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sigweed

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K i'll keep it short and simple. One day at work i saw my co-worker and her friend who works in a diff part of the place, who i was instantly taken by. One of those girls that doesn't need any makeup to look gorgeous, so I sorta set my territory and everyone knew she was my game, then i found out she had a boyfriend. So at that point I decided I wouldn't really pursue any further because I'd murder the guy if he was moving in on my girl. Well we ended up going out last night to a club, grinded all night long and had a great time. Today some of my co-workers are saying she thinks i'm cute, etc, so its a kidna iffy situation. Plus she hasn't ever told me about this boyfriend, other ppl have.

So I'm torn, do I play along with her and enjoy at the risk of being a hipocritical dick, or deny my human nature to appease some guy I've never met?

Right now I think I'm just gonna do nothing and see what she does, but I wouldn't mind hearing what other ppl have got to say.
 
If she moves on you, go for it, but don't go looking for trouble.
 
She never said she had a boyfriend, so you don't know for sure. Play the dumb role...hit it and quit it.
 
Yea i guess I don't know for sure, but that's what she's told other people apparently... but who knows

I wasn't planning on doing anything last night, but she was the one who asked me to dance and stuff, so obviously if she initiates anything, I'll happily oblige, but that could be a slow process (we all know women..) so do I start making an effort, or just play it cool?
 
LOOK OUT, THINK ABOUT WHAT DRAMA YOUR GETTING YOURSELF INVOLVED IN, ASK HER ABOUT HER BOYFRIEND. IF SHE ENDS UP GETTING WITH YOU HOW DO YOU KNOW SHE WON'T DO THE SAME TO YOU. ALSO I KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO TO SOMEONE WHO WAS MOVIN IN ON MY GIRL YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WOULD DO, YOU DON'T KNOW HIM THINK ABOUT WHAT HE WOULD TRY TO DO TO YOU IF HE FOUND OUT. FIND OUT WHAT THEIR SITUATION IS FIRST BRO BEFORE YOU GET EXTRA DRAMA YOU DON'T NEED.
 
Yes. By all means. Listen to all those people telling you to move on her.

I have a question, though. Why would you want to kill a guy that was making a move on your girl? Because he would be behaving like you are? I hope you get your ass kicked.
 
By "girl" I assume you mean "guy".
Whats his name?
 
SmegmaSoldier said:


fucking other guys girlfriends is one of the greatest things us guys can enjoy on this planet!!!! do not listen to any jerks that try to keep you from enjoying this pleasure!!!!!

Then you might as well learn to also enjoy eating through a straw, because the law of averages is against you.
 
we all know how guys act first hand. If our girlfriend cheats on us, its the guy who she cheated with's fault, and not hers!! lol

well see hers the thing, I'm leaving in sept for school, and prolly never see her again, so I mean a month and a week isn't much time to get serious, just have fun.

plus I learned a valuable lesson with girls probably when I was around 16. No matter what they do, there is no guarantee they're interested. I've had girls who've hardly spoken to me love me, then like 2 months ago, I was on what I thought was a date with this girl, who kissed me on the lips, then like a few days later says "you didnt think we were going out, did you?" haha.
All I know I'm peicing together from little things. She only went to the club cause I was going, she was following me and we were talking for the entire time, then she asked me to dance for the rest of the night, so thats all good. Then the even littler stuff like she was rubbing my back and stuff while we were dancing, looking into my eyes... But for all I know that means fuck all

yea screw it, im just gonna chill and let her initiate things, and go from there.
man I can't wait until next year when girls want 1 thing. Sex. Then we can leave all the BS on the side.
 
sigweed said:
man I can't wait until next year when girls want 1 thing. Sex. Then we can leave all the BS on the side.


It seems good at first glance, but leaves a lot to be desired. It's true though, at my school girls only want to fuck with no strings attached. They don't want to know you, care for you, or give a fuck one way or the other - just use you for your body.


It gets old.
 
A friend of mine was in the same situation as you. She never mentioned having a man, so if anything happens, you can't be blamed. But don't initiate things. Let her do the walking.

BTW, not all girls in school want just sex. Just most.
 
Bro, use your head on this one... if she just wants to fuck, then her relationship with her boyfriend isn't really worth it anyway... and you mind as well do it. If she wants anything, AND CITRUSCIDE MEANS ANYTHING, more from you... just give her the fat cocky and leave.. if she'd cheat on him, she'd cheat on you.

But like I said before, I try not to get mixed up with scandelous ass bitches like this. There are more attractive girls in the sea without having to go after ones that are "taken".

C
 
lol
once she goes black, she'll never go back!

wait... im white

shit

Yea I'd like to believe that things would be great with her, but its very true, if she's capable of cheating, then she probably would with me too.
Whatever though, I'm not searching for girl advice, I just want to know if doing this makes me an in-humane monster, or its just human nature.
And yea, I kinda overexagurated when I said I can't until next year. I enjoy the fun, but deep down I like holding hands and cuddling lol (there goes any manhood I have!)

whatever, either way this'll make my summer job more interesting!
gigity gigity, all riiiiight
 
how bout you just ask her straight up if she has a boyfriend? she may, but she also may be broken up, or having problems with her guy.
 
yea i fully am never asking this. That way, if she says "yes" and we end up fooling around, its fully my fault. But if I'm ignorant to the whole thing, what can she do. If her boyfriend found out, I'd act disgusted and upset, then go and cry (lol k maybe not). I don't think reminding her of her boyfriend of 4 months if im trying to hit it is a good idea :D
 
its completely true, I would wanna do the same thing, even though its just as much the girl's fault as it is mine, if not more.
Key thing here is if she doesn't even tell me she has a boyfriend, then technically I did nothing wrong.
 
