Why are some people SO nosey?

[blueta2]

I went out at lunch to go buy something to cheer up a coworker whose sister is dying and has hrs to live. He's in bad shape and takes comfort in food.
So I come back and have 3 different sweets for him to choose from.
I walk up to him very quietly and discreet and NO JOKE, 4 people came out of their offices (like hungry friggin sharks) and they come up to me and say
"What is that? Where did you go? Are those for everyone?"

This is not unusual in my office; many of the people here have to know ALL my biz.
Why are people so nosey? Are any of you nosey? If so, what's the dealio?

 

[Mavafanculo]

none of your business

 

[swole]

dude chillax the fugg out, people like sweets...especially at the office.

maybe you should kill them for having the same curiosity you would on any other day.

nice gesture tho.

 

[blueta2]

dude chillax the fugg out, people like sweets...especially at the office.

maybe you should kill them for having the same curiosity you would on any other day.

nice gesture tho.

I am always chillaxed with these folks. They behave this way all the time and I never say a word. But today was annoying b/c they knew this dude was hurting and all they cared about was what THEY can get!

Also, I am a very private person at work and would not go out of my way to see what others are doing.....seriously!

 

[blueta2]

none of your business

NO TELL ME DAMMIT ;-)

 

[bw1]

I think they just wanted to check out your tits

 

[Bikini Mod]

I feel you on the office feeding frenzies... how I do NOT miss working in an office.

Nice gesture! We all know you have a HYUGE heart. Don't let the assholes dampen your day.

 

[blueta2]

I think they just wanted to check out your tits

That could be..I am wear a smoking top today ;-)

They've been there, done that with my boobs. They are tired of seeing them, They wanted the sweets, and not the ones in my bra ;-)

 

[Raptorex]

I think they just wanted to check out your tits

...

that would be my motive

 

[bw1]

That could be..I am wear a smoking top today ;-)

They've been there, done that with my boobs. They are tired of seeing them, They wanted the sweets, and not the ones in my bra ;-)

pics?

 

[Bikini Mod]

That could be..I am wear a smoking top today ;-)

They've been there, done that with my boobs. They are tired of seeing them, They wanted the sweets, and not the ones in my bra ;-)

So now the truth comes out! You are jealous of your titties!!! or are upset that people wanted the sweets that were NOT in your bra?

















Don't hurt me please....

 

[cindylou]

i dont know but it drives me nuts.

Every time I go to lunch this one lady asks me where I'm going. grrrrr.. I feel bad for being irritated because she is sweet, but really? Does she need to know what i'm doing everyday???

 

[jh1]

I went out at lunch to go buy something to cheer up a coworker whose sister is dying and has hrs to live. He's in bad shape and takes comfort in food.
So I come back and have 3 different sweets for him to choose from.
I walk up to him very quietly and discreet and NO JOKE, 4 people came out of their offices (like hungry friggin sharks) and they come up to me and say
"What is that? Where did you go? Are those for everyone?"

This is not unusual in my office; many of the people here have to know ALL my biz.
Why are people so nosey? Are any of you nosey? If so, what's the dealio?

One of my favorite things is to walk into an office full of depraved types like this with donuts, bagels, or other treats...

They flock to me and I have them eating out of my hand....


Now buy something you bitches, or I won't be back with more.

 

[cindylou]

Dont you hate it when ppl ask you what you are eating?? Drives me crazy!!

Especailly if they hear you are dieting. They just have to know what you are eating.

 

[heatherrae]

Do you have any more? Where did you get those? Did you save some for me?



I'm not nosey. I'm hungry...lol.

 

[blueta2]

I feel you on the office feeding frenzies... how I do NOT miss working in an office.

Nice gesture! We all know you have a HYUGE heart. Don't let the assholes dampen your day.

Exactly....an office freeding frenzie is a great way to put it.
It's weird how ppl are with food at work.
Every year at xmas, I get large baskets of goodies. I never take these things home but open them up and share. Last year I did not b/c I wanted to give the basket to my neighbor (who was sick at the time) to cheer her up.
Well the SHARKS upstairs got wind that I took the basket home and they asked me "where is the basket? Why did u take it home?"

weird!

