I have it shipped to me. I have a 100% clean record, I'm white and upper middle class, run my own charity...there is no way I get any time whatsoever. If I had any marks on my record I'd be more sneaky.
I use my true addresse and name. Looks less suspect. If your source is in a country where it is legal and he packs well you have nothing to worry about. If you chose to order domestic... well that a whole 'nother ball game. One that I chose not to play.
??? Domestic is 100% safer than bringing shit through customs. Hell in Canada the only reason the postal service can search a package is if its been ripped open. Get a PO box with a fake addy, before you leave the store marker "return to sender" in black and leave.