Who here got married young?

[TC2]

Sounds like you guys were doing great until you got hitched

From what I've heard and SEEN..women change almost completely once they get married.

 

[bigmann245]

That sums it up, right there.

I'm not saying it's impossible to surmount the situation, but it takes W-O-R-K major, major work. And ONE person cannot do it alone. If you both work towards it, and you're both willing to be honest and cooperate, it's not an impossible task. But it takes both people working at it, and often what happens is you've got one person who is investing more energy into it, sooner or later resentment bubbles over and then it's like some big surprise to the other person ...

i swear you took the same course in college i did about marriage...lol

 

[velvett]

Met her at 19, engaged her at 20, married at 21.

Coming up on June 11th, my wife and I will have our 2nd Year of Marriage complete. After the second time I met her we were staying up till 6am watching Threes Company, and everytime she came down to visit her soon-to-be-roomate and set up her room, I was there. I think, ever since we have started dating, we have maybe had a total of 3 weeks apart ever since we became a couple, and that is stretching it.

Why'd I do it? Because I knew what I wanted, and who I wanted. I have a problem with people in general, I can't stand to talk to most people for an hour or so at a time because they grow boring, or their ignorance spews out. My best friend, I talk to him a day or two out of every few months, my wife is the only person I can stand to see, and talk to everyday.

I don't think any other woman on this planet is more fit for me to raise kids together. And when I'm so old I start pissing my pants, she will be there to laugh about it with me and tell me about the times she has pissed her pants.

Very nice.

ps. we joke about getting old all the time...