Would you hit it?

[feisty11975]

I just about beat the shit out of my ex-husbands new wife last night...lemme brief you on what happened.

I was supposed to have my kids last night but something came up so I called my ex to see if he would mind switching nights with me. Of course, he said no problem at all. I stop by to drop off the kids school uniforms and this kid (his new wife is farely young) proceeds to get in my face, screaming at the top of her voice, telling me thanks for ruining their fucking plans. WTF?? I looked over at my ex and told him to check his bitch. Well, she is walking away and then turns around and tells me, he's my husband...you have no reason telling him what to do. Oh boy, I was so pissed...I coulda choked this bitch. My kids are right there the whole damn time too. So, I walk up to her, on their property, get in her face and quietly tell her that if she EVER disrespects me or screams at me again, esp. in front of my children, that I would lay her ass flat on the ground. She turned and walked away...so then, of course, I lay into my ex. What kind of fucking 'man'(and I use that term loosely) would let anyone talk to the mother of their children like that and in front of the children?

I thought for sure that I was going to have to get bailed out of jail. hahaha

So, how was everyones night last night?

 

[reno240]

Not as "eventful" as yours - good thing you stayed calm (or acted that way) - it shows a better example for your children.

 

[feisty11975]

Not as "eventful" as yours - good thing you stayed calm (or acted that way) - it shows a better example for your children.

The only reason that I stayed calm is because of my kids...had they not been there, I believe I would have been arrested. I think I had steam coming out my ears. I am still pissed...

 

[reno240]

Oh - and by the way - by remaining calm you made her look like a moron.

 

[jnevin]

bunch of white trash up in here

 

[feisty11975]

Oh - and by the way - by remaining calm you made her look like a moron.

I think that she thought that she was big and bad...there were several people there who saw all this take place. how do you think she felt when I calmly walked over to her and told her that I would beat the crap out of her if she ever tried that again? hahaha

 

[feisty11975]

bunch of white trash up in here

I am no wheres near white trash and you know that J.

She was way out of line, don't you think?

 

[reno240]

Did you have to change days with your ex because you were busy whipping me up some chicken and sausage jambalaya?

 

[Ilk]

I would've beat that girl.. Hate people like that.. She has no right to talk, I mean shout at you like that! I would've hit it!..

But I know you couldn't cos of your children.. Your ex should've put in a word or 2!

Good for keeping your calm.. Kind of..

Better night than mine.. Home very late! Painting peoples faces all day!

You feeling better about it today?

 

[feisty11975]

Did you have to change days with your ex because you were busy whipping me up some chicken and sausage jambalaya?

not exactly

 

[heatherrae]

She sounds a bit nutty, for sure. I thought ex-wives were usually the crazy ones, but in your case it is the new wifey who has flipped.

As bad as your night was, your ex's was worse. LOL. How would you like to be stuck in the middle of two mad women? I bet he wanted to hide.

hehehe.

 

[feisty11975]

I would've beat that girl.. Hate people like that.. She has no right to talk, I mean shout at you like that! I would've hit it!..

But I know you couldn't cos of your children.. Your ex should've put in a word or 2!

Good for keeping your calm.. Kind of..

Better night than mine.. Home very late! Painting peoples faces all day!

You feeling better about it today?

first of all, my ex husband is a PUSSY! He won't say a word!!!

and yes, my day is going much better today. Thanks!!

 

[manny78]

I just about beat the shit out of my ex-husbands new wife last night...lemme brief you on what happened.

I was supposed to have my kids last night but something came up so I called my ex to see if he would mind switching nights with me. Of course, he said no problem at all. I stop by to drop off the kids school uniforms and this kid (his new wife is farely young) proceeds to get in my face, screaming at the top of her voice, telling me thanks for ruining their fucking plans. WTF?? I looked over at my ex and told him to check his bitch. Well, she is walking away and then turns around and tells me, he's my husband...you have no reason telling him what to do. Oh boy, I was so pissed...I coulda choked this bitch. My kids are right there the whole damn time too. So, I walk up to her, on their property, get in her face and quietly tell her that if she EVER disrespects me or screams at me again, esp. in front of my children, that I would lay her ass flat on the ground. She turned and walked away...so then, of course, I lay into my ex. What kind of fucking 'man'(and I use that term loosely) would let anyone talk to the mother of their children like that and in front of the children?

