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Why are people such a$$h*les?

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My husband can be a real dick at times.....2 former coworkers, me & a current coworker were going to get together for drinks tonite....they got there & a table b4 me (couldn't find a parking spot) and got a small table with not enuf room. Hubby sits at the bar & I sit with the ladies. Blah blah blah.....as we are leaving he insults my current coworker, who is a bitch & will make the last 4 mos b4 severance hell for me cuz of him....then he claims it's not his fault after I told him why couldn't he just keep his mouth shut, then I had to walk home....IT'S 17 F'N DEGREES OUT!!!!!!!!!!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

OK, done venting for now.....
 
So why did you walk home? Don't give him any nookie for at least 6 hours.
 
Yeah well it sucks to be me.....I guess....dick.....Why can't people just shut the fuck up & then if they can't admit that they f'd up?? I mean really?? By telling my co worker that she doesn't pull her weight & is lazy won't help me....she can make my life miserable.....but then it's my fault.....ugh! Men!! That's it...I'm done with em....
 
jenscats5 said:
My husband can be a real dick at times.....2 former coworkers, me & a current coworker were going to get together for drinks tonite....they got there & a table b4 me (couldn't find a parking spot) and got a small table with not enuf room. Hubby sits at the bar & I sit with the ladies. Blah blah blah.....as we are leaving he insults my current coworker, who is a bitch & will make the last 4 mos b4 severance hell for me cuz of him....then he claims it's not his fault after I told him why couldn't he just keep his mouth shut, then I had to walk home....IT'S 17 F'N DEGREES OUT!!!!!!!!!!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

OK, done venting for now.....
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Sorry for your ordeal, it sounds really awful. But in the interest of fairness, I do need to hear his side of the story, so please tell me how did he see the situation?
 
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anabolicmd said:


Sorry for your ordeal, it sounds really awful. But in the interest of fairness, I do need to hear his side of the story, so please tell me how did he see the situation?
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No clue.....he was drunk & being an ass....when he gets drunk he acts like an ass.....he just ups & tells her that she doesn't work as much as me & that she doesn't pull her weight & my wife had to work 2 Saturdays in a row when did you??? Shit like that....I don't need it...

He was acting like such a dick that I wouldn't get in the car with him & had to walk home....:rolleyes:
 
Sounds like he meant to be protective. We feel the need to defend our turf.....it's a man thing. Where you being challenged by someone at the time?
 
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jenscats5 said:


No clue.....he was drunk & being an ass....when he gets drunk he acts like an ass.....he just ups & tells her that she doesn't work as much as me & that she doesn't pull her weight & my wife had to work 2 Saturdays in a row when did you??? Shit like that....I don't need it...

He was acting like such a dick that I wouldn't get in the car with him & had to walk home....:rolleyes:
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ouch...well, yeah, that was stupid of him to say that, he totally compromised you with your coworker. At least shes not your boss, right? And on the other hand heck it was stupid of him but fuck it, go into work, and dont even give a shit about her, dont be embarassed or uncomfortable, and watch your back. The gloves are off, against your will but as stupid as he is he is your husband and you gotta just deal with it. Unless shes in a position to fuck with you, I wouldnt stress over it.
 
Dial_tone said:
Sounds like he meant to be protective. We feel the need to defend our turf.....it's a man thing. Where you being challenged by someone at the time?
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Nope wasn't being challenged....we were saying our goodbyes & out of the blue he acts like a dick ......I tried to blow it off but the other 2 were uncomfortable....I could tell....I just wanted to get out of there so just walked away......Told him so out in the parking lot......but he wouldn't let it go....on & on about how she doesn't do this or that...whatever....DON'T TELL HER THAT.....
 
okay, he fucked up then...no soup for him.
 
Thats really messed up he left you to walk home. I wonder how he would have felt if something bad had happened to you. It's amazing the stupid things people do when their angry, and they never think what might happen to others because of their temper tantrum.
 
