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What a fucking wkd i have had
I have been dating this guy for the past couple of weeks, I met him, at my best friends birthday, we happen to have the same friends, anyway, we are dating, and everything has been going really well , because of his job, he works 3 wks in London and one wk in New York,
We have not had sex only because we both dont want to rush into anything and want to take our time, after all we have both been hurt, This wkd we were supposed to meet, for Saturday at 2pm, but i called him and said can we meet for 4pm, he then say's tell you what,since i know u are spending sometime with your friends, why dont we meet during the wk and i said sure.
Now for the past couple of weeks, His told me he is NOT seen anyone or dating anyone of having sex with anyone, I said well u are an adult and you can do whatever you want to do, he says he knows that but he does not want too because he really likes me allot, and i said cool because i really like you to,
Sunday, meaning yesterday, one of my gay buddies comes to see me and hang out with me, he then asks if he can use the pc to check his messages on this gay site, within 15mins guess who drops him a message Kanni, the guy i am dating, i was like that is a nice profile who is that and Kanni includes a private picture, showing his face, U can imagine my horror my jaw hit the floor, i was soo shocked, so my friend responded and said how u doing, Kanni responds back saying his fine but just horny and he is looking for a shag, so Mark my friend and i were like what ok, lets see how far Kanni was going to go, to cut the story short, Kanni, gives Mark his number and Marks say he will meet him for 9pm, when he gets to Kanni's station he will give him a call for direction, he also askes Mark if he is into 3somes because he has another guy coming round, Now u can imagine i couldn't believe this was happening, anyway Mark asks him if he has a bf or seen anyone he said NO he is single.
When all this was happening i was i having an outer body experience just could not believe this is happening, So i called Kanni and said hi honey how are u, what u doing and he said his just chilling and his meeting friends for dinner, he didn't know that i know he was arranging a 3some.
Anyway hour later i texted him and said we need to talk, enjoy your 3some tonight, i cant believe u could not even be honest with me, he then text's me back saying what are u talking about, i did not respond an hr later he call's and i tell him everything, he was shocked, he then tried to twist and make it my fault because we do not spend enough time together over the wkd, and i was like who's fault is that u have been to NYC back to back over the wkd for work, I then said just because we dont spend enough time over the wkd, does that mean, you should go out and look for sex, and a 3some for crying out loud, so anytime we are not together is this what u do and all this time when u said u are not doing anything, this tell's me you were doing EVERYTHING, I Told him i can NEVER trust you and i think it is best we just be friends,
My friend Mark was Like yeah Ken you did the right thing
I am still shocked about the whole thing and this happened last night, I am soooo happy i did not fall in love with him and that i took my time to be sure.
Gosh this has just confirmed to me that, given the right circumstances anyone would cheat, if they could get away with it
I have been dating this guy for the past couple of weeks, I met him, at my best friends birthday, we happen to have the same friends, anyway, we are dating, and everything has been going really well , because of his job, he works 3 wks in London and one wk in New York,
We have not had sex only because we both dont want to rush into anything and want to take our time, after all we have both been hurt, This wkd we were supposed to meet, for Saturday at 2pm, but i called him and said can we meet for 4pm, he then say's tell you what,since i know u are spending sometime with your friends, why dont we meet during the wk and i said sure.
Now for the past couple of weeks, His told me he is NOT seen anyone or dating anyone of having sex with anyone, I said well u are an adult and you can do whatever you want to do, he says he knows that but he does not want too because he really likes me allot, and i said cool because i really like you to,
Sunday, meaning yesterday, one of my gay buddies comes to see me and hang out with me, he then asks if he can use the pc to check his messages on this gay site, within 15mins guess who drops him a message Kanni, the guy i am dating, i was like that is a nice profile who is that and Kanni includes a private picture, showing his face, U can imagine my horror my jaw hit the floor, i was soo shocked, so my friend responded and said how u doing, Kanni responds back saying his fine but just horny and he is looking for a shag, so Mark my friend and i were like what ok, lets see how far Kanni was going to go, to cut the story short, Kanni, gives Mark his number and Marks say he will meet him for 9pm, when he gets to Kanni's station he will give him a call for direction, he also askes Mark if he is into 3somes because he has another guy coming round, Now u can imagine i couldn't believe this was happening, anyway Mark asks him if he has a bf or seen anyone he said NO he is single.
When all this was happening i was i having an outer body experience just could not believe this is happening, So i called Kanni and said hi honey how are u, what u doing and he said his just chilling and his meeting friends for dinner, he didn't know that i know he was arranging a 3some.
Anyway hour later i texted him and said we need to talk, enjoy your 3some tonight, i cant believe u could not even be honest with me, he then text's me back saying what are u talking about, i did not respond an hr later he call's and i tell him everything, he was shocked, he then tried to twist and make it my fault because we do not spend enough time together over the wkd, and i was like who's fault is that u have been to NYC back to back over the wkd for work, I then said just because we dont spend enough time over the wkd, does that mean, you should go out and look for sex, and a 3some for crying out loud, so anytime we are not together is this what u do and all this time when u said u are not doing anything, this tell's me you were doing EVERYTHING, I Told him i can NEVER trust you and i think it is best we just be friends,
My friend Mark was Like yeah Ken you did the right thing
I am still shocked about the whole thing and this happened last night, I am soooo happy i did not fall in love with him and that i took my time to be sure.
Gosh this has just confirmed to me that, given the right circumstances anyone would cheat, if they could get away with it
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