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Who do women prefer?

Who do women prefer?

  • Jerks

    Votes: 55 66.3%

  • Nice guys

    Votes: 28 33.7%
  • Total voters
    83
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Who do women prefer?
 
IMO, they are attracted to the assholes.As soon as some one is nice they get afraid and ruin the whole thing.
 
Angel said:
IMO, they are attracted to the assholes.As soon as some one is nice they get afraid and ruin the whole thing.
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HMMM! That means I am either an asshole or the whole thing is gonna blow very shortly. LOL
 
Well depends on your definition of "nice guy". If you're in generally a good mood, have a good sense of humor, and are motivated for life than you'll pull plenty of woman. If you mean the kind of guy who kisses ass and worships bitches, than the only thing you'll be pulling is your own dick.
 
"Nice guys" can be really wishy washy & too much in touch w/ their feminine sides. There's gotta be some happy medium somewhere...!
 
Sassy69 said:
"Nice guys" can be really wishy washy & too much in touch w/ their feminine sides. There's gotta be some happy medium somewhere...!
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i believe i am a fairly happy medium but girls rarely give me a second look
 
Good looking guys are usually not nice. When they are nice, the girl freaks out that she's gonna ruin it and try to do "all the circus" to impress and this is how she ruins it.
When you meet someone you can't tell if he's nice or jerk. Sometimes not even after few months or years..
 
Gee you women make it so confusing. Be nice but not too nice, don't be too kind.

AAAAAHHHHHH

No wonder my girl friend drives me crazy.

You girls are all on the same wave length. :p

Just joking. I just try and be me and let the chips fall where they may!
 
Allright, be a man, don't be a pussy. Nice ie: flowers, dont call her on names, don't own the girl. Too nice, breakfast, lunch, dinner by guy all the time, calling us "are you home yet, I am so worried" Calling 6 times a day that you are thinking about us, you love us and this and that us. Basically when you try too hard and don't give space.
 
pre-approved TITCR:

The girlies who want to have some fun want the hi-test asshole.
The women who want to get married and settle down want the nice guy. They then cheat with the hi-test asshole.

The moral of the story is: Be the hi-test asshole.

The End.
 
I think some girls, ones that doubt their self worth, find a guy who talks down to them attractive because it makes them think the guy is too good for them.

Ive even heard a lot of pick up strategy lately where you approach a girl and give her a mild insult, something about her clothes, looks or figure that while isnt just dogging her, is somewhat derogatory to immedietly make yourself appear better than her in her eyes. Pretty messed up, but apprently its successfull with some women.
 
I like the guy that can be both ... a gentleman when out with the lady and has manners ... and then a guy who can shoot pool, drink beer and talk dirty in the bedroom. And I was lucky enough to marry him.
 
wootool said:
this is lummy on smurfy's account right? lol
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lol no.

I like a man who is respectful of me and thoughtful but who also has a strong personality and who is courageous and who has balls (not just the ones between his legs). I dont want him to he a dickhead, but I want him to be confident. Confidence is sexy as hell


Lumberg has all of these qualities. :p
 
Smurfy said:
lol no.

I like a man who is respectful of me and thoughtful but who also has a strong personality and who is courageous and who has balls (not just the ones between his legs). I dont want him to he a dickhead, but I want him to be confident. Confidence is sexy as hell


Lumberg has all of these qualities. :p
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He sounds dreamy. If you guys break up, give him my number.
:worried: :rainbow: ;)
 
Sassy69 said:
"Nice guys" can be really wishy washy & too much in touch w/ their feminine sides. There's gotta be some happy medium somewhere...!
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Just because someone is a nice guy doesn't mean he is a flake, or too in touch with their fem side.

Bottom line is, a guy needs to treat his woman with respect, show her love, and be true and honest to her.

Any guy that would treat a woman poorly is not a man IMO. You cheat on your woman or lie and decieve her, or abuse her verbally, mentally, or physically, you don't deserve her because she doesn't deserve to be treated that way.
 