Well, here's another fun part to this so happy fun time...........he called the COPS!!!!!!!! Who just left.........they took it as a verbal domestic disturbance.......whatever that means...now he's worried that he'll get fired from his job cuz they track filings & driving records, etc.......great! If you were soooo f'n worried about losing your job WHY DID YOU F'N REPORT IT THEN???????? WHAT IS YA AN IDIOT???

Obviously I got home -- walked most of the way & got a ride for part but I made it. Dumb ass.
 
You can come stay at my place. I have heat and I won't call the cops on you (unless you eat the last Haagen Daz bar).
 
Dial_tone said:
You can come stay at my place. I have heat and I won't call the cops on you (unless you eat the last Haagen Daz bar).
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Is it warm there?? It's freezin here.....
I need to get back on my diet, so you can have the last Haagen Daz bar all to yourself....
 
Dang, it's down to 54 degrees here. that's gotta be a record or somethin.
 
Taps said:
Cops? I don't get it...why did he call the cops?
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To report me missing, but they took it as a domestic call instead.......which if his employer finds out about it, he's gone...

but there were no charges filed, so I don't know.........
 
Girl no way would I have walked home. F*&^*& that!. Id make his stupid ass walk home LMAO either that or i would wait till he drove us home and then tear into him about his wrongdoings. Sorry to hear about your siutation. But you really didnt HAVE TO walk home LOL
 
Smurfy said:
Girl no way would I have walked home. F*&^*& that!. Id make his stupid ass walk home LMAO either that or i would wait till he drove us home and then tear into him about his wrongdoings. Sorry to hear about your siutation. But you really didnt HAVE TO walk home LOL
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I hear ya girlfriend! BUT, to a certain extent I'd rather walk home than deal with his BS.........I can take care of myself....but it was COLD.....just wish he hadn't involved the police........:(
 
You're Husband is one unlucky man I bet. You sound like a fucking nagging bitch. So who drove you home? some guy and you blew him on the way home to get back at your husband?

Many it's the fina but this post just annoyed the shit out of me.
 
flex123 said:
You're Husband is one unlucky man I bet. You sound like a fucking nagging bitch. So who drove you home? some guy and you blew him on the way home to get back at your husband?

Many it's the fina but this post just annoyed the shit out of me.
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Sorry it annoyed you, that wasn't my intention....just needed to vent....it's not that I am nagging, it's just that he didn't need to say what he said or do what he did (but drunk people do dumb things).....I walked most of the way home and didn't have any type of relations with the ride I got -- c'mon what a dumb suggestion......
 
flex123 said:
You're Husband is one unlucky man I bet. You sound like a fucking nagging bitch. So who drove you home? some guy and you blew him on the way home to get back at your husband?

Many it's the fina but this post just annoyed the shit out of me.
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Karma for that.
He probably thought he was helping at the time LOL


He called the cops coz he was worried about you, sounds like he loves you give him a break.
 
unclebully said:



Karma for that.
He probably thought he was helping at the time LOL


He called the cops coz he was worried about you, sounds like he loves you give him a break.
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You are correct & I agree with you, BUT I don't understand the laws regarding how the police report incidents & although no charges were filed, if his employer finds out he's out of a job....which would royally suck.....
 
jenscats5 said:
My husband can be a real dick at times.....2 former coworkers, me & a current coworker were going to get together for drinks tonite....they got there & a table b4 me (couldn't find a parking spot) and got a small table with not enuf room. Hubby sits at the bar & I sit with the ladies. Blah blah blah.....as we are leaving he insults my current coworker, who is a bitch & will make the last 4 mos b4 severance hell for me cuz of him....then he claims it's not his fault after I told him why couldn't he just keep his mouth shut, then I had to walk home....IT'S 17 F'N DEGREES OUT!!!!!!!!!!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

OK, done venting for now.....
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I don't blame you hubby for being mad.You should not have let him sit at the bar by hisself in the first place.
 