LET ME SAY ONE THING WHEN I WAS IN HIGHSCHOOL A LOT SMALLER THEN I AM NOW AND ALOT MORE MELLOW I CAUGHT A GIRL I WAS SEEING JUST IN A CAR WITH A GUY WHEN SHE SAID SHE WAS GOING OUT OF TOWN I RAN THEM OFF THE ROAD AND BEAT THE DUDES ASS WITH A BASEBALL BAT. I GOT IN TROUBLE FOR IT BUT IT WAS WORTH IT TO ME. NOW THAT I'M 23 YRS OLD RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALOT MORE SERIOUS WHAT DO YOU THINK I WOULD DO TO A GUY I CAUGHT WITH MY GIRL, SHIT AND MY GIRL FOR THAT TOO.
 
Well for all I know the guy's 135 lbs and hasn't been off the couch in months, or he could be a 240 lbs blackbelt juicehead...

but really, if you were in my shoes, would you rather get with this extremely pretty and cool girl, or sit there picturing what her boyfriend, if she even has one, looks like.

I've gone out with the girl in a group a couple times before, and not once has he shown up. And why the hell would she tell him? She's not some bitchy slut, she'd probably rather not hurt his feelings.:p
 
IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND AND SHE FUCKS YOU SHE'S A SLUT BRO. AS FOR ME PERSONALLY I DON'T WORRY ABOUT ANYBODY CAUSE I AM A 250LB JUICEHEAD WHO WOULD BE OUT LOOKING FOR MY LADY IF SHE WAS OUT, SO MAYBE SHE HAS AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP I WOULD JUST FIND OUT FOR SURE FIRST. I'M SURE YOU WOULD BE THINKING ABOUT NOT WANTING TO PISS HIM OFF IF YOUR GRINDING ON HER AND A 250LB BLACKBELT JUICEHEAD SHOWS UP THEN I'M SURE YOU WOULD WORRY ABOUT HIS FEELINGS. BETTER TO KNOW ALL THE INFO BEFORE YOU JUMP IN GIRLS WILL TURN ON YOU TO JUST TO SAVE THEIR OWN ASSES TOO, JUST LOOKING OUT FOR YOU DOG. I'D HAVE A 38 TO SOMEONE'S HEAD IF THEY WERE TRYING TO GET AT MY GIRL, BUT I'M FAIR AFTER I DID HIM I'D DO HER TOO.
 
YEAH WELL I JUST HOPE SHE DOES NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND LIKE ME I FUCKIN LOSE CONTROL OVER THAT SHIT. IF I TALK TO A GIRL THE FIRST THING OUT OF MY MOUTH IS DO YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND? IF SHE SAYS YES I MOVE ON TO THE NEXT ONE. DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WANT DONE UNTO YOU. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT ANY CHICKS BOYFRIEND OR HOW HE FEELS ITS A MATTER OF ME NOT WANTING SOMEONE DOING THAT TO ME OR TRYING TO GET ON MY GIRL.
 
You're trying to play ignorant but deep down, you have a good idea that she has a boyfriend. People these days are only concerned with their own interests. We must all try to think how our actions affect other people. True, if she's willing to fuck around with you, she's not a very good girl for this guy but it's just a shitty thing to do. There's far too many girls in this world than to be chasing some girl that's attached.

Simply ask her point blank if she's single. If she is, continue as planned. If not, do the right thing and leave her to fuck around wiht someone who you are better than.
 
Smegma, for that kind of thinking i'd consider you a low life piece of shit. And I would beat your ass if you fucked w/my girl you fuckface. Lifter
 
yea thats very true too. Technically I wouldn't be doing anything wrong if they broke up?
But like I said, I'll never see her again after september, so what if we had some fun without boyo knowing, and then they stayed together while I went off to another city?

but this is all forward. apparently she's told people she likes me, but for all i know a week from now she won't even wanna talk with me. Plus I wouldn't feel right about trying to make her choose between her boyfriend of 4 months, and some guy she just met. I wouldn't expect to win that, thus my keeping quiet about it. Again, this is all being forward, who knows what'll happen
 
hah, well I'm 19 and she's 17, so I wouldn't describe her as a grown woman. This is all just getting too messed up now, I think i'm just gonna sit there and do nothing and let her pull the strings. I guess this is just childhood crap anyways, I'm just torn cause I'd be furious if it happened to me, but on the other hand theres a awesome girl!
 
Ok, after reading all this thread, I couldn't figure out why a woman would want to cheat on her boyfriend, if she was mature. Then the answer came, she is: 17. No wonder, she doesn't care about anyone. She is either still in high school, or fresh out. She is just a young hoe looking to get banged by a bunch of guys. I would tell you to fuck her, but to be honest, thats not the type of girl you want to mess with. If you do, double up on the rubbers. Good luck bro - C3
 
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