 

[ortiz34]

I work with the same people apparantly.

 

[blueta2]

i dont know but it drives me nuts.

Every time I go to lunch this one lady asks me where I'm going. grrrrr.. I feel bad for being irritated because she is sweet, but really? Does she need to know what i'm doing everyday???

EXACLTY....what the hell? I never ask ppl where they are going.
Two weeks ago, I had to leave quick cause I got super sick. I was very quiet while leaving (I'm close to the door) and 3 people see me with my purse and said "Where are u going? It's not 3:30. Are you ok?"
I igrnored them and left.

 

[blueta2]

So now the truth comes out! You are jealous of your titties!!! or are upset that people wanted the sweets that were NOT in your bra?





Don't hurt me please....

ugh...oh no, thinking that the men I would with would want my boobs makes me want to throw up. I'm glad they would want the sweets instead..haha!

 

[blueta2]

Do you have any more? Where did you get those? Did you save some for me?



I'm not nosey. I'm hungry...lol.

HAHAH...I work with a preggie gal and she never asks, but if she did, I would totally not even be bothered.

 

[blueta2]

One of my favorite things is to walk into an office full of depraved types like this with donuts, bagels, or other treats...

They flock to me and I have them eating out of my hand....


Now buy something you bitches, or I won't be back with more.

Depraved....a good word. I mean, we all make decent money, we are all grown ups, why the hell do they act like they are deprived and cannot afford food.

 

[blueta2]

Dont you hate it when ppl ask you what you are eating?? Drives me crazy!!

Especailly if they hear you are dieting. They just have to know what you are eating.

a while back I was eating 4 times during the day and would heat up stuff and they would all ask what I was eating.
I mean what is that? I would NEVER EVER go up to anyone and question where they are going or what they are eating.

 

[blueta2]

I work with the same people apparantly.

do you give them a "look"? Ignore them? what?

 

[heatherrae]

Depraved....a good word. I mean, we all make decent money, we are all grown ups, why the hell do they act like they are deprived and cannot afford food.

Carb addiction!



GUILTY!

 

[reno240]

I have read your post about noisy people, I have given this particular matter a lot of thought, and I just have two questions;

Do you have a picture of yourself in this top of yours? - AND - Can I see this picture?

 

[jnevin]

My office has almost full length windows for the wall or whatever that faces the rest of the office. Every time I have a friend or customer in here the coven of nosey fatticles buzzes around looking at the people in my fuggin terrarium (sp?). Just looking and whispering. Then when they leave the losers come in, sometimes one at a time, sometimes in clusters, asking who it was. It's a goddamn mortgage company. You'd think they'd have seen a customer before. Fuck.

 

[Faizakafez]

you contributed to the cause of obesity?

but nice gesture in an evil way i dig your hidden messages.. one rung on the corporate ladder!!!

white collard crimes... sneaky!!!

 

[BNG]

Def a nice thing to do for your Bud.

As for those annoying nosey types, I'm usually a smart ass if they bother me. For the "where you goin'?" Q I answer with things like, "out to your car to steal your shit", "meating your wife", "going for a nooner". The only time it didn't shut them up was when I said I was heading to lunch for a nooner and the temp asked if she could come along! Talk about catching me off guard.

 

[blueta2]

you contributed to the cause of obesity?

but nice gesture in an evil way i dig your hidden messages.. one rung on the corporate ladder!!!

white collard crimes... sneaky!!!

to be honest, this guy is obese (400 lbs) but was 500. I organized his gastic bypass (b/c he asked me to). He's been good about not eating junk, but today he was crying so I thought maybe a moment of his past pleasure would help.
It did, he said that was his cheat for the week

 

[blueta2]

My office has almost full length windows for the wall or whatever that faces the rest of the office. Every time I have a friend or customer in here the coven of nosey fatticles buzzes around looking at the people in my fuggin terrarium (sp?). Just looking and whispering. Then when they leave the losers come in, sometimes one at a time, sometimes in clusters, asking who it was. It's a goddamn mortgage company. You'd think they'd have seen a customer before. Fuck.

