why do woman believe we lose respect if

[DIVISION]

why do woman believe we lose respect if they sleep with us on the first date.

Most guys don't intend to have a longterm relationship with a girl they sleep with on the first date.

That's why.

So if a girl gives it up she thinks she will be lumped in to that other group.

Women want to feel respect and reassurance that you see more to her than just a piece of meat..........Whether a man admits it or not, when there is a girl he is REALLY into, be it subconciously or not, his respect factor grows immensely for her projecting confidence and substance to sustain a first date, 2nd date, what have you, without droppin' her drawers and making whoopie.

^^^This is true.

Funny -- women will open up their legs in a heartbeat for other women. But for men, it requires a 28-point checklist. Why the different rules for essentially the same physical activity??

Because women have nothing to fear in other women, thus they unleash their inhibitions. They know sex is not going to be a tool, bargaining chip, or used for another purpose. There is a comfort factor also that women have with each other that isn't the same with men, men present a "threat" subconciously. When women have sex with each other it's just about self-reciprocal pleasure, each wanting it as much as the other.





DIV

 

[Spartacus]

since when do the women hold the "keys to the kingdom"?

 

[DIVISION]

since when do the women hold the "keys to the kingdom"?

HH meant the keys to "her" kingdom.



DIV

 

[wesley90]

To all those ladies that think there are "keys" to their kingdom really arent worth it IMO, no amount of hotness can overcome this ignorance, just isnt worth it.

 

[tiger88]

youguys have more problems then evansteve combined.. WTF

 

[Daisy_]

why by the cow when you can milk it for free???

why buy a pig when alls you get is a lil sausage

 

[DIVISION]

To all those ladies that think there are "keys" to their kingdom really arent worth it IMO, no amount of hotness can overcome this ignorance, just isnt worth it.

Alot of women think that way, Wesley. Yeah, I agree, it's a reach....but what can you do?

youguys have more problems then evansteve combined.. WTF

Which guys were you referring to specifically?



DIV

 

[wesley90]

Alot of women think that way, Wesley. Yeah, I agree, it's a reach....but what can you do?

What can you do? Well...nothing. Why even bother? All they do is remind me of daddy's little girl who does nothing but bitch and moan that daddy wont buy them a car better than the one he already bought them. They arent mature, remind me of preppy high school chicks. ehhh

 

[habitualhealth]

we should go to dinner sometime...then we can add another notch under my belt

Hahah will your mom drive us or should I ask mine?




(i really have no clue how old you are...just going with the "theme" that followed your posts)

 

[habitualhealth]

since when do the women hold the "keys to the kingdom"?

I speak on behalf of myself....and WOW, let's see if we can start another thread today to take e...v..e...r...y....t..h..i...n...g HH says to the bank. People, "keys to the kingdom"...it's a reference to sex. Though I know I'm golden and a keeper....I'm not using my who-ha as a bribe, reward, treat, prize, or anything else with a guy...nor would I ever. I think it's insane women who take advantage of their "position" to say the least to control the sexual relations in a situation.


**Back to the thread topic: I'm not sleeping with anyone on a first date. Done. That's my perogative and I could care less what anyone else thinks about how I choose to live my life in that aspect. If a guy I date has a problemo with that...may the door hit him where the good lord split him. As for anyone else, more power to you if you are comfy, willing, desiring, etc to have sex on a first date. Hell, why wait for the date, just do it. I'm not passing judgement on anyone and how they live their life. It's a comfort factor...what you may be cool with, I may not be. No big.