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deteras1 said:



I don't blame you hubby for being mad.You should not have let him sit at the bar by hisself in the first place.
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I didn't -- he got a table & I sat with him instead of my coworkers.....he was at the bar for maybe 10 minutes by himself, which he insisted on....
 
jenscats5 said:
Yeah well it sucks to be me.....I guess....dick.....Why can't people just shut the fuck up & then if they can't admit that they f'd up?? I mean really?? By telling my co worker that she doesn't pull her weight & is lazy won't help me....she can make my life miserable.....but then it's my fault.....ugh! Men!! That's it...I'm done with em....
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Maybe you should upgrade to Beasts? :alien:
 
I wonder if peope would have a different opinion about this post if it was the man saying that his wife got drunk and told off a co-worker then the man walked home?
 
jenscats5 said:
Hey Beast -- how are you feeling?
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Hey Jen!! Hows everything been? Im feeling pretty good, aside from my back. It still keeps me from doing any pressing movements, and little back training. Maybe it just needs some rest. PM me anytime if you need someone to talk to!
 
Why the hell would your husband get fired for calling the cops because he was worried about is wife.

As far as him saying shit to your coworker ya that sucks but he was drunk. Sounds to me like you come home all the time bitching about her and never actually say anything to her. Just letting her walk all over ya. So in your husbands drunk logic he probably thinks he's doing your a favor by calling your coworker out.


So in short all this could've been avoided if you actually told your coworker she needs to pull her weight.
 
Smurfy said:
I wonder if peope would have a different opinion about this post if it was the man saying that his wife got drunk and told off a co-worker then the man walked home?
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well obvious it would be different if it was a man who posted this. We're woman haters here.

but serious I don't think that would happen. Men don't get pissed at dumb shit like that they usually back up their woman no matter what she does to others.

You handled that situation like a typical bitchy woman by walking home and trying to make him feel like a total piece of shit and even still after that he was still worried about you and called the cops to help him find you.

You sure as hell won't find me walking home crying about a woman who embarashed me in from of co-workers. If she said something to my co-worker i'd laugh and be like your drunk stop embarshing me.

Seriously answer this question...what fucking good did you walking home and being all pissy pissed off at him for making a comment do?

Think next time and stand by your man and handle things differently. Whats done is done and you could have just waited till you go home and told him he had to much to drink and made you look bad in from of other poeple.

The co-worker won't say anything to you I bet and you shouldn't feel ashamed of yourself or your husband around her in the future.

Well that was just a slur of thoughts I just typed ut there...probbly not clear and came of a bit too harsh.

My bad.
 
flex123 said:

Think next time and stand by your man and handle things differently. Whats done is done and you could have just waited till you go home and told him he had to much to drink and made you look bad in from of other poeple.
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Maybe he should have stood by her and STFU when she asked. Instead now he's sweating his job just like she was sweating hers. I was drunk is the worst excuse in the history of mankind. People use being drunk as an out when they say things they didn't have the balls to say when they're sober.
 
crew9 said:
Why the hell would your husband get fired for calling the cops because he was worried about is wife.

As far as him saying shit to your coworker ya that sucks but he was drunk. Sounds to me like you come home all the time bitching about her and never actually say anything to her. Just letting her walk all over ya. So in your husbands drunk logic he probably thinks he's doing your a favor by calling your coworker out.


So in short all this could've been avoided if you actually told your coworker she needs to pull her weight.
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He works for a company that requires employees to have a clean record & driving record as driving is an integral part of the job. Also, he said he went to report it as a missing person but they took it as a domestic disturbance complaint. I don't know if that goes on your record or not (driving, etc) but now he's freaked out about it.

You are correct that I do complain at home about my coworkers....we have 4 months left b4 layoff & to me it's not worth saying anything to anyone about it......this woman is also on anti depressants & mood swing stuff, etc.....she is very very moody & acts out....people at work are very tip-toeish around her when whe is in a "mood" I just don't think it's worth creating a situation cuz I think she's nuts & nothing will ever be resolved with her....
 
Sucks about the situation with the coworker. Perhaps she is using this "on pills and mood swings" to her advantage. Either way with layoffs coming your probably playing it smart.
 
flex123 said:
well obvious it would be different if it was a man who posted this. We're woman haters here.

but serious I don't think that would happen. Men don't get pissed at dumb shit like that they usually back up their woman no matter what she does to others.

