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ceo said:most likely, you are right about this. My feelings are that he is definitely being enabled. He will continue to take advantage of this until his mom dies too. Then, he will turn to siblings. Eventually, this kid will end up living off all of us and our tax dollars will support him...UNLESS his mom and everyone else stops enabling him.
Has he gone to college? If not put his ass in school and tell him if he wants his shit paid for to maintain a 3.5 average. Why not? It's not like he has work to interfere with studies? Don't want to go to school? Get a job! Don't want to get and KEEP a job? Get the fuck out and pay your own way! You're 21! Time to take on some responsibility. If you're "disabled" then have yourself certified and get some Disability Income so I can have some help supporting your crippled ass! Oh, I'm selling your car and you can save up and buy soemthing that no one will have to make payments on. You don't have a job so you don't need a car anyway, right?
The kid needs some tough love to go with his "counseling".
Unfortunately that will likely lead to a criminal lifestyle, given his already troubled history. He doesn't have the backbone/positive reinforcement needed to succeed on a civil level in society. Tough to know how to remedy this situation, if at all still possible to begin with.