That happens here also. Being a buyer, I see reps a lot. One will come in and everyone asks who it was. If it's a sexy female, then they trip over themsleves to find excuses to come to my office.

So you have full length windoes? How do you pick your nose?

;-)

 

[heatherrae]

to be honest, this guy is obese (400 lbs) but was 500. I organized his gastic bypass (b/c he asked me to). He's been good about not eating junk, but today he was crying so I thought maybe a moment of his past pleasure would help.
It did, he said that was his cheat for the week

Awwww...that makes me sad. Poor fella. I wish I could give him a hug.

 

[jnevin]

That happens here also. Being a buyer, I see reps a lot. One will come in and everyone asks who it was. If it's a sexy female, then they trip over themsleves to find excuses to come to my office.

So you have full length windoes? How do you pick your nose?

;-)

I go to the bathroom and blow my nose. What sucks is when a friend sends an email without a warning and I have a full screen of vag facing the office. Or when I have to make the occasional "adjustment" and see that I was totally busted. This one girl calls me out on it. Beautiful.

 

[blueta2]

Awwww...that makes me sad. Poor fella. I wish I could give him a hug.

I will give him a hug when I leave and tell him that's from a friend.
He's a sweet man. He's never been married and he's alone a lot. His only friend was his sister whom he was with every weekend.
She has breast cancer and it spread to her lungs.
Life.....I guess I need to (like Swole said) chillax a little

 

[blueta2]

I have read your post about noisy people, I have given this particular matter a lot of thought, and I just have two questions;

Do you have a picture of yourself in this top of yours? - AND - Can I see this picture?

LOL

I can take one, but that will cost you? How much chocoalte can you send to Canada quick?

 

[bw1]

Awwww...that makes me sad. Poor fella. I wish I could give him a hug.

I need a big hug

 

[Jon79]

I need a big hug

k

 

[bw1]

k

 

[Jon79]

fag

 

[bw1]

fag

 

[blueta2]

I go to the bathroom and blow my nose. What sucks is when a friend sends an email without a warning and I have a full screen of vag facing the office. Or when I have to make the occasional "adjustment" and see that I was totally busted. This one girl calls me out on it. Beautiful.

I could not handle not having privacy. Not that I do anything weird, but I have suppliers in and eat my lunch quietly and would hate having ppl staring in all the time.

 

[Cal_21]

I want to feel you deep inside of me

 

[ukkared]

I don't know why people can't mind their own business, but that is like my pet peeve. Some people just have nothing better to do obviously.

 

[Gymgurl]

i thought you ment on EF...That is because they do not have a real life....

 

[blueta2]

i thought you ment on EF...That is because they do not have a real life....

Actually, no one on EF has ever asked me personal stuff.
Here is another good example; just came in 2 hrs late (sick from meds I am on and up most of the night). I walk in and 3 people come up to me and ask me why I'm late? I didn't answer any of them.
How can you deal with these people politely? I've tried and now I'm going to have to be rude and ask them to mind their own biz.
I would NEVER EVER ask anyone where they were if they were late or were not in.

 

[blueta2]

ok, this just happened.......a guy who doesn't even work in my dept walks into my office and says "Good afternoon"
I replied "What does that mean?" (I knew what he meant)
He goes "Well you are 2 hrs late"
I replied "How come you're keeping track? Don't you have better things to do in your life? It makes me sick how all of you infringe on my privacy"
Then I asked him to leave

NOW I'M MAD!!! What a way to start a day

 

[Gymgurl]

Actually, no one on EF has ever asked me personal stuff.
Here is another good example; just came in 2 hrs late (sick from meds I am on and up most of the night). I walk in and 3 people come up to me and ask me why I'm late? I didn't answer any of them.
How can you deal with these people politely? I've tried and now I'm going to have to be rude and ask them to mind their own biz.
I would NEVER EVER ask anyone where they were if they were late or were not in.

Then your lucky!!