I thought for sure that I was going to have to get bailed out of jail. hahaha

So, how was everyones night last night?

Tresspasser, she should have called the cops on you lol Let it go, keeping it real will cause you more harm than good.

 

[Sassy69]

Sounds like she's just very young & immature (i.e. falling back on the easy female backstabbing thing) and isn't grown up enough to pull her head out of her ass and pay attention to the situation w/ the kids. Further your ex shoulda clued her in on it. Her display was absolutely unnecessary and pretty much irrelevant as your ex had already agreed to the change in plans.

If she's the new wife I'm sure she feels some pressure and lack of confidence in that situation but I think your ex needs to step up to the plate to communicate w/ her and she needs to grow up and realize its not all about her.

 

[feisty11975]

She sounds a bit nutty, for sure. I thought ex-wives were usually the crazy ones, but in your case it is the new wifey who has flipped.

As bad as your night was, your ex's was worse. LOL. How would you like to be stuck in the middle of two mad women? I bet he wanted to hide.

hehehe.

I bet he had one hell of a night...I will call him shortly to bitch about it again. hehehehe

 

[feisty11975]

Tresspasser, she should have called the cops on you lol Let it go, keeping it real will cause you more harm than good.

She said at one point to get off their property or she would call the cops. I said go right ahead!

 

[blueta2]

No, you did the mature thing and walked away. Hitting another person solves nothing. Use that energy for something constructive

 

[manny78]

She said at one point to get off their property or she would call the cops. I said go right ahead!

Do you think getting cuffed in front of your children would have been smart ? Hell no. You dont wanna turn into another drama hoe. As Is aid, next time, let it go before it turns nasty.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Sounds like she's just very young & immature (i.e. falling back on the easy female backstabbing thing) and isn't grown up enough to pull her head out of her ass and pay attention to the situation w/ the kids. Further your ex shoulda clued her in on it. Her display was absolutely unnecessary and pretty much irrelevant as your ex had already agreed to the change in plans.

If she's the new wife I'm sure she feels some pressure and lack of confidence in that situation but I think your ex needs to step up to the plate to communicate w/ her and she needs to grow up and realize its not all about her.

There are VERY FEW parents be they biological or step who get this.

And the kids are left holding the bag. Imagine how THEY must have felt to have to be in a house with a stepmother that just:

trashed their mother publicly because of THEM?

and with a father who doesnt have backbone enough to keep that CUNT in check.

It's bad enough for them that mommy and daddy arent married anymore and they have to be shuffled between homes but for them to have to deal with stepparents that are out and out ASSHOLES...

Feisty - good for you remaining calm. Your kids know what the real deal is. Sorry they had to be put through that shit.

 

[jnevin]

LOL. When keeping it real goes wrong...

I can picture this showing up on Cops with a bunch of toothless bumpkins fighting on the front yard. The new wife gets bitch slapped into the transmission hanging from a tree and it falls onto her clup foot. Fisty chucks her dentures at the ex, who happens to have a jug of moonshine on his shoulder as the kids just stand there in disbelief. Everyone is in their underwear, BTW.

 

[feisty11975]

Do you think getting cuffed in front of your children would have been smart ? Hell no. You dont wanna turn into another drama hoe. As Is aid, next time, let it go before it turns nasty.

That is the reason that I did nothing. I was brought up with the saying that the only winner of a fight is the one who walks away. I can imagine myself banging this bitches head in the dirt but what would that solve? not a damn thing...I am more of a woman than that!


sassy, you are right, he needs to step up to the plate. Hes a wuss though! Ask Frisky bout that! hahaha

blueta2, BINGO!! hitting her would sure have made me feel good but being the better woman is always the best result!