StickFigure said:
Just because someone is a nice guy doesn't mean he is a flake, or too in touch with their fem side.

Bottom line is, a guy needs to treat his woman with respect, show her love, and be true and honest to her.

Any guy that would treat a woman poorly is not a man IMO. You cheat on your woman or lie and decieve her, or abuse her verbally, mentally, or physically, you don't deserve her because she doesn't deserve to be treated that way.
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Shit why didnt I think of that answer.

Thats gonna pull some serious tang.

-
 
w84me said:
I like the guy that can be both ... a gentleman when out with the lady and has manners ... and then a guy who can shoot pool, drink beer and talk dirty in the bedroom. And I was lucky enough to marry him.
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odd
i am no where near georgia
not unless canada got moved
how i wish
 
I look like a prick. I am fairly intimidating looking. I have a shaved head, goatee, fairly good sized and I almost always look pissed... at least, thats what I have been told, lol.

I see A LOT of sweet looking girls checking me out. It seems like every girl I have ever been with loved the "bad boy" image that I had, at least at first. Then once they got to know me and realized that I wasnt really as bad as I looked, they either hated it or loved it... there was no in between.

My wife and I actually just talked about this the other day as we were reminiscing about when we met. She said she loved how I looked like a badass... but that once she got past the partying-phase of her life, she was happy to have me who was able to be as good a man as she could have ever asked to have in her life. She says im the perfect mix :verygood:

GO ME! heh
 
I was trying to vote both LOL. I think they are both important. Some girls like assholes and others like charm, and others like a combination. I do prefer playing the nice guy though...





~\/ac
 
You know what? I think anyone that would intentionally be a dick thinking it's going to improve their chances of getting a chick is crazy.

But then again I know it happens. Luckily for me I prefer women that are as confident so a woman who prefers a dick has no attraction to me. It's win/win.

I mean, if you don't honestly like to make other people happy in general (to the extent that it's practical), I think you're fucking psycho anyway.

One thing I've learned recently is that there's a match for everyone. There are guys out there who are, well, just "out there" and I see a woman on their arm.
 
StickFigure said:
Just because someone is a nice guy doesn't mean he is a flake, or too in touch with their fem side.

Bottom line is, a guy needs to treat his woman with respect, show her love, and be true and honest to her.

Any guy that would treat a woman poorly is not a man IMO. You cheat on your woman or lie and decieve her, or abuse her verbally, mentally, or physically, you don't deserve her because she doesn't deserve to be treated that way.
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The thing is, a "nice guy" will treat a woman with TOO much respect, with TOO much of his love (and affection), and be TOO open and honest to her about his feelings. To a woman, he is a guy that kisses her ass, is a bit too "needy", and she automatically feels above him because of it. And because of that, she will not feel any type of attraction or passion for him because she sees him as too big a wuss. THAT'S why nice guys strike out.
On the other hand, a cheating, lying, and abusing type of man isn't necessarily seen as a "bad boy" type, neither does having a felony record or owning a motorcycle. A "bad boy" type isn't scared to be open with a woman and isn't scared to voice his opinions. Most "nice guys" will say things that he thinks the woman wants to hear (opinions, points of view, nice compliments, etc...). While a "bad boy" will instead call her on her opinions, while proudly standing by his own. He will not be afraid to tease around with her, while a "nice guy" wouldn't dare because he would be afraid of somehow offending her in the process. To a woman, a "bad boy" is an alpha male, is more interesting and fun to be around, and inside her, the "challenge" that she can "change him" automatically clicks on. A "nice guy" to a woman is, basically, boring.
 
