Why do girls dig guys that are out of shape????

[alexiarenee]

Me and my b/f fit this description!! I like being the more muscular one when we go out---then people notice!!
But seriously, he wasnt in great shape when we met--just like thick and hard....after 4 1/2 years, not he is just a little overweight, and definitely out of shape....
He's the father of my baby, I love him, and if he gained anoter 20 lbs I'd still be with him!!! At least I wont have to worry so much about girls checkin him out---they used to all the time!!! LOL..
Really though, maybe some of those girls got with their man when he was in better shape, and they just love him now they way he is...

 

[OMEGA]

So you escaped the nonsense then Nicole?? It sucks. He seems to think that me going to the gym is a lot like me saying I'm going to work in a brothel. I won't even argue with him about it because 1) I do what I want to and 2) it's too stupid to even waste my time trying to defend.

Things have soured SO much since I've gotten more healthy. I think it's ironic that when I was starving myself all the time he didn't get upset with me but when I go lift he does. We'll see if he'll knock it off or if I'm going to be single soon. What a petty thing to throw the last 2 years over. Selfish jealous jackass.

drop him and promptley seek out the nearest OMEGA wich happens to be me

 

[smallmovesal]

That maybe true of a minority. I believe that girls require less visual stimuli, but require more mental/emotional stimuli. Therefore, girls are only motivated by looks to a limited degree. This 'look' may or may not include muscles. Skinny/average is not usually seens as a reason for rejection. I believe that girls are far more interested in personality, sense of humour, etc. My girlfriend loves my muscles, but didn't mind when my belly approached 36inches this xmas (got it down to 35 already.. and still dieting...). She even liked it.

Men like porn more than women, therefore it stands to reason that we are more visually stimulated and more likely to choose a girlfriend wholly on looks. Women are more discerning and most likely to have a lower benchmark for looks, and a higher one for personality. No amount of muslces can make up for an unsuitable personality. Most women don't see men as just a body and a penis. Men often do see women as just tits, fanny and arse.

word.

 

[Stan O'Zolol]

Seriously though, good people come in all different shapes, sizes and colors, so one should really judge the person until they know that person.

Finally the right answer.

 

[PinK233]

I don't care as long as the guy isn't obese or weighs less than me....of course I do PREFER muscle...it's nice to look at...but if I have to deal with a huge ego along with that muscle then I don't want it....and I don't like guys who are too faggy and take longer than me to get ready when we go out, huge turn off....

 

[big4life]

It's all about who you are on the inside.

I've known women who are physically very beautiful, but their personality was quite shallow. That is just a huge turnoff. Who wants to be around someone who you enjoy looking at, but you can't have a decent time talking to them?

I've reached the point where I'm more interested in who the woman is, not just what she looks like.

There are woman out there who have both looks and personality.

 

[Diesel3d]

All girls think differently to some point.

I would rather have a girl that along with liking a good personality and sense of humor, would also appreciate a good body on a guy, and not lower her self to date fat or boney guys. It really sickens me to see some of these guys with these amazing girls. A lot of guys out there have great bodies and great personalities. If you are an amazing looking girl why settle for half package?

A girl, in my opinion, that shys off a guy with muscles because of the fear that they can not keep him, or is too much to hold on to is week and not self confident, which I don't like.

 

[Island Son]

Read my post on the "older women" thread... You could be GORGEOUS, MONEY, GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR and still.... I wouldn't want ya.... It takes so much more than external appearances to capture my heart..... though I will confess that the last man who did (and who holds it still) was the MOST GORGEOUS man to ever walk the face of the earth - BIG, STRONG, TALL, DARK, AND HANDSOME.... hehehheee

contradicting your own argument, now there's an effective technique

 

[Island Son]

Things have soured SO much since I've gotten more healthy. I think it's ironic that when I was starving myself all the time he didn't get upset with me but when I go lift he does. We'll see if he'll knock it off or if I'm going to be single soon. What a petty thing to throw the last 2 years over. Selfish jealous jackass.

Is he still getting his quality time? A man's gotta have his quality time one of Martin Lawrence's few funny quotes

 

[Test boy]

NE1 else have this problem? Girls think you're gay because you look good. That has to be the weirdest. I have more guys hit on me in the gym than girls. NO, I don't dress fruity or anything. Tshirt and shorts, but because I'm clean cut and built they think I'm gay. I've also noticed a lot of my chick friends saying oh he's hot, he must be gay????? SOOOO fucking weird.

Chicks suspect me of being queer all the damned time. I don't dress too well and only comb my hair in the morning. My mustache is a little lopsided. I don't get it.

I've been told that being polite will make them suspect you. I'm not alwas polite either. I regularly burn holes in their asses with my gazes.