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Would you guys date a girl that needed 'work'?

vinylgroover

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I know this girl through some mutual friends who has just broken up with her boyfriend. She has the hottest face you'll ever see.........brunette, beautiful eyes..........real smouldering mediterranean look. But, she has a 'juicy' ass/hips. I'm thinking of asking her out, but when i think of her ass smothering my face, it kinda scares me. It does need work, but how would you go about it?

Everytime i see this girls face it drives me nuts.
 
So much for personality and charm, eh? Seriously though, if you just wanna fuck then what the hell? If not, then why do you want to be the rebound guy?
 
EnderJE said:
So much for personality and charm, eh? Seriously though, if you just wanna fuck then what the hell? If not, then why do you want to be the rebound guy?

i wouldn't be the rebound guy...........it was an amicable split between her and the boyfriend because the relationship was going nowhere.

People tell me she's very sweet.
 
vinylgroover said:
i wouldn't be the rebound guy...........it was an amicable split between her and the boyfriend because the relationship was going nowhere.

People tell me she's very sweet.


Unless she's the size of a whale then what's the issue? She isn't perfect?
 
vg, you know how it is being in a relationship, people get lazy, a little weight gets put on. now she's free'd up, theres a good chance she is taking care of it, or about to.

i say get in there fast, keep the romance up so that she is more concious of her body and wants to please you/drop some fat, before she loses it on her own and you have half of sydney to compete with

how many kilos are we talkinga bout, anyway?
 
I'd rather date someone like me. Passionate about physical fitness. Very few people who don't work out, ever will on a consistent basis. It's a lifestyle that according to what I see every day, a very small percentage of the population is into.
 
vinylgroover said:
I know this girl through some mutual friends who has just broken up with her boyfriend. She has the hottest face you'll ever see.........brunette, beautiful eyes..........real smouldering mediterranean look. But, she has a 'juicy' ass/hips. I'm thinking of asking her out, but when i think of her ass smothering my face, it kinda scares me. It does need work, but how would you go about it?

Everytime i see this girls face it drives me nuts.
Maybe, the reason she's big is cause she's preparing for ...the winter?!
 
she's actually quite small, just a big ass.

She's one of those girls that has a good upper body and nice calves, but chunky hips/ass. No fat anywhere other than the hips/ass area.
 
vinylgroover said:
she's actually quite small, just a big ass.

She's one of those girls that has a good upper body and nice calves, but chunky hips/ass. No fat anywhere other than the hips/ass area.

VG, you can work that off of her yourself. Go for it.
 
big asses are usually lifestyle things. generally (from what i have seen) is that people in bad relationships usually go a bit frumpy. if her profile appeals to you so much, and shes sweet...you cant go too wrong having a go
 
vinylgroover said:
I know this girl through some mutual friends who has just broken up with her boyfriend. She has the hottest face you'll ever see.........brunette, beautiful eyes..........real smouldering mediterranean look. But, she has a 'juicy' ass/hips. I'm thinking of asking her out, but when i think of her ass smothering my face, it kinda scares me. It does need work, but how would you go about it?

Everytime i see this girls face it drives me nuts.

I agree w/ EnderPet........DO NOT BE THE REBOUND GUY!!!!!!! :redhot:

THAT IS A NO-WIN SITUATION!!!!!!!! :worried:

If you want to fuck her, let her know, be honest with her and yourself regarding your intentions and you'll be STR8.

SA's w/ 2 strikes who don't wanna see the 3rd.......... :rolleyes:









DIV

:chomp:
 
Maybe she just needs a little external motivation to work it off on her own. :) It's amazing what the attention of a man who is in excellent physical condition will do to help boost a woman's desire to get back in shape.
 
vinylgroover said:
I know this girl through some mutual friends who has just broken up with her boyfriend. She has the hottest face you'll ever see.........brunette, beautiful eyes..........real smouldering mediterranean look. But, she has a 'juicy' ass/hips. I'm thinking of asking her out, but when i think of her ass smothering my face, it kinda scares me. It does need work, but how would you go about it?

Everytime i see this girls face it drives me nuts.

R u perfect.. if not.. don't look for it in others :chomp:
 
I actually like like girls that need work, especially big asses. But, to be honest I don't know if I like big asses or that I have to put up w/less shit from the girls w/big ass's than the extremely hot chicks I went out with.
 
It obviously bothers you enough that you are thinking enough about it. Even if she loses it, it will come back down the road. So, it ultimately depends upon if it will bother you enough in the long run.......
 
Here's my take

I lovea girl with a beautiful face far. People ask body part, thats it for me. No amount of "great body" tops a gorgeous face on a girl for attraction purposes. So yeah, unless it was just so bad that i couldnt be attracted to her at all, I might do it.

But bor, be careful how you go about it if you get down that path. Try not to make it about her, or "you would look/feel so much better if you...."

However well you think you are covering it up, shes going to pick up on the fact that you want her to be different than she is now, and will harbor insecurities and or resntment as a result. Making someone feel "not good enough" is a sure way to destroy love and intimacy.

If she approaches you that would be best. But I would try to plan out physical activities with her that will accomplish the same goal without highlighting her wieght issues. Ask her to work out with you because you like her company, not because you want her to get in shape. Cardio things like walking or jogging "to spend time together."

Good luck man
 
Hit it, and stop whining
give us the details later:)
 
Listen if she's that fuckin large in the hips/ass region then I say send her Hammy's way. He'll do her nice and good for ya.
 
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