why do woman believe we lose respect if

[satchboogie]

they sleep with us on the first date..

shit.. if a woman wont sleep with me on 1st or 2nd date there surely wont be a third.

 

[UA_Iron]

straight up mang

 

[KillahBee]

hoes

 

[HiDnGoD]

I would wanna sleep with a woman on a first date. Then if we did, she would be in the G.F. list & not the marriage one. It would take her longer to get to the marriage list.

 

[satchboogie]

i dont know..
every g/f i've ever had slept with on 1st or 2nd date max..
i like woman who flow.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

because its true.

everyone wants to feel like they ended up with someone special, and most people are jealous about sex. if she had sex with you on the first date, how many men did she have sex with prior to you? most would assume many. throw in some insecurity about sex, and bingo, you have a guy who will look elsewhere for a long term partner.

 

[habitualhealth]

Question, how many women have you slept with on the 1st or 2nd date who are still around today? (not current flings)

The consensus is that men typically are out for sex. (which more often than not is true...more power to them) Bottom line is anyone, male/female can have sex at any given time with someone. Women want to feel respect and reassurance that you see more to her than just a piece of meat. If you dont see her with any other aspect....then you probably should lower your standards to that of "easy-mode". (so you can get laid on the first date of course ) If you're really into a chic, wouldn't you want her to see you respect her for more than a lay? You know, enough to show that your interest in her is more than what's behind the panties? Say 2nd date, third date, god forbid 4th date?

Of course, if you're dating a prude like me....could be endless amount of time before you get the keys to the kingdom. For me, sex is sex. What makes it better or worse is the connection/chemistry I have with a guy. The more he knows about me (and I him) the better it will be. I'm not doing the walk of shame the next morning b/c I wake up next to a dude that I could barely tell you his last name. That's retarded. (IMO) For what? Another notch under my belt? Pass. Whether a man admits it or not, when there is a girl he is REALLY into, be it subconciously or not, his respect factor grows immensely for her projecting confidence and substance to sustain a first date, 2nd date, what have you, without droppin' her drawers and making whoopie.


Now, for those out there (male/female) who actually have done the hippidy dippidy on the first or second date and now you're living in happily ever after blissful marriage for your 10th year....kudos to you. I'm not saying it CANT/WONT happen....you're obviously the exception to my (above) rule.


Let the flaming begin....

 

[Cutiebaby]

Question, how many women have you slept with on the 1st or 2nd date who are still around today? (not current flings)

The consensus is that men typically are out for sex. (which more often than not is true...more power to them) Bottom line is anyone, male/female can have sex at any given time with someone. Women want to feel respect and reassurance that you see more to her than just a piece of meat. If you dont see her with any other aspect....then you probably should lower your standards to that of "easy-mode". (so you can get laid on the first date of course ) If you're really into a chic, wouldn't you want her to see you respect her for more than a lay? You know, enough to show that your interest in her is more than what's behind the panties? Say 2nd date, third date, god forbid 4th date?

Of course, if you're dating a prude like me....could be endless amount of time before you get the keys to the kingdom. For me, sex is sex. What makes it better or worse is the connection/chemistry I have with a guy. The more he knows about me (and I him) the better it will be. I'm not doing the walk of shame the next morning b/c I wake up next to a dude that I could barely tell you his last name. That's retarded. (IMO) For what? Another notch under my belt? Pass. Whether a man admits it or not, when there is a girl he is REALLY into, be it subconciously or not, his respect factor grows immensely for her projecting confidence and substance to sustain a first date, 2nd date, what have you, without droppin' her drawers and making whoopie.


Now, for those out there (male/female) who actually have done the hippidy dippidy on the first or second date and now you're living in happily ever after blissful marriage for your 10th year....kudos to you. I'm not saying it CANT/WONT happen....you're obviously the exception to my (above) rule.


Let the flaming begin....

i agree with you........

 

[hamstershaver]

If you're really into a chic, wouldn't you want her to see you respect her for more than a lay? You know, enough to show that your interest in her is more than what's behind the panties? Say 2nd date, third date, god forbid 4th date?

ummmmmmmmmmm no

 

[artrius]

ummmmmmmmmmm no

hammy your a feminazi hater, you should have said something like "who cares what women think, its not important"