megamania500 said:
The thing is, a "nice guy" will treat a woman with TOO much respect, with TOO much of his love (and affection), and be TOO open and honest to her about his feelings. To a woman, he is a guy that kisses her ass, is a bit too "needy", and she automatically feels above him because of it. And because of that, she will not feel any type of attraction or passion for him because she sees him as too big a wuss. THAT'S why nice guys strike out.
On the other hand, a cheating, lying, and abusing type of man isn't necessarily seen as a "bad boy" type, neither does having a felony record or owning a motorcycle. A "bad boy" type isn't scared to be open with a woman and isn't scared to voice his opinions. Most "nice guys" will say things that he thinks the woman wants to hear (opinions, points of view, nice compliments, etc...). While a "bad boy" will instead call her on her opinions, while proudly standing by his own. He will not be afraid to tease around with her, while a "nice guy" wouldn't dare because he would be afraid of somehow offending her in the process. To a woman, a "bad boy" is an alpha male, is more interesting and fun to be around, and inside her, the "challenge" that she can "change him" automatically clicks on. A "nice guy" to a woman is, basically, boring.
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By your definitions of the two, I would agree that, that type of "nice guy" is just seting himself up for problems.
I've never heard anyone define a "bad boy" in the way you did but if that's the definition we're talking about then I agree with that as well.
When I say a "nice guy" I mean it from the standpoint of treating a woman like she deserves to be treated, with respect, honor, caring, and love. But you can do that without being some mamby pamby wall flower. To respect her IMO means to be open and honest with her even if opinions differ.
 
Smurfy said:
So what youre saying is, by bad boy you mean confident?
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Exactly. Plus a "bad boy" type will usually set a standard for himself for which type of woman HE wants. The "nice guy" will, instead, court a woman with all types of actions and stuff, hoping that she will see him as a type of man that SHE wants. There is a difference.
 
StickFigure said:
By your definitions of the two, I would agree that, that type of "nice guy" is just seting himself up for problems.
I've never heard anyone define a "bad boy" in the way you did but if that's the definition we're talking about then I agree with that as well.
When I say a "nice guy" I mean it from the standpoint of treating a woman like she deserves to be treated, with respect, honor, caring, and love. But you can do that without being some mamby pamby wall flower. To respect her IMO means to be open and honest with her even if opinions differ.
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I think our opinions differ in how we are using the term "nice guy". The way I see it, a typical woman sees the typical "nice guy" or a man as "too nice" as being spineless.
I think your definition of being a "nice guy" could be better described as a "decent person". I think that we all agree that a man should be a decent person in how they treat a lady. Both "nice guys" and "bad boys" have the capacity to treat a woman this way.
The difference is, a "nice guy" will treat a woman this way because he puts her on a pedestal (he wants HER to choose HIM). A "bad boy" will treat a woman this way because HE chose HER as the one he wants to be this way to.
 
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megamania500 said:
I think our opinions differ in how we are using the term "nice guy". The way I see it, a typical woman sees the typical "nice guy" or a man as "too nice" as being spineless.
I think your definition of being a "nice guy" could be better described as a "decent person". I think that we all agree that a man should be a decent person in how they treat a lady. Both "nice guys" and "bad boys" have the capacity to treat a woman this way.
The difference is, a "nice guy" will treat a woman this way because he puts her on a pedestal. A "bad boy" will treat a woman this way because he chose her as the one he wants to be this way to.
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I think we can agree on that. :beer:
 
StickFigure said:
I think we can agree on that. :beer:
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:beer: I'll drink to that!

Now, the question remains, who do women prefer, jerks or nice guys? Well, the way I see it is that women do gravitate more toward the jerk for the reasons I talked about in this thread. But its not the "jerk" in the guy that attracts the women. Its just that the guy that has the mystique that women find attractive also has it in him to act like a "jerk" many times. People see a fine woman with someone who they consider a jerk, and they wonder what the woman sees in him. She may wonder this herself. He may treat her bad at times and all (which to everyone, makes him a jerk). But its this mystique that keeps her coming back to him. Now, a confident guy isn't necessarily going to automatically be a jerk. But alot of times, one comes with the other. So a woman stays with a "bad boy" NOT because he's a jerk, but DESPITE the fact that he's a jerk, so she can enjoy this "mystique" that "nice guys" don't show or possess.

