what more could a guy want in the looks department. lol sorry I had to say it
Click to expand...

not sure if some of you think I am joking... that is exactly how I feel... that is another reason why I think that marriages in the US are jokes. Everyone thinks they are getting a project, that they can build there perfect mate. So they settle for some a-hole because they think they can fix them.

Personally I would rather be single my whole life then spend my precious life with some man that isn't my perfect fit. There is a lot of shit to deal with in life and if I am going to clean some dudes dirty underwear you best believe that I am going to love him with every oz I have!!!
 
courtneybcca said:
not sure if some of you think I am joking... that is exactly how I feel... that is another reason why I think that marriages in the US are jokes. Everyone thinks they are getting a project, that they can build there perfect mate. So they settle for some a-hole because they think they can fix them.

Personally I would rather be single my whole life then spend my precious life with some man that isn't my perfect fit. There is a lot of shit to deal with in life and if I am going to clean some dudes dirty underwear you best believe that I am going to love him with every oz I have!!!
Click to expand...


lol no I know your not joking what you said was very true, I was just making a comment along the lines of the fact your extremly attractive so I wouldn't understand why a guy who was with you or any other top of the line looking women would need to look at pictures of other women for the purpose of getting off or whatever considering that masturbating to pictures or whatever is based purely on physical looks and has nothing to do with their personality, bah forget it Im probably not making any sense
 
no i understand what you are saying... but masturbating is just about enjoyment...

there is nothing wrong with admiring a beautiful person... I believe the day I stop looking is the day I am dead! When I am with a guy, boyfriend or not I point out the good looking ladies and they usually point out the goodlooking men.

if someone other than your spouse turns you on what is wrong with that? Just as long as you dont fuck the person why should anyone be ashamed or worried about natural feelings....

just because you man beats it to some womens picture doesn't mean he loves you any less... and it doesn't mean he disrespects you either... he is simply being HUMAN!!!

okay so the next time you see some HOT ASS guy and you have a sexual urge (I know this happens if you are a walking human being) you should feel horrible because in your terms you are cheating on your husband...

doesn't that sound STUPID!!!

that man MARRIED YOU!! have we all forgotten what that means "till death do you part, "in sickness and in health" if those vowes meant ANYTHING to you.. then you should know that nothing can or will get in between you too..

okay I am off my soap box now... sorry for ranting
 
angel_girl said:
if she asked you to stop disrespecting her by
a) stop looking at porn while she is at work to give you her whole paycheck meanwhile busting her ass
b) stop jerking off while she is at work or sleeping
c)stop drinking cause when toxins enter your body you are a cmplete asshole
d) stop posting sexual remarks about other girls cause it is disrespectful expecially when she is on the same site
Click to expand...
a-what does it matter what the guy does while he isnt working? is your problem about him not owrking, or that you dont like him looking at porn? if he works equally, then you shouldnt really get involved in the harmless things done in his free time
b- unless its affecting a couples sex life, it shouldnt matter...and also, if applicable, look at why masturbation happens and real sex doesnt
c- if drinking habits have changed significantly recently, then sure, but if its just that hes been an asshole lately while drinking, well then i would say that not drinking is a band aid solution, and the problem stems elsewhere
d- if theyre sleazy commetns, then yes. if theyre benign compliments, then no.
 
The Shadow said:
I was referring to those who are bitching about the others opinions and yet keep posting
Click to expand...

Hey, she is the one who posted the poll. If she didn;t want opinions, even differing ones, keep the shit to yourself.
 
lol I was mostly just throwing a shameless compliment at ya, personally I think I'd keep on doing it myself no matter who I was married too and no I wouldn't love them any less, its all about relieving soemthing that needs to be relieved right then and there, or to relax yourself, or whatever else and I don't see the big deal about it and I think that should be expected of all people. Masturbation is primarily a private act and as long as it doesn't invlove child porn or soemthing sick who really cares what the purpose behind it is


Anyways back on topic and to my other point, AG if you want your marriage to survive don't publicize it on THIS BOARD it will poison it trust me, you don't need everyone here knowing your problems and it will only create more problems
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Similar threads

FishyAnchovy
Approved Log My Orals-Only Pre-Cycle LOG
Replies
21
Views
4K
MUSTANG_18
MUSTANG_18
jasonhill800
DHT and Bodybuilding: What You Need to Know
Replies
14
Views
4K
RoySimpson
RoySimpson
Richardbrown
Napsgear: 3 Banded Exercises to Improve Your Deadlift
Replies
13
Views
3K
Tiger Salman Khan
Tiger Salman Khan
Richardbrown
Napsgear: Morning or Evening Workouts: What’s Best for You?
Replies
14
Views
3K
Mike_wh00
Mike_wh00
Richardbrown
Napsgear:Is It True That Alcohol Slows Your Metabolism? Alcohol's Effect on Your Body
Replies
14
Views
3K
RoySimpson
RoySimpson
Top Bottom