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Would you...remarry
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Paulo said:^ my mom's third marriage was to my father, which overall was a fuckup. However, her fourth (current) marriage to my stepdad has lasted 14 years and shows no signs of stopping. So, there's always hope
Wipes a tear from eye. That's a good story. The odds are stacked against anyone that has been married 3 times, but it appears your mother may have persevered. I don't think I'd have the heart. After 2 marriages, I'd be done.
i'm done after one
also chesty, dude kinda quick to be falling in love with someone alreadY? don't rush into shit brother
also chesty, dude kinda quick to be falling in love with someone alreadY? don't rush into shit brother
awittyusername
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No offence, but Fxygel2 threads are more realistic than yours.
canadianhitman
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little early to even use the 'M-word', isn't it orb?
Forge
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I am getting divorced, and I'm almost sure that I'll remarry someday. I'm only 32, so I have time yet. I've never been a "playa" with the women, I'm a strictly serious relationship kind of guy. I'm sure I'll swoon some other girl eventually, someone who actually wants to make a marriage work, not like my current soon to be ex.
Told ya, Chesty -- life does go on.... but let's hope you learned something from the last two times. Not that you should think of Number Three as a continuation of the first two! She has a right to make a whole new set of mistakes, as do you.
If you realize "this is something I've seen before," don't assume it has to end the same way. Head it off, talk it out, don't demand the impossible of yourself or of her. You can't be two places at the same time. Neither can she. You both have needs, so set some priorities.
If you realize "this is something I've seen before," don't assume it has to end the same way. Head it off, talk it out, don't demand the impossible of yourself or of her. You can't be two places at the same time. Neither can she. You both have needs, so set some priorities.
I will try it one more time, someday, but right now......im doing ok being alone...I have my own money, my own job, my own place, and when i buy a small appliance(bought a DVD player not too long ago) i think.....hmmmmm i bought that for me. Or when i FINALLY get curtains instead of sheets hung up on my windows, ill be thinkin to myself......hmmmmm those are MY curtains.
Werd
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The only reason I will legally remarry is because I have young children and don't feel it proper to "shack up" - not judging others... only saying this is what is right for me.
There is no ring yet but I don't care... I have given myself to a man again - all of me, and it feels good. I mean really REALLY good, but I have been through so much shit (and so has he). We have known each other three years and our relationship has been anything but conventional. He is unlike any other man that I have ever known.
There is no ring yet but I don't care... I have given myself to a man again - all of me, and it feels good. I mean really REALLY good, but I have been through so much shit (and so has he). We have known each other three years and our relationship has been anything but conventional. He is unlike any other man that I have ever known.
wutangnomo
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Third time's the charm. lol
JerseyArt said:
This is the reason I stopped dating my ex.
I had to deal with the wrong doings of his ex's and how he had to "make sure" I was the one (ten years min dating before marriage)- yet I had dated him longer than his 2nd marriage lasted not to mention he married one and two sooner than we had exchanged keys.
This may be a first, but Chesty - fuck it - Go for it.
If it works you're a lucky man, if it doesn't, it's not like you haven't been there already.
