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Buddy_Christ

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stopped in at an old friend's house last night. we've known each other for over 15 years, grew up together, got in trouble together, partied together...all that good stuff.

so after we get there, his gf and my gf were off talking while me and him were having a few beers and talking. we're doing the normal stuff for us....we chat about cars, dumb shit we've seen people do with cars, dumb shit we did with our own cars, trying to see who could remember the funniest stories of our days of being destructive.....this is what old friends do once you've settled down a bit in life.

well, the women were talking out of earshot of us. buddy's gf said "listen to them, all they're doing is talking about stupid shit like cars. :rolleyes: so, what are you doing for YOU out of all of this?"

she asked what she meant. his gf says "well, you're letting him come down here (it's a 2 hour drive each way), so what is he letting YOU do in return?"

my gf - :wtf:

she decided to shut her up and said "i do plenty of stuff for myself, i'm just doing something for him coming along on this trip. those 2 don't get to see each other much at all and when they do, i just step back and let the men be boys again. it's good for both of them."


some chicks will NEVER understand that when guys get together, it's not to sit around and talk about flowers or decorating or anything like that. guys want to kick back a few beers, relax, and enjoy strengthening the bonds of friendship that were forged many years in the past.


my buddy did, however, seem to be kind of worried when i mentinoed wedding this year and said he's going to have to get sized for a tux. he said "i've never worn a tux." well man, there's a first for everything. you'll look just fine and you are going to need one (i havn't fully broken the news to him that he needs to fill in the best man position, but i think he's gotten the hint.)
 
most of us do understand.. the other gf might have found your visit intrusive to her time with him.. She was being a bit selfish.. but then i don't know the history behind it
 
I was so close to actually reading that it was AMAZING!
 
parents just don't understand, either.


according to Will Smith
 
CanadianCutie said:
most of us do understand.. the other gf might have found your visit intrusive to her time with him.. She was being a bit selfish.. but then i don't know the history behind it

there's some history behind the 3 of us. my gf is kind of a tag-along when we get together. me and my buddy talk about old times and future ambitions and stuff like that and enjoy our conversation. my gf does what she can to talk to his gf, and they get along together. dunno how his gf feels about mine, and i'll be asking him sooner or later.

the way i look at it is this.....i've had issues with his gf in the past, but i overlook them because he is a good friend. i keep things civil between me and her out of respect for him. he would give me the same respect back if either of them had an issue with my gf. it's about time for me and him to have that open discussion, just the two of us, to make sure we know where our women fall into play on all of this.
 
U will have to approach this type of thing very carefully

crak600 said:
there's some history behind the 3 of us. my gf is kind of a
tag-along when we get together. me and my buddy talk about old times and future ambitions and stuff like that and enjoy our conversation. my gf does what she can to talk to his gf, and they get along together. dunno how his gf feels about mine, and i'll be asking him sooner or later.

the way i look at it is this.....i've had issues with his gf in the past, but i overlook them because he is a good friend. i keep things civil between me and her out of respect for him. he would give me the same respect back if either of them had an issue with my gf. it's about time for me and him to have that open discussion, just the two of us, to make sure we know where our women fall into play on all of this.
 
ChefWide said:
I was so close to actually reading that it was AMAZING!

that's why i broke it up into paragraphs so you could read one now, come back in an hour, read another.....makes it easy for those with short attention spans.


CanCut - i know how to handle it. i've been in a similar prediciment before with another friend. his gf hated mine for some dumb reason, my gf didn't care. buddy left his gf at home stewing while the 3 of us went out for dinner. he said he was going to hear it up one side and down the other when he came back, but he already told her to fuck off because he hadn't seen me in a while.
 
omg u guys are getting married????????????????
you need to tell her to git her butt on aol
 
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