 

[feisty11975]

Sounds like she's just very young & immature (i.e. falling back on the easy female backstabbing thing) and isn't grown up enough to pull her head out of her ass and pay attention to the situation w/ the kids. Further your ex shoulda clued her in on it. Her display was absolutely unnecessary and pretty much irrelevant as your ex had already agreed to the change in plans.

If she's the new wife I'm sure she feels some pressure and lack of confidence in that situation but I think your ex needs to step up to the plate to communicate w/ her and she needs to grow up and realize its not all about her.[/QUOTE]

There are VERY FEW parents be they biological or step who get this.

And the kids are left holding the bag. Imagine how THEY must have felt to have to be in a house with a stepmother that just:

trashed their mother publicly because of THEM?

and with a father who doesnt have backbone enough to keep that CUNT in check.

It's bad enough for them that mommy and daddy arent married anymore and they have to be shuffled between homes but for them to have to deal with stepparents that are out and out ASSHOLES...

Feisty - good for you remaining calm. Your kids know what the real deal is. Sorry they had to be put through that shit.

In a divorce, the kids suffer the most. I hate that my kids are having to go through this. I want to just take them home with me and not let them go near her again but then their dad would suffer. Same reason that I never pushed anything in our divorce. I let him have everything just so we did not have to fight anymore cause the kids are the ones hurting when we fight. Last night was the straw that broke the camels back though. I have had enough..A person can only take so much. I told him that I'll see him in court! Our divorce was civil...never had to go in front of a judge at all...never did community property or debt...nothing...well, its on now!

 

[blueta2]

blueta2, BINGO!! hitting her would sure have made me feel good but being the better woman is always the best result!

I agree........get your anger out here and at the gym, you will win both time

 

[feisty11975]

LOL. When keeping it real goes wrong...

I can picture this showing up on Cops with a bunch of toothless bumpkins fighting on the front yard. The new wife gets bitch slapped into the transmission hanging from a tree and it falls onto her clup foot. Fisty chucks her dentures at the ex, who happens to have a jug of moonshine on his shoulder as the kids just stand there in disbelief. Everyone is in their underwear, BTW.

you are silly!

 

[Bikini Mod]

In a divorce, the kids suffer the most. I hate that my kids are having to go through this. I want to just take them home with me and not let them go near her again but then their dad would suffer. Same reason that I never pushed anything in our divorce. I let him have everything just so we did not have to fight anymore cause the kids are the ones hurting when we fight. Last night was the straw that broke the camels back though. I have had enough..A person can only take so much. I told him that I'll see him in court! Our divorce was civil...never had to go in front of a judge at all...never did community property or debt...nothing...well, its on now!

Dont do it.

I did the same thing as you but my ex is sick. Sounds like yours is just spineless. There is NOTHING you can do to change him. Remember?

If he does not learn to keep that cunt of his in line, eventually the children will not want to be around him as SHE is part of the deal now.

Let it go, Fiesty.... the children arent in any harm from her. Your ex will make his own bed as has mine.

Just let it go.

 

[feisty11975]

Dont do it.

I did the same thing as you but my ex is sick. Sounds like yours is just spineless. There is NOTHING you can do to change him. Remember?

If he does not learn to keep that cunt of his in line, eventually the children will not want to be around him as SHE is part of the deal now.

Let it go, Fiesty.... the children arent in any harm from her. Your ex will make his own bed as has mine.

Just let it go.

They already don't want to be there....

this has been ongoing for a while now. There is a lot more to that story than I feel like sharing though. Lots of problems...would probably blow some of your minds if you knew...I have just had enough

 

[Frisky]

Hun, you know i've had an issue or three... related to my X's gf not even wanting me to know where she lived (even though my kids were there most of the time that their dad had them) I don't play that shit... I had an instance night before last (won't elaborate on it... not even worth it... ) but for some reason this chick doesn't want me to know where she lives. I don't play that shit.. wont ever play that shit. If my kids are at YOUR house I want to know what is going on.

