Well considering that i'm almost 32 years old with MY bachelor party slated in the next 4 weeks, I will give you my scoop.
At this point in age, i have had A BLAST.I have great memories and even better stories to tell. To my guy friends of course. I have essentially stated that i would just like this night to be about the guys. Just one good night of hanging out with my boys and my new family. No strippers or naked women of any sort. I may actually end up meeting up with my Fiance later in the evening for that matter. I think when you are younger they are essential, as you get older, they tend to be more of just a ritual. To me i look at it as a night without my fiance as opposed to a night of bachelorhood. Which is why we would both like to end the night with each other.