Why do Most men on here Belittle Women?

[Austin316]

hey i know there are good ones out there, but I don't seem to understand why it is, that whenever I let myself care, I get fucked over..When I treat em with the utmost respect, I get fucked over, why is it I meet up with these kinds of girls? actually there is one in my life right now that is damn well worth it, but we have to wait, Ive decided thats fine for me

What made me sick, s that I was treated better by women when I treated em like shit then I do when Im my normal self...Hell me thinking it was right to be conservative around a girls mother got me the boot and told Im not confidenty or cocky enough for her..then of course like with recent, your too much like my ex line of BS.

Whatever, if you disrespect me, I have every right to call whoever it is a bitch, whore, cunt, etc and yea sometimes I make it seem like all women are like that, but mostly its been pretty much all women that I tend to meet that screw with me and ditch me..but no, I know good ones are out there, but fuck it, Im not gonna give the benefit of the doubt anymore, respect must be earned

 

[Frackal]

I hate how you bring this up.....

The guy I'm with is broke as hell right now, so everytime we go out, I pay for both him and I---

does this mean he deserves to be treated badly? no

Glad you're doing the paying for once in your long dating history.

 

[WODIN]

There are a lot of frustraited young men on this board. That's for damn sure.

 

[Bikini Mod]

There are a lot of frustraited young men on this board. That's for damn sure.

WORD

 

[68GT350]

I didn't read many posts but i will.

Let me say this, now before I go to work.

B.I.T.C.H.S. isn't directed towards ALL women. Rather, it is directed towards the majority of women who treat us with the atrocious disrespect that we have been dealt despite our sacrifice, our faith given, and our hearts put on the line.

Respect is earned and not a right given lightly. I treat women with respect but I expect it reciprocated. Problem is, often times, many of us men get shit on leaving a bitter taste in our mouths.

Havoc, if you read exactly what we preach, you'd notice that we target very specific women. These women know who they are and what they do is wrong. They aren't stupid, they're just no good peices of shit and if you plan on giving them respect, then you deserve whatever they dish out upon you.

This is said with all due respect regardless of your lack of. Thank you.

 

[havoc]

Some on here answered as I had expected, in a gay, immature way, garbage like "If I'm disrespected I will call her a bitch" and things along those lines, thats pretty damn weak, if you are disrespected in whatever way, that does not mean you disrespect anyone else, again, 2 wrongs don't make a right, and disrespect is never right in any case, many of you have alot of growing to do, and one thing you can't argue with is me on this subject. peace

 

[plornive]

i think expecting women to be 'better' than they really are is most of it. Women are just poeple. Some are mature, some aren't. Some have something to offer interpersonally, some don't.

If you stop depending on women to be something other than just people with vaginas they won't bother you. Not all are immature or shallow. Many are sometimes, some are much of the time. BUt not all are 100% of the time.

The problem is that people are taught that monogamous relationships are natural, which is completely false. When things get fucked up, which is inherently and consistently true, the opposite sex is blamed instead of the false expectations. In reallity, we are predisposed to abuse each other and have sex with numerous partners (whether this feels good or not).

Ever watch National Geographic on TV when they document the sexual behavior of animals in the wild? What makes you think humans are above the seemingly abusive and archaic sexual behavior of animals in the wild?

 

[Lao Tzu]

The problem is that people are taught that monogamous relationships are natural, which is completely false. When things get fucked up, which is inherently and consistently true, the opposite sex is blamed instead of the false expectations. In reallity, we are predisposed to abuse each other and have sex with numerous partners (whether this feels good or not).

Ever watch National Geographic on TV when they document the sexual behavior of animals in the wild? What makes you think humans are above the seemingly abusive and archaic sexual behavior of animals in the wild?

what are you basing this manogomous theory on?

for example, chimps are non monogomous bisexuals. They live in de facto communes & fuck each other.

Gorillas, on the other hand, are very monogomous (at least the women are. The men may have a concubine of 4 wives).

Orangatuns live solitary lives

We are genetically linked to them all however.

 

[plornive]

what are you basing this manogomous theory on?

for example, chimps are non monogomous bisexuals. They live in de facto communes & fuck each other.

Gorillas, on the other hand, are very monogomous (at least the women are. The men may have a concubine of 4 wives).

Orangatuns live solitary lives

We are genetically linked to them all however.

It seems that females of many animals are hardwired to be abused by males. If they are not abused by a particular male, they get sick of him. Likewise, females must have some kind of subtle tests of the males to make sure they are fit, in an evolutionary way. This could be part biological and part societal, part innate and part learned --- whatever, it can all be attributed to the same beast, which is SEX.

Humans have many complicated rules and formalities. Women are supposedly the same as men in popular culture. Men and women are supposed to be "good" to each other.

However, SEX doesn't give a fuck about modern social developments.

 

[plornive]

what are you basing this manogomous theory on?

Although some amount of monogamy might be natural, I think some amount of polygamy is natural. Yes, women don't seem to cheat as much as men.

Marriage and monogamy is most popular in North America and Europe. In Asia, men cheat left and right (Japan is somewhat of an exception). Women do it, too, but not as often.

It seems you are more educated on the sexual behavior of chimps and gorrillas. Let me ask you something, then. Although Gorillas seem to be fairly monogamous, they still "cheat", right? And men are "allowed" to have many women, right?