You handled that situation like a typical bitchy woman by walking home and trying to make him feel like a total piece of shit and even still after that he was still worried about you and called the cops to help him find you.

You sure as hell won't find me walking home crying about a woman who embarashed me in from of co-workers. If she said something to my co-worker i'd laugh and be like your drunk stop embarshing me.

Seriously answer this question...what fucking good did you walking home and being all pissy pissed off at him for making a comment do?

Think next time and stand by your man and handle things differently. Whats done is done and you could have just waited till you go home and told him he had to much to drink and made you look bad in from of other poeple.

The co-worker won't say anything to you I bet and you shouldn't feel ashamed of yourself or your husband around her in the future.

Well that was just a slur of thoughts I just typed ut there...probbly not clear and came of a bit too harsh.

My bad.
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#1 I didn't cry

#2 When an angry drunk man takes the steering wheel & turns it so the car goes into oncoming traffic I'm not dealing with the BS, so I pulled over gave him the keys & walked home....

#3 I hope she doesn't say anything....

#4 You're right I should have waited till I got home & dealt with it...I will keep that in mind in the future...me walking home just made the situation worse but it seemed like the right thing to do at the time which was leave the situation that appeared to me to be escalating into something worse, but that happened anyway...thank you for your perspective

Flex, I don't think you were harsh you spoke your mind & gave your opinion, no BS & I like that.....
 
Dial_tone said:



Maybe he should have stood by her and STFU when she asked. Instead now he's sweating his job just like she was sweating hers. I was drunk is the worst excuse in the history of mankind. People use being drunk as an out when they say things they didn't have the balls to say when they're sober.
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I agree -- people's restraint disappears when they are drunk....and it's a poor excuse for acting like an ass....
 
flex123 said:
well obvious it would be different if it was a man who posted this. We're woman haters here.

but serious I don't think that would happen. Men don't get pissed at dumb shit like that they usually back up their woman no matter what she does to others.



My bad.
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These generalizations about "Men" and "Women" are so fucking ignorant.
 
tru that beast...its all about personality.

im a laid back kinda guy so when people cause drama I am just like...

"uh.....WTF!?"
 
jenscats5 said:


#1 I didn't cry

#2 When an angry drunk man takes the steering wheel & turns it so the car goes into oncoming traffic I'm not dealing with the BS, so I pulled over gave him the keys & walked home....

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i hope i read this wrong...


you pulled over and gave a drunk angry man the keys?

very unresponsable
 
crew9 said:
As far as him saying shit to your coworker ya that sucks but he was drunk. Sounds to me like you come home all the time bitching about her and never actually say anything to her. Just letting her walk all over ya. So in your husbands drunk logic he probably thinks he's doing your a favor by calling your coworker out.
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Sounds like he was being an ass, but I'll bet your co-worker needed to hear this. From what you're saying you didn't disagree with what he said, just that he said it. Maybe if you had said this to her, or better yet, to her supervisor a while back, she'd be getting laid off instead of you.

What do you have to lose anyway? You're getting laid off. Might as well let her hear the truth.

I hope things are worked out between you two.
 
WalkingBeast said:


These generalizations about "Men" and "Women" are so fucking ignorant.
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thats me...ignorant.

In my experience woman and men are extremely different and each have very different but distinct traits that you'd see in just about every female and every male.

Jen I seem to have jumped to conclusion and pasted judgment on what type of person you are from this post and I apologize. You actually now seem like a reasonable person by the way you handled my remarks about your situation.

I think I just jumped up and used past situations that I've been through that were similiarto yours and jumped down your throat about it.

Also I didn't know the entire story about you going in the car and him pulling crazy stuff like pulling the wheel. I thought you just left directly from the bar and left him to wonder where you went.

I've had fights were I didn't think I did much wrong and had the other person react in such a way that I felt I was the biggest peice of crap for not realizing what I had done.
 
flex123 said:


thats me...ignorant.

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Hey...The blood is off my hands now.

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