Which is worse?

[big4life]

Person A

The supposed friend who violates your trust to someone that doesn't even know you. With information that is not widely known, but others do know.

Or

Person B

The one your friend tells something to, and they turn around and use that information to cause problems for you personally, even though they don't even know you.


The friend can claim that he let something slip, and it was an accident, but the other person went out to deliberately hurt you.

 

[BIG_I_69]

was that friend specifically told not to disclose that said information to anybody else?

 

[big4life]

was that friend specifically told not to disclose that said information to anybody else?

No, but I can't see where this information would come up in a normal conversation.

 

[theoak01]

The friend

there is nothing worse then backstabbing friends

Im dealing with a big problem about a so called friend of mine right now who is constantly violating my trust and having no consideration for anyone

the latest example was saturda after a work park he was suppose to drop a few people off and then come back to my place to crash for the night with a few other buddies

we left the hall at 12 and he didnt call or show up until 230
I live with my parents and that shit didnt fly and I got a shit storm coming down on me because he woke them up coming in

and the thing was he has his cell phone on because I call him at 130 to see where the fuck he was

Fucking prick people man

 

[BIG_I_69]

if the said friend knew that there was a possiblity that the other person might use the information against you then they dont value the friendship very much

but on the other hand people do occasionally let things slip out accidentially and later regret saying them ... but nothing can be done to change the past

 

[big4life]

The friend I can almost forgive, just for him being stupid, but the other one is the one I'm more pissed at. I just don't understand how a person can think that he is building himself up by tearing down someone else.

 

[BIG_I_69]

^^^
for some poeople that's the only way they can derive their self-esteem

 

[Bikini Mod]

^^^
for some poeople that's the only way they can derive their self-esteem

WORD.

My mother used to say, "Sweetheart it is better to have people that talk about you. (In an unflattering fashion) It is because they are jealous. You should be upset when they STOP because that means that they feel sorry for you."

Seems a little twisted, but it is very sadly, TRUE.

 

[polarpixie]

Tough call. If person A is sincerely sorry and you believe it was really an accident then person B is worse. If person A has a history of doing this kind of thing then I would think twice about telling person A anything too private in the future....


Sorry about whatever is going on Bigs.

 

[MassiveGunz]

Sorry bro Im not good at ridles.

Is this something fro school?

 

[big4life]

Tough call. If person A is sincerely sorry and you believe it was really an accident then person B is worse. If person A has a history of doing this kind of thing then I would think twice about telling person A anything too private in the future....


Sorry about whatever is going on Bigs.

Thanks polar.

It will get better.

I guess that some people would rather tear someone else down than build themselves up. Maybe it's the easy way, I don't know. Let's just say that people keep disappointing me.