So now... back to your reaction, not that it was proper, but I would have handled that situation the same way... But I'd have just asked her to walk over to the side of the house and whispered in her ear, "don't fuck with me because I'll fuck you up" LOL

Leave that thought in her mind... and yes I do know this chick (isn't it ironic that its the same damn family my X comes from ? ) LOL LOL LOL

I tend to lose it sometimes, lately I've been focused on my kids, school and building a new home. I have tried and tried my hardest to ward off all the bullshit but seems that every damn time My X has an opportunity to push me he does.

Sweetie... M (your X ) would have tucked his damn head and ran, you know and I know he's a damn Pu**y... he wouldn't even stand up to me... much less be a damn man and confront her about her conduct.

LOOK........ C is gone until sunday, doing a pro-rodeo run... I doubt I'll be at the farm much, I will come by and visit... (I also wanna talk to that godchild of mine )

 

[Bikini Mod]

It's amazing how when a woman bends over backwards to make things easier for the X for the sake of the kids somehow SHE is the one painted as the drama ho.

My sister is right. Not being enough of a bitch doesnt pay.

 

[feisty11975]

Hun, you know i've had an issue or three... related to my X's gf not even wanting me to know where she lived (even though my kids were there most of the time that their dad had them) I don't play that shit... I had an instance night before last (won't elaborate on it... not even worth it... ) but for some reason this chick doesn't want me to know where she lives. I don't play that shit.. wont ever play that shit. If my kids are at YOUR house I want to know what is going on.

So now... back to your reaction, not that it was proper, but I would have handled that situation the same way... But I'd have just asked her to walk over to the side of the house and whispered in her ear, "don't fuck with me because I'll fuck you up" LOL

Leave that thought in her mind... and yes I do know this chick (isn't it ironic that its the same damn family my X comes from ? ) LOL LOL LOL

I tend to lose it sometimes, lately I've been focused on my kids, school and building a new home. I have tried and tried my hardest to ward off all the bullshit but seems that every damn time My X has an opportunity to push me he does.

Sweetie... M (your X ) would have tucked his damn head and ran, you know and I know he's a damn Pu**y... he wouldn't even stand up to me... much less be a damn man and confront her about her conduct.

LOOK........ C is gone until sunday, doing a pro-rodeo run... I doubt I'll be at the farm much, I will come by and visit... (I also wanna talk to that godchild of mine )

Sounds great! You would be so proud of your godchild. I'll splain later!

 

[feisty11975]

It's amazing how when a woman bends over backwards to make things easier for the X for the sake of the kids somehow SHE is the one painted as the drama ho.

My sister is right. Not being enough of a bitch doesnt pay.

I have been nothing but nice through this whole thing and your sister is right, being nice gets you no wheres. I am gonna get Frisky to give me lessons on being a bitch. I am sure she would be happy to help!

 

[Y_lifter]

Damn, I'm sure glad I don't have any of this drama in my life..

I'd have to kill someone, starting with myself.

 

[feisty11975]

Damn, I'm sure glad I don't have any of this drama in my life..

I'd have to kill someone, starting with myself.

yeah, tell me about it! Its rough. I never thought that I nor my kids would ever be going through this. Life deals you a bad hand sometimes...you just got to up the pot and wish for luck.

 

[Dial_tone]

You should've just called me for some angry phonesex.

 

[feisty11975]

You should've just called me for some angry phonesex.

 

[Kano]

Wear and ski mask and when she comes up to get the mail beat her fucking ass and since your ex hubby is a pussy as well give him a few kicks to the face for not saying anything to his bitch ass wife for doing that shit in front of his kids. lol

 

[feisty11975]

Wear and ski mask and when she comes up to get the mail beat her fucking ass and since your ex hubby is a pussy as well give him a few kicks to the face for not saying anything to his bitch ass wife for doing that shit in front of his kids. lol

lol

what good would that do though? none! I would probably get some satisfaction out of it but would solve nothing!

