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Why do people torture themselves?

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My gf has been having a rocky relationship with her man for the past 6 months. She has told me a number of times she doesn't think it is going to work out, but she just wont end it. I mean seriously WTF if it is not going to work just end it! Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
 
sounds like my friend

crappy relationship
no one likes the girl

he just told me he wants to marry her, now no one will talk to him

and she just blabbed that she cheated on him

friggin moron
 
I think it is just a comfort factor. It is easier to put up with bullshit you are used to than risk finding something else. I know so many people trapped in dead end relationships who know it's going nowhere but won't get off the train. Change is scary and so is being alone when you are used to being with someone, but you have to think of your own well being at least once in a while. Works the same for being single. When you've been single long enough you start to fear letting anyone into your life.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
As the great DR. Phil would say, "She`s getting something out of it." People do things because there is SOME benefit to what they`re doing. Subconsiously she is outweighing the good and bad, keeping the relationship going while gritting her teeth through the bad stuff WHILE complaining about it.

Also, people in general hate to admit they`re wrong. If she breaks it off, that will be admitting failure. The longer it goes on, the worse it gets. Especially since she`s "hot", "how can`t this work out?" , "How can he not love ME?!?!?"

Have her call me for a consult, I`ll see what I can do.
 
gonelifting said:
As the great DR. Phil would say, "She`s getting something out of it." People do things because there is SOME benefit to what they`re doing. Subconsiously she is outweighing the good and bad, keeping the relationship going while gritting her teeth through the bad stuff WHILE complaining about it.

Also, people in general hate to admit they`re wrong. If she breaks it off, that will be admitting failure. The longer it goes on, the worse it gets. Especially since she`s "hot", "how can`t this work out?" , "How can he not love ME?!?!?"

Have her call me for a consult, I`ll see what I can do.
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For quoting doctor buttcrack I have now lost any respect for you that I may have ever had.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
For quoting doctor buttcrack I have now lost any respect for you that I may have ever had.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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Wow, that makes me feel proud. You HAD some respect for me. I`ll take it, even if it`s past tense.

OK Oprah is a kazillionaire and gets the best of everything. Was`nt DR. Phil her DR. at some point? Either way she promoted him as being great. That tells me a lot about his competence. Would you rather look in the Yellow pages/Phone book for a DR.? or Ask your Doc who he goes golfing with?
 
gonelifting said:
Wow, that makes me feel proud. You HAD some respect for me. I`ll take it, even if it`s past tense.

OK Oprah is a kazillionaire and gets the best of everything. Was`nt DR. Phil her DR. at some point? Either way she promoted him as being great. That tells me a lot about his competence. Would you rather look in the Yellow pages/Phone book for a DR.? or Ask your Doc who he goes golfing with?
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Well I am glad that I instilled a since of pride in you. I just dislike Phil because he is a sell out. He also help continue many of the problems he is actually trying to help with. Like doing all this how to lose weight stuff, but yet telling people that it's what's inside that really counts. All kind of a contradiction in my mind. Also Oprah is the anti-christ.

Oh and looking for a doc I would turn to my cousin who is an extremely successful doc for any recomendation. :)

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
I hate his pseudo science. adapted for the stupid average american with a 5 second attention span. Get over it, don't be so afraid to be elitist. Science is not for the gross of the population, otherwise it gets raped in the translation to dumb-language
 
OK I feel better now scotsman.

Now back to our regularly scheduled programming. "Why do people torture themselves?"
 
gonelifting said:
OK I feel better now scotsman.

Now back to our regularly scheduled programming. "Why do people torture themselves?"
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I am having to go with plain old masochism. People in my opinion are self destructive in nature and therefore measure their own existence by levels of suffering instead of levels of joy. Look at the average person they relate current times to some period of strife. Like I am so much happier now than when I was _______. Instead of relating to wow I was happy when _____ happened but now I am even happier. People tend to define their lives through misery and the closest misery you can have outside of yourself is in your closest relationships.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Ask Chesty.
 
Some people just like to complain to someone.

Some people don't like to be alone.

Some people don't see themselves finding something similar with someone else.

Some people look to find REASON in a woman's actions.

:)

B True
 
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