I hope that sheds some light on the "nice guy" vs the "bad boy"
 
wootool said:
pre-approved TITCR:

The girlies who want to have some fun want the hi-test asshole.
The women who want to get married and settle down want the nice guy. They then cheat with the hi-test asshole.

The moral of the story is: Be the hi-test asshole.

The End.
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women like assholes....period. Assholes have no integrity, ethics, or honor....and yet women are severely attracted to them. I gave up trying to figure this out a long time ago.
 
Try this....next time you see a hot looking chic get her attention then scream "BITCH GET YOUR ASS OVER HERE RIGHT NOW AND GIVE ME HEAD......please. There ya have it the best of both worlds.
 
i thinks its depends of the situation, define jerk guy & nice guy..

if the kind of a woman that like a jerk guy as in asshole,woman beaters etc then that is another story, she must have been phychology and emotionally problem the reason of why she's wanting and looking the same kind of behaviour for the guy....

if we are talking about mr nice guy,how nice ? nice guy that always following everything what the womans command ?? then that must be a very boring .... :evil: :mix:
 
redsamurai said:
women like assholes....period. Assholes have no integrity, ethics, or honor....and yet women are severely attracted to them. I gave up trying to figure this out a long time ago.
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Its because society trains women to search for noble, stable, nice men who may not be super attractive.

But when womens rights came around, they started to rebel against what society has tried to teach them. This makes them crave the anti-good guy, the really good looking jerk who treats them like crap and just uses them for sex.

Even if they marry the good guy, a part of them needs the bad guy so they fuck/suck bad boys like that on the side.

The longer a woman stays single the more likely they are to become "hooked" on the bad guy - its becomes a self fulfilling prophecy, the "I always end up attracting jerks" BS. In fact, they cant find themselves attracted to a nice, stable, noble man.
 
CrazyK said:
Well depends on your definition of "nice guy". If you're in generally a good mood, have a good sense of humor, and are motivated for life than you'll pull plenty of woman. If you mean the kind of guy who kisses ass and worships bitches, than the only thing you'll be pulling is your own dick.
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got that right
 
I've come to the conclusion that women prefer jerks most of the time unless the nice guy has money, then they may prefer him. That is only until a jerk comes and takes her away so if you are a nice guy you better have deep enough pockets to keep the jerks away.
 
Women love DRAMA. Dating an asshole gives them plenty to talk about with the other hens in the hen house.

It's primal...chicks want you to take control and tell them to STFU once in awhile.

They don't want to be slaves, they don't want to be verbally or physically abused. They also don't want a chick with a dick at their side. Happy medium keeps things rollin.

:Tin foil hat on: :chomp:
 
Well I’ve always been the nice guy even through high school. I do not regret it one bit. IMOP the ones that did not want to date me were not dateable in the first place. I truly believe that women go for assholes so they have a reason to break up with them if they feel they no longer want to be with that person. The nice guy on the other hand doesn’t give you a flat out reason to justify leaving. Women like to have a way out at any given moment. I never gave them a reason so when they broke up with me the main reason was I was too nice. I always said bullshit they are just scared that they may actually like someone and don’t believe it’s real. I’m happy I didn’t change, I found the person that I truly believe is the one I will spend the rest of my life with. We had our rough times but we finally worked them out and we just went over 10 years of marriage. We treat each other the same way. I will never change that. The assholes that the other women married are divorced. Even my best friend form back home. He was an ass, he got ALL the chicks. Got married had 3 kids, all girls, and is now divorced. I told him "now watch when your girls bring home the bad boy like you were what are you going to do then?” Karma is a bitch and it will get you every time.
 
I prefer a man who is nice to me, does not have to be a "nice" guy. My husband had one girlfriend prior to me that he was nice to and the rest he was kind of an a-hole too. I was the same way with all of my prior boyfriends. However, when we met each other, I never treated him like I did the rest and he totally treated me like a royalty. It was funny, many people told me that after we got married, they felt like my husband was finally approachable. Moral of the story... some women will not like the all around walk all over nice guy, but prefer the man with some attitude as long as he is nice to her.
 
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