Women trouble.... please help....

[artrius]

The best thing to do is say (calmly)... "Thats OK. I think we should see other people." Then, smile and say good bye. Trust me. Turning the tables will make her flip.

You know, someone told be the exact same thing today... I honestly don't think that she's playing a game with me or the other guy, she just is trying to figure out what she wants....

 

[awittyusername]

well I talked to her today... she didn't really think she was doing this, she just wanted to find out what she wanted in a bf. Basically, she was really really upset, and she just ended the conversation and I can't get a hold of her... it looks like it may be over with her... i know that some of what you all are saying is true... but still... i feel horrible that I upset her like this...

Yes, I know it sucks. I have been there before. But, don't worry...You will get pussy again.

I suggest you go out looking for some more ASAP. While they can still smell it on you.


BTW. Don't call the bitch

 

[artrius]

Nobody wants to be the "I'll settle for you" backup plan.

 

[artrius]

Yes, I know it sucks. I have been there before. But, don't worry...You will get pussy again.

I suggest you go out looking for some more ASAP. While they can still smell it on you.


BTW. Don't call the bitch

If i was a drinker, I'd be out getting shitface drunk right now... and lemme tell you, it sure sounds tempting...

 

[awittyusername]

You know, someone told be the exact same thing today... I honestly don't think that she's playing a game with me or the other guy, she just is trying to figure out what she wants....

Who ever told you this has been in the exact situations. I know instinct is to kiss her ass and compete for her with the other punk. But, this is exactly what she wants. Don't reward her for treating you like a bitch.

 

[artrius]

Who ever told you this has been in the exact situations. I know instinct is to kiss her ass and compete for her with the other punk. But, this is exactly what she wants. Don't reward her for treating you like a bitch.

Well if she does give me any more "well I want to see the other guy crap" then yeah, i'm not gonna kiss her ass about it. I never really have, though, I've never given a shit who she's dated (she's seen some other guys while dating me). Its just what she said last night that really upset me...

 

[nycgirl]

Art, why are you trying to justify her actions? You are trying to see something that isn't there.

 

[awittyusername]

Well if she does give me any more "well I want to see the other guy crap" then yeah, i'm not gonna kiss her ass about it. I never really have, though, I've never given a shit who she's dated (she's seen some other guys while dating me). Its just what she said last night that really upset me...

Yes, I have been there.

Do you have any friends to hang out with tonight? So, you..DON'T CALL HER!.

Seriously, just be cool, laid back, and ACT like you don't give a fuck.

 

[artrius]

Art, why are you trying to justify her actions? You are trying to see something that isn't there.

I honestly don't think she's the kind of person that would do that... I hate to say it, but she's almost too sheltered and naive for that.... she said that she's just trying to figure out what she wants in a partner... I think she's being honest...

 

[artrius]

Yes, I have been there.

Do you have any friends to hang out with tonight? So, you..DON'T CALL HER!.

Seriously, just be cool, laid back, and ACT like you don't give a fuck.

Yeah, I think I should do that. Sitting here is only making this crap fester in my head...