Would you let your significant other

[TheSalami]

great now you are encouraging her by suggesting she is helping other women stand up for themselves. well if what i heard is correct, that 68% of marriages are now ending in divorce, i think women are standing up for themselves plenty. bikinimom is constantly bringing up her divorce and trying to make it like her life has been so rough. well what she has gone through is nothing that millions of others havent gone through. she needs to quit bitching about it.

 

[MattTheSkywalker]

I would let her.

Playboy is usualy pretty tasteful in their layouts - you don't see lips spread and whatever else.

 

[Cleaner]

Well bmom...people fall in love and out of love...I was just saying it would be ideal for your kids to have happy old parents together...after all isn't that the grand American plan. I have pity for your girl that two stubborn adults couldn't work out there problems after giving each other so much. You "let" your place in this world be determined.

Warik....Thanks...I thought "let" was good also.....after all its a partnership and both of our action effect each other.

Thick....send me your addy and send it your way.

This was a situation we went thru a couple years back...kinda a weird time..I was on the back side of a back operation and my wife for the first time was coming into her own......she basically had grown into the confident woman that I had always encouraged and on a silly dare she went to a test shooting. She never got that spot but they wanted to do a thing on female business owner and we consider it but out of respect for our families and other issues never contacted them back.
It just recently surfaced again......photo minor in college and took some really good stuff in Mexico and the discussion came back up between us.....well never do it....was just wanting to see more of what the publics thought were.

For the record BMOM...I "let" my wife wear the pants in my house..I have way to much going on to drive the ship...it easier to let her steer and be number one.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Cleaner, it is waaaaaaay more complicated than two stubborn parents. Actually, I take that back, it is not. I would stop everything now, try my damnedest to forgive (of course, I would need forgiveness also, there were no victims - only volunteers) and work through it if there was even A GLIMMER of hope that he was ready to deal with his issues. I waited thirteen long years..the bottom line is when I saw how negatively my daughters were affected, I made the decision that if he did not want to change - I WOULD.....and so far, everything he says and does ONLY CONFIRMS that I made the proper decision. My nine year old asked me not too long ago, "Mommy, if you had called the police back when ------- you mean, this whole thing could have been over by now?" (meaning the divorce) I said, "Probably." To which she answered, "Well then why didn't you?"

From the mouths of babes. I thought I was doing the right thing by doing things "quietly" w/out the authorities as I did not want my children's father portrayed in a negative light in front of them (even at this point I was defending him).....Goes to show how little I know.

As for you Cleaner, I can not begin to express how glad I am that you and your wife have such respect for each other. You obviously chose each other wisely. Just remember that we all make mistakes. Not all people's situations are exactly what you THINK they might be.

Good health to you and your wife! I wish only continued respect, patience and friendship; a long and happy life together.

 

[john937]

I'm beginning to think it's impossible to post on any thread
without stepping on Somebody's emotional landmine.
Everybody chill out.

 

[Imnotdutch]

Why do you have a problem with:

1) Women standing up for themselves?
2) People talking about their problems?

Maybe if people talked about their problems more then others would learn something and not get themselves in the same situation.....or at least know how to deal with it. Your method of not talking about it just means that everybody will continue to make the same old mistakes over and over. Being able to share our thoughts is what makes us one of the most evolutionary advanced organisms on the planet......but maybe you would prefer to be a caveman.

And I'll repeat something from my last post....if you dont want to read about it just move onto the next post. Theres plenty to choose from.

great now you are encouraging her by suggesting she is helping other women stand up for themselves. well if what i heard is correct, that 68% of marriages are now ending in divorce, i think women are standing up for themselves plenty. bikinimom is constantly bringing up her divorce and trying to make it like her life has been so rough. well what she has gone through is nothing that millions of others havent gone through. she needs to quit bitching about it.

 

[WODIN]

Cleaner not only would I let her do it I would frame a copy in my office with a gold plaguard underneath saying "Yes, I'm tapping that!"

LOL!!! Joke bro...

Really it's a mutual decision type of thing as long as your both comfortable with it then I would say bring on the photog! Just think of what it would do for the cleaning business. You'd probably get every horn dog in town dropping in to "drop off" some dry cleaning just to see her in person! Cha Ching!!! Then again you have to take a long look at your business ties and see what affect this may have on those too...