Gonna deal with this in my own way. Poor Poor him!

 

[Cutiebaby]

I would have thrown a 20 at the daddy and told him to take the kids for ice cream NOW! Then I would have shoved every f'n tooth the broad has down her throat until she shit them out.

 

[feisty11975]

I would have thrown a 20 at the daddy and told him to take the kids for ice cream NOW! Then I would have shoved every f'n tooth the broad has down her throat until she shit them out.

hmmm wish I had thought of that! hehehe

I think I did the right thing here..notice I said think

 

[digimon7068]

Physical violence is best left to the grocery store parking lot. . .where you "accidently" "bump" into the person with none of your family or friends around and, any potential witnesses are far enough across the parking lot that, under oath, it will be difficult for them to say with any degree of accuracy, who started what and who did what to who. . .trust me.

 

[Whiskey]

wow... sucks to hear. I know of a couple mexicans that used to work for me in Arizona. They'll take care of her for a small fee. Want their number? ;-)

Whiskey

 

[feisty11975]

wow... sucks to hear. I know of a couple mexicans that used to work for me in Arizona. They'll take care of her for a small fee. Want their number? ;-)

Whiskey

naaaa I can handle this...just had to vent a little

 

[Frisky]

wow... sucks to hear. I know of a couple mexicans that used to work for me in Arizona. They'll take care of her for a small fee. Want their number? ;-)

Whiskey

what are we discussing now? That ava has me thinking differently...... completely........ LOL

 

[feisty11975]

what are we discussing now? That ava has me thinking differently...... completely........ LOL

lol

this is a damn memememe thread! Get back on subject will ya.


oh and whiskey, a lil lower next time, m'kay

 

[swolenole]

She knows that you want him back!!

 

[Frisky]

lol

this is a damn memememe thread! Get back on subject will ya.


oh and whiskey, a lil lower next time, m'kay

tee hee

you remember when I called that bitch you used to call a husband out... seriously... I'm what say a buck 30 and he was that much of a Pu**y? Girl, I told you way back in 93 NOT TO DO IT, but you didn't listen to me.

 

[swolenole]

tee hee

you remember when I called that bitch you used to call a husband out... seriously... I'm what say a buck 30 and he was that much of a Pu**y? Girl, I told you way back in 93 NOT TO DO IT, but you didn't listen to me.

If you called me out like that.....I would put you in your place...and then grudge phuck you until you had toe cramps,pulled both ham strings and queffed for 2 days afterwards.....but that's how REAL men Roll...

 

[mountain muscle]

Forget all the pansies that tell you not to fight. She dissed you in front of your kids. You should have beat her down.

Now all that is left is a driveby. You have to keep your rep.

 

[feisty11975]

She knows that you want him back!!

If I wanted him, I would not have divorced him.

 

[feisty11975]

Forget all the pansies that tell you not to fight. She dissed you in front of your kids. You should have beat her down.

Now all that is left is a driveby. You have to keep your rep.

What kind of example would that have been to my kids? If someone trash talks you, you hit them??? naaaaa I'll pass!

 

[mountain muscle]

What kind of example would that have been to my kids? If someone trash talks you, you hit them??? naaaaa I'll pass!

Used to, now I just shoot them.

Do you need an unregistered gun?

 

[Frisky]

If you called me out like that.....I would put you in your place...and then grudge phuck you until you had toe cramps,pulled both ham strings and queffed for 2 days afterwards.....but that's how REAL men Roll...

the only way he could grudge fuck anyone is by heading over to the toy store and purchasing a big ass dildo and an extra set if batteries....... And I ONLY KNOW THIS BY WHAT I'VE BEEN TOLD

lol

 

[velvett]

If your really think about it - she insulted your kids - her step children.

Kids are pretty swift - they'll get that - they'll get that step mommie was not pleased that she has to put up with them "unexpectedly" and instead of doing what she wanted to do with her time.

 

[feisty11975]

If your really think about it - she insulted your kids - her step children.

