Wish me luck...

[Deleted member 33117]

... and if you believe in God a quick prayer for whatever is suppost to happen to happen might help. Anywho will be going over to visit the new girl I am seeing tonight to talk about some things, and find out if she is interesting is something more with us. Last night was a double date and like our 7th or 8th date in 3 weeks (we are going out with the same friends of mine next Friday... the girl I set up my friend with talked her into both LoL)... and this female friend of mine got the goods on why she has been acting a bit reluctant abotu some things with me. She is very into me and thinks I am great... she is just worried because she may be doing her internship next semester and does not yet know if it will be local, or some other place, or where she will work after graduation in december. She was advised by my friend to talk to me about this and find out what I think of this and she agreed with her on that. She wanted some time to study first and I had told her I could try not to keep her long tonight because she needed to study, but she wanted to do this first because she said she did not know "how things would play out". I didn't tell her what I wanted to talk about just that I wanted to talk to her about some things.

Anyway, this girl is amazing... and I think alot of her...ok... its hard to describe... but I just hope things go well tonight... and have to accept whatever happens though... and trust God that what happens happens for some reason. I'm just a little nervous.

Thanks orbs and orbets.

 

[Razorguns]

good luck.

the true test is to see if you still fele the same way about her in say...3 years.

 

[jerseyart]

You can do it young bro.

Be confident man, she'd be lucky to have you.

Don't beg

 

[jerseyart]

Don't be a killjoy Razor, the young guy is in love.

Nothing else matters

 

[RADAR]

... and if you believe in God a quick prayer for whatever is suppost to happen to happen might help. Anywho will be going over to visit the new girl I am seeing tonight to talk about some things, and find out if she is interesting is something more with us. Last night was a double date and like our 7th or 8th date in 3 weeks (we are going out with the same friends of mine next Friday... the girl I set up my friend with talked her into both LoL)... and this female friend of mine got the goods on why she has been acting a bit reluctant abotu some things with me. She is very into me and thinks I am great... she is just worried because she may be doing her internship next semester and does not yet know if it will be local, or some other place, or where she will work after graduation in december. She was advised by my friend to talk to me about this and find out what I think of this and she agreed with her on that. She wanted some time to study first and I had told her I could try not to keep her long tonight because she needed to study, but she wanted to do this first because she said she did not know "how things would play out". I didn't tell her what I wanted to talk about just that I wanted to talk to her about some things.

Anyway, this girl is amazing... and I think alot of her...ok... its hard to describe... but I just hope things go well tonight... and have to accept whatever happens though... and trust God that what happens happens for some reason. I'm just a little nervous.

Thanks orbs and orbets.

Good luck--i know the feeling -you can be yourself around gals you don't care much about, but when that special one comes by , you get all nervous and scared to to mess up.

Anyway hang in there maybe it will run better than you think.


RADAR

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

good luck.....

 

[vinylgroover]

How old are you both..........why do you have to draw a line in the sand with her now? Why not just keep dating and see how things pan out. The only announcements i ever intend on making to a girl is 'will you marry me'. Until then, why the need to for a chat 'about our future together' after only 3 weeks?

 

[Deleted member 33117]

How old are you both..........why do you have to draw a line in the sand with her now? Why not just keep dating and see how things pan out. The only announcements i ever intend on making to a girl is 'will you marry me'. Until then, why the need to for a chat 'about our future together' after only 3 weeks?

Well, it is not abotu drawing a line in the sand... its abotu talking about what is realling going on, and to talk about the issue that is bugging her, if we want to see otehr people, etc. BTW I am 27 she is 24.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Oh well, she said she has alot of studying to do and will talk to me later probably tomarrow... she knows what we were going to talk about and does not seem upset or anything.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

She said that she is just worried that it might take longer than a few minutes... and since she is very busy tonight its just not a good night.

 

[big4life]

Good luck!!

Just make sure that she doesn't get too close to your arms with anything sharp.

 

[vinylgroover]

She said that she is just worried that it might take longer than a few minutes... and since she is very busy tonight its just not a good night.

jeez bro, i reckon you are both making a big issue out of something that should just develop naturally over the course of dating.

Good luck anyway

 

[jerseyart]

jeez bro, i reckon you are both making a big issue out of something that should just develop naturally over the course of dating.

Good luck anyway

Yeah, I know what you mean, and I had to think hard about who I ever actually asked, and it was just two girls. The rest just happened.

But they were the two that counted the most

 

[sh4dowf4lcon]

be yourself, then you will know if you can be compatible for life. you'll be fine grasshoppa

 

[Bobber]

She said that she is just worried that it might take longer than a few minutes... and since she is very busy tonight its just not a good night.

Not a good sign.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

WTF... Colleen and Richard (bbfsneighbor username) jsut dropped be, she called her and told her to come over when she gets done cooking so we can go swimming. She said she will be about 45 minutes... and is coming over to hang out. LoL

 

[FreakMonster]

Bro she may be amazing now because you just met her. You barely know her and you need to get to know her better. She could be putting up a front. There are so many girls who I thought were "amazing" when I first started dating them until I really got to know them and their "other" side.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Bro she may be amazing now because you just met her. You barely know her and you need to get to know her better. She could be putting up a front. There are so many girls who I thought were "amazing" when I first started dating them until I really got to know them and their "other" side.

They are still amazing.

Just in a different way.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Oh well, she said we can talk tomarrow... she was tired, but still came over to hang out for just a little while and bs with us. Hmmm... not feeling nervous now. We are all still on for a double date on Friday, just going to cook spegetti and watch movies.

 

[Sub-Zero]

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