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[Lestat]

If I were married I'd be in bed with the wife
since I'm not I can share with many
marriage is so confining
jesus
sorry

i feel the same way. I love people, women especially, love sex, the company, the companionship, but in a serious relationship I always feel a bit suffocated, less free.

 

[eddymerckx]

jewish--so anyone coming down my chimney is going to be on the losing end of 5 iron

 

[ceo]

jewish--so anyone coming down my chimney is going to be on the losing end of 5 iron

so how was your hanukah?

 

[healother]

i feel the same way. I love people, women especially, love sex, the company, the companionship, but in a serious relationship I always feel a bit suffocated, less free.

I've been in a relationship the last couple months, and I understand the part about feeling less free. For once I finally understand it. Now I'm starting to realize that being single isn't so bad after all.

 

[eddymerckx]

so how was your hanukah?

very nice, thanks for asking--got a nice new 5 iron (and bunch of others too)--decided to learn to play as i was the lone holdout in my office--ddamn peer pressure

 

[Lestat]

I've been in a relationship the last couple months, and I understand the part about feeling less free. For once I finally understand it. Now I'm starting to realize that being single isn't so bad after all.

the grass is always greener bro

 

[healother]

the grass is always greener bro

True. At the same time, I don't feel like me and her are going to last. That's not something I can just easily tell her though, I don't want to stop everything dead in its tracks.

 

[Lestat]

True. At the same time, I don't feel like me and her are going to last. That's not something I can just easily tell her though, I don't want to stop everything dead in its tracks.

most people have been there man, its very difficult to deal with any everyone seems to come up with whatever works best for them.

over the years ive learned to start things off slow, shit that comes together too quickly or intensely usually loses its steam early on. Who knows though, Im 30 and single so don't go taking relationship advice from me!

 

[ceo]

very nice, thanks for asking--got a nice new 5 iron (and bunch of others too)--decided to learn to play as i was the lone holdout in my office--ddamn peer pressure

nice. I really need to take up golfing again. I haven't played in over 5 years.

Glad your hanukah was good. My old roomie is jewish. I had no family here and would go see family at thanksgiving, so he and I would always go catch a movie or two on xmas or xmas eve.

Once we went to this jewish "function" on xmas eve. They rented out a club downtown for the night and we went with a female co-worker of his (not jewish) who was totally hot for me. We ended up hooking up and dated for 3 or 4 months. Anyway, the function was fun.

 

[healother]

most people have been there man, its very difficult to deal with any everyone seems to come up with whatever works best for them.

over the years ive learned to start things off slow, shit that comes together too quickly or intensely usually loses its steam early on. Who knows though, Im 30 and single so don't go taking relationship advice from me!

we did move rather quick. after 3 dates we pretty much became exclusive. I didn't think of it as exclusive at first, but after awhile I realized that i hadnt been dating anyone else, because we both respected each other too much to be dating other people. It sorta snuck up on me. but she is way more into me than im into her right now, which is awkward. she wants to talk everyday, i dont. she'd hangout all the time with me if i didnt say no some days. i gotta have my own personal time too.