Kids are pretty swift - they'll get that - they'll get that step mommie was not pleased that she has to put up with them "unexpectedly" and instead of doing what she wanted to do with her time.

oh they notice it...especially my oldest. Hes 12 and he stood up to her last night. I did not agree on the language that he used, but I was proud of him.

 

[velvett]

oh they notice it...especially my oldest. Hes 12 and he stood up to her last night. I did not agree on the language that he used, but I was proud of him.

They'll either set her straight or never let her forget it.

Feisty and kids 1: New wifey 0

 

[swolenole]

the only way he could grudge fuck anyone is by heading over to the toy store and purchasing a big ass dildo and an extra set if batteries....... And I ONLY KNOW THIS BY WHAT I'VE BEEN TOLD

lol

ha ha little Miss Know it All....I allready have one!!

 

[Frisky]

If your really think about it - she insulted your kids - her step children.

Kids are pretty swift - they'll get that - they'll get that step mommie was not pleased that she has to put up with them "unexpectedly" and instead of doing what she wanted to do with her time.

vel... I agree 100%

I divorced my X years ago, he's been with this gal for going on 2 years now. Never had much beef with her, hell I was happy that he was leaving me alone... yet, its the same chick that didn't want me to know where she lived, couldn't go get my kids... had to meet at a corner store if they needed me and quite frankly I got sick of it. I didn't want to result to violence, that was my younger days... and esp not do something infront of my babies whom I adore. But she pushed me to my limit. So that all gets settled and I even had her and my X over for my sons bday party and cooked and catered to them...

Fast forward to two months ago when my son (whom is a very intelligent child and very perceptive) tells me that this woman (lets call her tina... Is constantly screaming at them and constantly bitching about their dad to them. He tells me he is very uncomfortable at her house, because she makes him feel that way. Lots of other words said, but way to long to get into. I'm (believe it or not... LOL ) a very easy person to get along with. And I tried extra hard to make a good relationship with this gal.

Sometimes enough is enough though. And You have to put your foot down. Both my kids despise this woman, don't like going to thier dads anymore because he is staying there and how she treats them.

 

[feisty11975]

They'll either set her straight or never let her forget it.

Feisty and kids 1: New wifey 0

yes ma'am! tee hee hee

thanks!

 

[Frisky]

ha ha little Miss Know it All....I allready have one!!

strap on

 

[swolenole]

strap on

optional

 

[velvett]

Fast forward to two months ago when my son (whom is a very intelligent child and very perceptive) tells me that this woman (lets call her tina... Is constantly screaming at them and constantly bitching about their dad to them. He tells me he is very uncomfortable at her house, because she makes him feel that way. Lots of other words said, but way to long to get into. I'm (believe it or not... LOL ) a very easy person to get along with. And I tried extra hard to make a good relationship with this gal.

Sometimes enough is enough though. And You have to put your foot down. Both my kids despise this woman, don't like going to thier dads anymore because he is staying there and how she treats them.

It's sad that many women don't seem to get that marrying a man with children means you're marrying both the man, his children and their mother.

 

[Frisky]

It's sad that many women don't seem to get that marrying a man with children means you're marrying both the man, his children and their mother.

It is sad....

When I married my first husband I knew he had a child and I never NOT once treated any of them differently. I would even go out of my way to pick him up after work when it was visitations, I would bring him and purchase new clothes (just he and I ) I treated him like he was my own. Not ONCE, did I ever have to raise my voice to that boy, and his mother despised that because he didn't treat her the same. There is so much more to that story, and way too long to get into it... but I would actually spend hours reading to him at the age of 5, spend hours showing him how to read and write, I actually took the time and had the patience with him.

I would never treat a step child as an outcast, I was also a step child and mabye because I can actually link it all back to my child hood its easier for me to understand. Now this girl is real young, but also has two kids of her own so she should know better.

I have to say, my beau is so damn good to my kids. I couldn't ever and prolly will never find another man that would be that caring and accepting to them.